THE PURPOSE AND THE RESULT

What pushes us to move has a goal, and this can be inminent or in the longer term. The end is the driver with the intention of achieving a result. Every day at the beginning we  have to fill the void with various activities, and in each one the focus is to get a concreteness that serves for a continuity, a maintenance or an increase. The end sometimes fits the result and others not. In what depends on our aptitudes and  resources, without the contribution of third people, the purpose and the result can go hand in hand. When external factors beyond our control intervene, the result can be close or far away according to the imagined or desired.                                                                                                                                         What goals do we pursued ? Which one do we need and which want are dispensable ? Who asks before embarking on commitments that can condition and limit in several areas ? The prevailing superficiality, the worldly approach, points to temporary purposes, that don´t actually expand potential or make us better. Apart from the usual purposes of subsistence in which we are all immersed, individual singularity is who must mark differences finding our place in the environment contributing to the collective.                         The efforts have the objective of achieving a profit, otherwise we wouldn´t them. And if evereyone is agree in the successive processes from childhood dependence and ignorance until the maximum possible autonomy in adulthood, the purpose to reach resources for our continuity is not the purpose in itself, this is the means to discover the why of all experiences and the true purpose beyond the dense and visible.         Studying is a bridge between a previous lack situation to another supplier of resources to operate in the environment. Work is the means of exchange to have what is necessary to cover the gaps in the dependencies. Relationships are the great challenge to develop in order to learn how we must to act to establish harmony, where the plot takes place outside by what emerges from the inner, to the return to the interior with the experienced and its echo to continue refining our expressions through the increase of consciousness which must be indicating successive purposes according to the progress as being becomes apparent.        

ANTIDOTS FOR CRITICISMS AND DISQUALIFICATION

Attend constantly to the disqualifying comments for being opposed to their criteria, desires or way to proceed, apart from not modifying what they would like, the only thing it involves is polluting the environment with what is categorized as bad language. Attack, criticize the system, because the prevailing context displeases them, without alternative proposals aimed at improving the existed one, it is also a sign  of futility by not providing constructivism to insist on negative expressions.                                                 To all these warriors of words, do they believe that the strategy will revert to a verifiable gain ? According to the seeds will be the fruits, and if they are bitter so will the ripening be. Wanting to change what can´t be done at the moment ¿ will the brillant idea or pouring bile pave the way to what you want ?                   In front a sterile attitude because it is unproductive, the anditot are constructive answers and effcient management. In front of silly words deaf ears. To counter stupidity, clear discernment and perspective view.                                                                                                                                                                 These perfect beings can explain to us the manual of good manners, that it seems they fail at the beginning, checking that the only thing they dominate are the exabruptes ? By the fact of insisting on contmept, in the effort to discredit, do they believethat it will bring them closer to the goal they would like to achieve ? Complain, use unpleasant tone and language, what it does is bore, tire the listener repeatedly over and over again nonsense words, which bring directly from an unaccepted frustration that they do not overcome because of their own ineptitude that betrays them as what they really are, incompetents. In their blindness they do not realize that the content of the speeches with assiduous expressions such as humiliation, indignation, non compliant with the law, divisive, that´s exactly what they come doing themselves as a hallmark of the house. A monumental projectation like a mirror unable to see how busy they are in searching for the most muddled terms possible.                                                                            What can we do with this group of exalted ? They are always right and the opponents curiously are always wrong. We can not have a dialogue with someone who is ready for viscerality when things don´t go as they want. Responsible in words and their incidence, and the actions and what it entails. Now, wanting to unload the accumulated impurities inside, they will hardly be held responsible of all the emptiness manifests that reveals an unsustanaible arguments. They don´t have to give an account because they are flawless, and the responsibility they leave it for those who keep making mistakes according to their judgments. All these prophets of a recent past and the current one, they disappear from the scene, and then no one remember them. The bad manners have not led them to success, rather to poverty, because the lack of intelligence inevitably leads to failure.

