When the relationships are not harmonics they are converting in a weight. The enjoyment goes away, instead of wanting to communicate you fences, instead of wanting to be near what you want is walking away. There is nothing more bitter, more frustrating that the disappointing relations. The reasons can be infinite since the selfishness passing by the ruthlesness, ingratitude, lies, etc, everything that ultimately derives from the lower nature. In the world there are many conflicts product of chaos, because if it had order relations will respond to this order.
Darkness deprives to see in clarity, and this results in all incorect forms of thinking, feeling, and behaving that we see every day. Negligence, bad manners, the ineptitude, dishonest behavior, unfortunately surrounding us in all areas.
We could live in abundance, in the splendour and a welfare state, but when no one thing on the other hand, and when not a person another, we must be disgusted, attend to thousand of times to samples unsocial attittudes who disturb the peace. And so go testing the patience to not bursty at every moment.
Some of us strive to install favorable conditions in general and others with your behavior bother, in a rarifical atmosphere where the controversy could explode at any moment by the usual incorrect forms.
It is regrettable to note as adults, it doesn´t matter how old are, they follow with your infantilism. Have grown in stature but they been left stranded in childhood, and as they don´t know behave as they should, it is inevitable the discord for the more stupid reasons that one can imagine.
Relationships are the cornerstone of the individual and social development, therefore we ought to have the maximum care for better functioning and result, but if not we have clear awareness in this sense, what will be continue this discomfort endless.
Friday 28 October 2011
Wednesday 19 October 2011
RELATIONSHIPS ( V )
The quality of relationships depends on what we are capable of transmitting. How many more attributes we have forged in all senses, more qualitative dose we can pour into the other. The more defects, more poor will be the content of what is shown.
It is curious in humans observe high aspirations and instead a low prosperity to strive to make viable such aspirations. All fill their mouth with the word "love" and then we see the selfishness prevailing pushed by various interests. We want to friendship that make us vibrate, and often what there is coldness, distance, indifference. We want to have children, and then not know educate because the parents are limited to do it. We want to win a high salaries, and if we are prepared sometimes managers offer little, and when they are ready to share then we are not enough trained for the position. We want many social services but paying little in taxes, and when we pay a lot is that politicians, multinacional, and the established power who gives us service regrettable that the rest is shared between then for their insatiable greed. Thus it is impossible to have optimum interrelationships, because when not fail for a reason it is doing so in another. It is our low level of awareness, move thinking in the own benefit, and the excessive valuation material that spoils the relations. While we continue with the same patterns will be unviable print quality, because this requires other values more refined, more instruction, more sensitivity, to ensure the collective.
Progress has been made in certain aspects respect to past decades, but there are still many people abused, and also an unworthy treatment of disregard with use and abuse toward animals. We need to change the schemes at the root, and if prevails the strenght over the reason this not will be possible. The real progress is to know dealing with consideration the members of the nature, and until we are capable of doing so does not install the authentic progress by more technology and amenities surrounding us.
It is curious in humans observe high aspirations and instead a low prosperity to strive to make viable such aspirations. All fill their mouth with the word "love" and then we see the selfishness prevailing pushed by various interests. We want to friendship that make us vibrate, and often what there is coldness, distance, indifference. We want to have children, and then not know educate because the parents are limited to do it. We want to win a high salaries, and if we are prepared sometimes managers offer little, and when they are ready to share then we are not enough trained for the position. We want many social services but paying little in taxes, and when we pay a lot is that politicians, multinacional, and the established power who gives us service regrettable that the rest is shared between then for their insatiable greed. Thus it is impossible to have optimum interrelationships, because when not fail for a reason it is doing so in another. It is our low level of awareness, move thinking in the own benefit, and the excessive valuation material that spoils the relations. While we continue with the same patterns will be unviable print quality, because this requires other values more refined, more instruction, more sensitivity, to ensure the collective.
Progress has been made in certain aspects respect to past decades, but there are still many people abused, and also an unworthy treatment of disregard with use and abuse toward animals. We need to change the schemes at the root, and if prevails the strenght over the reason this not will be possible. The real progress is to know dealing with consideration the members of the nature, and until we are capable of doing so does not install the authentic progress by more technology and amenities surrounding us.
Friday 7 October 2011
RELATIONSHIPS ( IV )
Detachment is basic to any relationship. It comes from an inner strength, of knowing how to look beyond the aparent, to trust in the future without relying on anyone specific. Through detachment we should not limit ourselves because of the fears, availability of a wide margin of maneuver dedicating it to cultivate the latent powers. On the contrary, close ties constraints, reduce the freedom of action to enter into contact with other people and perform activities given the case. If we focus primarily on someone as if it were a supplier in vaious aspects, we cease to be fully us becoming dependent in order to obtain hypothetical expectations.
The internal void breeds dissatisfaction and we wrongly believe that from outside we filled, and it is not. How can we pretend that fills us someone who is empty ! It is a fiction that people want to, but the truth is that the relationships are usually superficial, insubstantial and little rewarding to the extent of emptiness that have those involved it.
Why the couples do not achieve introduce harmony that they would like to ? As a matter of vision and claims poorly framed. Men do not have to see women as sex objects or maids that facilitate life, this is primary. Man has to be fixed in the female attributes for incorporating them in. And women don´t have to search in the man a source of resources, a company, security, but observe the male qualities to integrate in them. Be complemented and supplemented from the respective individualities without any dependencies, submission or imposition.
Humans with all its shortcomings, impurities and imperfections cannot provide fullness dutifully in the head or the heart of the other, therefore it has to be clear that relationships are bridges to go from one side to another to exchange. But if we are looking for peace, serenity, wisdom, we have to forge in us, and nobody from the outside can do so in our place.
Detachment is cultivated by getting closer to God so that we feel the satisfaction of whatever relationship. A limited awareness not will enable us to experience the fullness.
The human love can operate a time, feeling at the end of a time that we are missing something more, believing that we can succeed in someone new different, but by the evidence that this don´t arrive becausse the cherished cannot com from the demostrations below, but from the exchanges with highest regions trhrough a lifestyle and ideals that we connect with our higher self.
The internal void breeds dissatisfaction and we wrongly believe that from outside we filled, and it is not. How can we pretend that fills us someone who is empty ! It is a fiction that people want to, but the truth is that the relationships are usually superficial, insubstantial and little rewarding to the extent of emptiness that have those involved it.
Why the couples do not achieve introduce harmony that they would like to ? As a matter of vision and claims poorly framed. Men do not have to see women as sex objects or maids that facilitate life, this is primary. Man has to be fixed in the female attributes for incorporating them in. And women don´t have to search in the man a source of resources, a company, security, but observe the male qualities to integrate in them. Be complemented and supplemented from the respective individualities without any dependencies, submission or imposition.
Humans with all its shortcomings, impurities and imperfections cannot provide fullness dutifully in the head or the heart of the other, therefore it has to be clear that relationships are bridges to go from one side to another to exchange. But if we are looking for peace, serenity, wisdom, we have to forge in us, and nobody from the outside can do so in our place.
Detachment is cultivated by getting closer to God so that we feel the satisfaction of whatever relationship. A limited awareness not will enable us to experience the fullness.
The human love can operate a time, feeling at the end of a time that we are missing something more, believing that we can succeed in someone new different, but by the evidence that this don´t arrive becausse the cherished cannot com from the demostrations below, but from the exchanges with highest regions trhrough a lifestyle and ideals that we connect with our higher self.
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