THE APPROPRIATE

Whatever happens is always the appropriate. What we experience now is just the precise according the conducted previously and the framework caused. Nothing is casual, everything is part of a successive link of events, among the originated by us, and the lived through contribution of other.

The evolution of each individual placing us in the optimal place to follow the task of development. Relationships play the main role to extract the potential. The different contacts established teach us guidelines, ones to follow, others to avoid, and those difficult people for us by their expression, contain a vast information with the purpose to learn certain things for our progress.

There is nothing that clash to the whole vital process happened until the moment. The opening of consciousness will show what we take advantage of to enter general improvements, and if we stuck at various levels, is the signal that not having understood  the role of events nor specific relations.

If we make changes the situations will present according to achieved new levels. To more positivism, thinking, feeling and acting, more harmonic possibilities.

Conflicts are the warning that we must correct things, and if they maintained show that we don´t see the background that causes to solve it. Are messages to decrypt, but if we don´t know unclog them,  we can not leave from the sterile inertia.

Complain, criticize, is to see only one part. The facts as occurring are as it should be according the previous, but we have the free to choose towards where decanting the present context. Whatever we decide will be the appropriate, because the cause brings the effect. If was necessary stumble many times to modify the behavior, the fact to err will have been appropriate by the back triggering.

Live is be in process, ones have more way done and they are more matures in terms of attitude and understanding, others go more slow and needs more time, being all in the appropriate context to lace actions and consequences.

If we want being surrounded by good conditions, we must express the appropriate in order to attract it.

RELATIONS IN THREE TIMES

Relationships are as varied as different at not be anyone alike. The thinking, assess individual interests, the character and a set of external influence, creates a microcosm in each one, and being self centered we are convinced that our arguments and manners are optimal.

If there is something really complicated is to know interact with others ensuring the best possible understanding. The approach of what we want, the consideration towards people involved directly or indirectly, should always be clear for the words and movements to generate the maximum concordia. If is not so is due to focus disproportionately in the own satisfaction, and from there start all kinds of conflict.

There are people who tune with us and others no, it´s a question of affinity, and within the affinity there are also differences in ideas, in the tastes or proceed. The relations don´t maintain a straight line, there are oscillations because the same members modify criteria, trends change and the evolutionary process is different for everyone.

The claim of any relationship is the harmony, either sporadic or assiduous, harmony for meaningful exchanges, profit and purpose in more or less measure. For this is a confluence is primary, one nexus that approach the both parties where everyone provides part of its resources, be money, knowledge or others.

In the different interactions established there will be links with who feel  comfortable,  where understanding will be effortless. Others, by difference of interests, character, training, will cause tension. And the third group that we will neither cold nor hot, where we don´t feel closed nor distant, simply by not having connection points to facilitate some kind of exchange.

In the same relation, depending on the season or time, we can experience with harmony in occasions, with tension in others and also with indifference.

The different changes in each one over time, discrepancies, the manner of feel it, determined the proximity or distance.

The tension is the result of divergences and the indifference an emotional absence. If we want preserve links, regaardless of personal transformation, we must observe the virtues of others, and so the harmony can be created by a constructive vision imbued with a sense