ANGER AND DEPRESSION : TWO SIDES OF THE SAME COIN

Anger and depression are two sides of the same coin. Both are expressions of frustration because it doesn´t happen what we want. Anger is externalized with noise, aggressiveness, and other people or goods can receive the consequences. Depression is internalized, it is usually worn quietly and not flaunted.            Anger reveals and unsatisfied desire of the ego that he wants to impose by force or bad manners their claims. there may be an alleged justification but by breaking the harmony it loes any consistency.             Depression internalizes a disappointment with what he or she sees, feels or experiences. Externally it tends to go unnoticed unlike the anger that disturbs the environmental tranquility .                                               The versicles 62-63 page 28 in the Bhagavad Gita says : By pondering over sense objects conceives an attachment to them; from attachment comes desire; from desire anger is born; from anger comes illusion; of anger illusion confused memory; of confused memory the destruction of reason; by the destruction of reason it succumbs.                                                                                                                                         Anger causes wisdom leaves him or her, and his face loses its illumination. It is a matter of observation. It goes from the human to animal category. The human and non human image has to do with higher intelligence which manifest itself as light on the face. They don´t want to accept some facts, unfulfilled aspirations, and losses the opportunity to see the design involved behind the events.                                    One of the ways to overcome anger is refrain from eating. Corrects the face and restores wisdom, because anger is precipitation, thoughtlessness and not foresee the consequences. The person can see injustices, he wants to revolt, and moved only by a frustrated desire can not discover the underlying reason that makes experience this context. Depression likes the anger, are unfulfilled expectations.

THE FORMS OF REACTION : IMPROVE OR WORSEN

How we do react to a situation ? It will depend on the magnitude, the possible implication, the value given to the context, the capacity for analysis, impartiality, of ideological criteria, of what is significant or important to us. We can be reactive or proactive. If the emphasis is on what annoys. what displeases we will not be able to decipher the underlying message and the opportunity of the experience.. If we observe with perspective with a view of the whole, we can access to an scenario that can offer unforeseen possibilities more favorable than the current situation.                                                                                    We react with calm or exalted ? Rationallly or for emotions ? Depending on what we decide, development will go in one direction or another, and we approach to an improve or to the worsening.                              The same topic arouses defenders and detractors. How is it possible this divergence ? The difference lies in the concepts. The individual idiosyncrasy driven by ideals which are given values, With a cultural influence and awareness that allows us to be equanimous and broad minded.                                                What are the arguments to believe that certain conditions improve or worsen ? Are they able to expose pros and cons from impartiality ? Can someone vehement and irrational elucidate clearly on what is appropiate or not, what is convenient or not ? From subjectivity must be objective.                                    How can we defend the perpetuation of static postures for centuries and centuries when the vital rythm constantly pushes forward ? Preserving a cracked foundation really lead to an ideal situation ? What is the real reason for the fear of change ?Why don´t they want to face challenges that lead to more satisfactory conditions ? We have free will that depends on knowledge to decide in one direction or another. The more primary and reactionary, more tendency to get worse by one´s own negligent expressions. The improvement of a context comes from a clear and broad discernment, in the environment and relevant resources to specify it.                                                                                                                                     Every day dilemmas arise where we can improve or worsen. If the passions and incongruities prevail, it can not be decisive. Improve requires a compendium of skills and good manners, accompanied by a precise analysis, equanimity and whole approach.

HUMANITY AND THE ORCHESTRA OF TITANIC

In which humanity resembles the orchestraa of titanic ? In which both are embarked on adventure with the intention of experiencing rewarding moments, but the appearance of the unexpected creates problems which ultimately lead to a disastrous situation despite the efforts to avoid it.                                               Did it make sense and logic to play while the ship was sinking ? It is logical for human action to degrade the environment in search of interests, warned that it must proceed in a diametrically different way ? What is the use of excessive enrichement that should bring more quality if dangers beset on multiple fronts ?      If we aim for a goal and the result is the opposite, means that the approach and execution is not the appropiate.                                                                                                                                                        The orchestra of titanic thought of the passangers, his attitude was altruistic, however, humanity, pushed by the own interests, does not harmonize the personal with the social, which is the cause of problems.       Immersed in banality, self centered in particular desires, we have a great ignorance of the optimal guidelines that we should adopt for a better life with more possibilities than the usuals. And sure that very few people know the exemple shown in the volume VIII of the Zohar section Shemot 2 page 8. Says so : when we choose to walk the path of spirituality, our moments of affliction and sadness they are mercifully brief.  However, if we allow ourselves self centered desires, then the suffering is intensified and prolonged. This intensified suffering and prolonged it is observed in multiple fronts and ways. Chaos and destruction derive from the darkness, they are the consequence of clumsy actions and erroneous intention, because it is light that brings abundance, peace, harmony and well being.                                                     The spiritual precepts show that nothing happens that has nothing to do with our correction. Therefore we shoul ask ourselves : Why do we have to experience these degradations ? How we will see the message hidden in the event to understandand  the possibility of amendment ? Bad affaire with the prevailing level, the generalized unconsciousness and the strictly mundane goals. Go playing impotent while the ship is sinking.

