Be faced with several options and do not know which to choose, that sometimes it will be unimportant things, but when the decision has an impact on most remarkable factors with regard to us or to the neighbor, the dilemma will be to choose.
The common question in these cases : what I want ? what I do ? This carry to measure, analyze, assess, and acording to the context, priorities, interests, where the own character with the particular concepts, capacity for discernment and perspective, will be the key to making the right decision and the relevant action.
The election more or less adequate, will depend on the inner harmony and life style, having more concerning anyone who has a considerable introspection and live with patterns of balance. They would become resources acquired by a set of thoughts and actions which prepare the individual to meet diverse challenges.
To more self knowledge less dilemmas, because the same general sharpness respect to us and the environment that surround us, facilitates the coupling without the hesitation that accompany those missing of enough clarity.
Over the years, by complex situations that could become present, if we have taken advantage of the time, the disjuntive will be reduced to having incorporated a growing intuitive wisdom.
The part of uncertainty, doubt, supposses a portion of darkness that we want to clarify. It is about observing in width, to see the possibilities and decant to unblock the situation if it is the case, and after to introduce the appropriate variants face to a favorable resolution.
Dilemmas can be of all type, focusing them in terms of I like, I don´t like, I need or not. Also, that now is valid for several reasons, can change adapting to new tendencies according to the personal own readjustments.
What we should focus more attention on strive to be fair, correct, when we are confronted with unusual experiences where we don´t know exactly what to do in order to not mistake or disturb.
Always will emerge not controllable facts that will require a response on our part. What counts is to be fair, not allow themselves to be misled by negative emotions in relativizing what happens and the consequences; because at the end of the day the importance of each thing and each case is strictly personal without general application.
Wednesday 30 May 2012
Thursday 17 May 2012
SATISFACTION - DISSATISFACTION ( IV )
There are four factors that determine whether we feel happy or unhappy. What we do, what we have, what we get, and the type of relationship where the valuation as a whole decant the balance toward one side or the other.
What we do is the most important, because it is our latent potential in action, where it has to reverse in a fruit that has to give a reward. In the preparation, the effort from one phase to another, progressive development, we have to taste the process with what has been happening, and whatever activity the more intensity more capacity to achieve satisfaction.
What we have as resources in the form of skills and assets, gives us access to certain conditions and benefits. If we have a high academic level the options for paid work will be higher, and if finances are consistent, the capacity to make choices and more options will lead various facilities.
What we get has to do with what we do and what we have. The more dynamic more possibilities to move things, depending on the approach and the powers to extract a benefit.
The type of relationship is as important as the other sections. In what we do, what we have and we get, the others are always intervening, without their cooperation we could not obtain neither the degree of training achieved nor incomes for autonomy of movements.
Often, centered in our ambitions, we don´t think in the neighbor with enough attention and consideration, when it is thanks to the contribution of each one that we now enjoy a lot of benefits and services.
The satisfaction has to come from the expression of virtues in works of profit, in the desire to contribute with something useful to anyone who needs it and what you want, get out of the self centered usual tasks to focus on support of the collective.
The satisfaction lies not neither know much nor wanting all kinds of worldly pleasures. The satisfaction comes when we are able to fit with the greatest possible number of people establishing cordial ties, caring and helpful of mutual reciprocity, The rest are only preparations to achieve this.
What we do is the most important, because it is our latent potential in action, where it has to reverse in a fruit that has to give a reward. In the preparation, the effort from one phase to another, progressive development, we have to taste the process with what has been happening, and whatever activity the more intensity more capacity to achieve satisfaction.
What we have as resources in the form of skills and assets, gives us access to certain conditions and benefits. If we have a high academic level the options for paid work will be higher, and if finances are consistent, the capacity to make choices and more options will lead various facilities.
What we get has to do with what we do and what we have. The more dynamic more possibilities to move things, depending on the approach and the powers to extract a benefit.
The type of relationship is as important as the other sections. In what we do, what we have and we get, the others are always intervening, without their cooperation we could not obtain neither the degree of training achieved nor incomes for autonomy of movements.
Often, centered in our ambitions, we don´t think in the neighbor with enough attention and consideration, when it is thanks to the contribution of each one that we now enjoy a lot of benefits and services.
The satisfaction has to come from the expression of virtues in works of profit, in the desire to contribute with something useful to anyone who needs it and what you want, get out of the self centered usual tasks to focus on support of the collective.
The satisfaction lies not neither know much nor wanting all kinds of worldly pleasures. The satisfaction comes when we are able to fit with the greatest possible number of people establishing cordial ties, caring and helpful of mutual reciprocity, The rest are only preparations to achieve this.
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