Activities, amusement or relations, are tracks that can awaken interest in us. The component of enjoyment is essential to feel attracted to one another. Without a motivating factor the attraction is not possible.
The novelty, the topic, the charm that it can cause can approach to experiences and people. And the good sensations of a moment don´t guarantee the continuity, neither in the same nor with the involved.
The principle is like the seed that contains the potential to develop. To measure the initial acquires form, according to the contribution, the sensations and tuning, the interest will be maintained or will fade by the movements produced during the journey and its impact.
The enthusiasm, the taste of the beginning, lies in the print and what we believe will come next. But these are just samples of a totality, and when that does not conform to our character is greater than the confluences, the attraction hardly will prevail.
The base of what attracts us can be consistent, and preserve it will depend on various factors. Introducing new manners for not stagnate, because the monotony diminishes the incentive. Widen the perspective experiencing alternative routes, similar things with differences.
The attractive of one time, by age, by taste, ceases to be when we rattled with other topics. And exactly the same in the relations, friends or couple, prominent and related, little by little or suddenly no longer tuned, because each one made his way, and if it differs, the distance is inevitable.
Extend the attraction indefinitely requires regenrative and life giving elements. The sun and the nature never get tired of looking at, because in spite of look alike, is the vitality and what they provide that preserves the appreciation.
And this exemple serves to imitate in our actions and relations. Give light and heat, and be suppliers of goods in large doses to participate in the abundance and nutrition.
When the activities lose warmth and enthusiasm diminishes, automatically the proximity turns in distance. When the relationships lose the charm we had sense and establish the coldness and indifference, the attraction is over.
Many attractions losing in the way replacing them with other. What is important is always having bonfires lit that make us vibrate and express the best of each one.
Monday 27 October 2014
Sunday 12 October 2014
THE WHAT, BUT NOT THE WHY
The prevailing trend in us is to go talking about of what but not the why. We look at what surrounds us seeing the surface without going into the background, and with limited knowledge, only gaining access to fragments, we perform all kinds of comments and draw conclusons convinced of being successful when there is much more ignored than the known.
We are accustomed to give turns and turns to the same topics without extract the necessary clarity to replace the harmful by the benefic, unable to access to why of what has been discussed, what fills of fruitless discussions that lead nowhere.
It is very easy to talk about this or that, to this or the other, to criticize without remorse, make judgments without knowing the involved or know the triggers for what we judge. We opine about fractions separating the set, and in this way the error in the verdict is usual by the global unconsciousness.
Worried about what affects directly, the approaches for what we say and do, revolve around our own interests. From this small microcosm, with a egocentric approach, to stand in a place of other people with different cultures, needs, in moods to do, it is almost impossible for the most.
What I do, what I say, what I give, what I receive as objectives, without deepening in the impulse which leads us to these manifestations. The starting point and destination should be present and clear in our claims to know if the desired is appropriate os dispensable, if we insist in certain matters or avoid them.
Opining about facts, assumptions, from our perspective, we´ll never extract clarifying conclusions.
If we don´t know why the what don´t provide the solution, and the tendency is to focus on the what without find out the why, hence the obstruction and the difficulty to resolve several questions by the inability to arrive to the core.
Once discovered why, we continually seek the harmony, and the why of what of each situation report the best possible context.
We are accustomed to give turns and turns to the same topics without extract the necessary clarity to replace the harmful by the benefic, unable to access to why of what has been discussed, what fills of fruitless discussions that lead nowhere.
It is very easy to talk about this or that, to this or the other, to criticize without remorse, make judgments without knowing the involved or know the triggers for what we judge. We opine about fractions separating the set, and in this way the error in the verdict is usual by the global unconsciousness.
Worried about what affects directly, the approaches for what we say and do, revolve around our own interests. From this small microcosm, with a egocentric approach, to stand in a place of other people with different cultures, needs, in moods to do, it is almost impossible for the most.
What I do, what I say, what I give, what I receive as objectives, without deepening in the impulse which leads us to these manifestations. The starting point and destination should be present and clear in our claims to know if the desired is appropriate os dispensable, if we insist in certain matters or avoid them.
Opining about facts, assumptions, from our perspective, we´ll never extract clarifying conclusions.
If we don´t know why the what don´t provide the solution, and the tendency is to focus on the what without find out the why, hence the obstruction and the difficulty to resolve several questions by the inability to arrive to the core.
Once discovered why, we continually seek the harmony, and the why of what of each situation report the best possible context.
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