COMPLAINTS COME FROM THE VOID

Why do we complain ? Why from our point of view it is not happening in the past or in the present with the correction that should be between the potential and what is. We can complain for various reasons : because something is missing; for poor service; due to poor conditions; for not receiving careful attention. In short, failure, low quality, not being up to what is offered. Frequent complaints are directed at human incompetence or to a malfunction of machinery. Between what we want and what is there, the argumentative protest indicating the faults and the possible resolution alternatives, revealing the obstruction with the tools and means to unblock it.                                                                                         There are well founded  and also unwarranted complaints. Waste of time, money, repetition, because at some point in the process the harmony has been broken and the stranding has surfaced to show deterioration,negligence, inconsideration or ineptitude.                                                                                  There are individual complaints from you to you, and collective complaints in the form of strikes and demonstrations. The strikes are of a labor nature in demand of better conditions. The demonstrations are of a social nature for what is already in force or novelties that they want to prevent. Compalining indicates that the substance of the matter is not correct, is not appropriate, and improvement is needed to correct this Are those who protest always right ? It depends of what they intend, the room for maneuver betwen what is possible or not, between the more or less. Want more or different for a more satisfactory future than the present is the goal.                                                                                                                                           Everyone wants the permanent optimal functioning of what we use, of need, of the private and socially shared, And the external is the reflection of the internal. What´s outside doesn´t work as it should, with breakdowns, delays, inconvenients, is that doesn´t work in a considerable number of people. And we just have to focus on relationships, in the environment, in the deterioration of nature and behavior. Dissonances, conflicts, tension, aggression it has been forged progressively by not fitting one´s own desires with the environment. These generally they are the ones who tend to complain, Unable to realize their attitude and subsequent consequences. Behind what does not work at full capacity there is a touch of attention . It´s about finding out the cause and taking advantage of it by making the appropriate adjustments

LOWS PREVENT PROGRESS

Duality is present everywhere, two parts with unique characteristics performing a function where dependence pushes to establish connections in search of a goal that brings a result.                                       We have to make constant connections, and we have to know how. We can do it basically thinking about satisfying the desires of the ego, or with a breadth of horizons that realize the need to look for the globality of mutual benefifs.                                                                                                                                             What do we usually see in the prevailing claims of many people ? The own personal profit without a broad perspective of the possible consequences of what is intended and the impact on others.                               Society is designed for an order. Every time an action classified as wrong, rules and laws make an assessment by rendering a verdict. If we proceed according to the just we do not have to fear danger or losses. If we transgress the code of conduct, sooner or later we will find ourselves immerse in tribulations. Swindle, steal, kidnap, rape, kill, they are all manifestations of desires to satiate the lower primary nature at the expense of others with agressive methods where momentary gain leads to dire long term consequences. Getting money in different ways is the goal. These criminals are unawere that each has individual supervision that places us in a specific place with precise characteristics for our individual function in relation to the collective.                                                                                                                Transgressions worsen the conditions, hence is why is it so difficult get out of this cercle if is not through consciousness of diametrically opposed purposes with everything that involves the approachs and staging. What drives you to mistreat ? From the mildest to the greatest aberrations. How has the degradation been forged in the individual ? Nothing happens by random. Who is robbed is because he has a debt due to previous conduct deviate from what is considered correct. Who receives an aggression, even if it looks casual on the outside, it is not. Is difficult to know the origin and the innocence of the victim in appearance. The criminal has tuned into a low vibration and serves as a warning, however, having transgressed the laws will receive the corresponding sanction or punishment in the appropriate measure and time.                                                                                                                                                           Every day multiple episodes happen of aggressors and assaulted,indicating that we are misguided in our pretensions, and by violating the integrity of others we will not even get the resources we long for, neither peace nor tranquility nor freedom. The lows only lead to precipice experienced on all fronts.

EXACERBATED PURITANISM

We complain easily irritated by trifles which we raise to an enormous category, a reflection of the prevailing narowness of concepts that are disproportionately valued for lack of breadth.Everything comes down to what I think, believead and value from an ego point of view.                                                                  What is punishable ? What is considered impure ?  Who knows how to perfectly distinguish the difference between right and wrong ? What can be done and what can not, what is acceptable and what unacceptable. some words, some tastes, a way of dressing. What´s wrong ? What is inappropiate ? for what reason ? every word, every expression, every action, is examined with a magnifying glass and the insignificant runs wild. overreacts, and then spend days and days turning around specific anecdotes treating the case and the alleged offenders as demons.                                                                                                                            We have drunk our understanding, we are in the era of exacerbated puritanism. Everything can be put into question, and if you don´t like what we say or do, the accusing finger wants to pass judgement and must be exemplary.                                                                                                                                                    There are moral policemen monitoring the dress, and other areas exactly the same. Is best to keep distances and don´t put the hands to according which places  and nor interpret that we force someone.         On the one hand we are not prepared to tolerate what is considered an infringement, but we are ready  to consent the people similar like us.                                                                                                                   There are people that cross boundaries when the behavior becomes intimidating, invades the space of others, puts the integrity in risk, and every case must be observed with foundation.                                        Never will be possible an unanimity when behind the crooshairs the criteria and values are sustained by morality, ethics or a determined religion. Costs a lot to be equanimous and unbiased when it is imbued with an often reductionist vision unable to expand the perspective and show more mercy instead the maximum severity.                                                                                                                                           Are all laws fair ? Are all judge infallible  ? If the laws have shortcomings or are incorrect. If the judges they are often driven by their own assesssments. If the fundamentalists are not impeccable, Then how should we proceed to restore purity ?

RESIGNATION

Resignation assumes that we have a defined goal and when we set in motion to make it happen, circumstances beyond our control prevent us from achieving this. Resignation shows us on several occasions that one thing is what we want and the other is what is possible. It is the most effective way to tame the ego and strengthen humility.                                                                                                              Accept what can not be changed. Things happen constantly that we are powerless to prevent the course of events, where the only thing we  can do is take note so that the losses or the harmful serve us as a reference for later.                                                                                                                                             By choice or by force is how we can respond. Fortunately without resisting or giving too much importance. By force for not being able to face the context.                                                                         Resignation is impotence before the facts. The desire is one thing and the result is another. It also helps not to rely too much on the process that goes from the beginning to the end, specially if it depends on the external collaboration of others or unforeseen situations far from our scope of maneuver.                             Sometimes may be it´s good not to get what we want because of the later consequences. We must be clear about the  objective and possible triggers. Park the purpose temporarily if the context is not favorable, and insist later when the conditions may bring more possibilities.                                                                         Everyone experience episodes where has to resign. Personal longings involve externalization and depend on the environment, of skills, of resources, of others.Achieving it is a matter of our temperament and what is most convenient. Accepting outcomes with peace reinforces maturity. Of the many things we would like to obtain a certain way, in the end we do it according to what is necessary at each moment both individually and collectively.                                                                                                                           If we achieved all the claims quickly without obstacles or oppositions, it would be very harmful to the individual himself. To learn, expand the consciousness, we must fit continually with others and the environment, and the occasions that do not occur as desired, they are great opportunities to focus on what is convenient uncovering the background of the event in order to pour the energy in more appropiate ways.

OPEN TO, CLOSE TO

Open can indicate start, close can indicate finish. What do we want to open up to ?  What do we want to close ? Sometimes opening up has favorable connotations, and others not according to the context and what it can cause. And the same goes for closing. Sometimes is advisable, and sometimes not. We must open ourselves to what can represent an improvement, possible healthy earnings,and expand horizons. . And vice versa in terms of closing, in that which put us in danger, which lead to losses, that leads to ill, to deterioration.                                                                  Open is a synonymous to externalize, close to internalize. We must be open to constantly increasing our potential and with the discernment to know when it is not appropiate to open up to what experiences can be more harmful than advantageous. Internalization is essential to reveal what drives us to say, to dor or what we want and where go.                                                                                                                            In the morning when we wake up facing  a new day, externalization begins, social contact, execution of activities. In the evening, after fulfilling the obligations, is time for introspection, to analyze our diary behavior to know possibles hits and errors and how improve them.                                                                Open to determined relations and close to others. The various changes in the time of friends, occupations, means and opening and closing. Beginnings meant opening and endings meant closing.                               With the years changes tastes, criteria and values, and this implies open to a certain questions in one determined time, and then closng. Those relevant activities, friends that seem to fit so well with us, suddenly disappears and they are replaced by other tendencies and other contacts that marks new stages. Everything is part of everyone´s process, some stagnant, and other renewing themselves, depending on the temperament and concerns of these involved.                                                                                                 Which was good in a period to open in order the further development and goals, then is better closing. And what had been unconscious or unknown it starts to become part of what we value, open to experience to what suits the characteristics of the moment.                                                                                               Know open to or close to, is the challenge that acompanies us every day to choose the most convenient.