Sunday 28 October 2012

FACTORS TO CULTIVATE

If we want to have the maximum of satisfactory conditions, we have to prepare the area that makes it viable. To obtain it supposes cultivating diverse paragraph in us who are useful tools, taking advantage of the values that can offer us three components where from extract the references : thought, feeling and action.
The first point where we have to put emphasis is to observe. It is basic be able to see the components that intervene, characteristics and function. Then we must to reflect. That we have, that we claim, the viability of the intention, and how proceed to achieve the wished thing.
To compare will come later. Compare the existing thing forged in a past and to fix a plan that catapults us in the future. To decide that we need to obtain the aim and to act in order to concrete.
We all crave well-being, but it does not come alone, it has to be built step by step in the daily components.
The intelligence through the discernment, organizes and serves as a reference. The ideas and words elaborate the strategy, where the action has to give sense and consistency. The clarity and open mindedness allow accurate approaches, giving more opportunities in our goals.
It is important to restore the inner peace, which facilitates the clearest vision of us and the environment to position ourselves properly.
The self-esteem and the value that we grant to the projects, is the fuel that has to mobilize us and to let us persevere in the desired.
Will, fundamental for the expression in facts of what wants to be obtained, reinforcing the execution in the diverse section to preserve the precise conditions needed in the process.
Purpose. Any project has to be provided with direction and intention, otherwise it is useless. Any accomplishment is an idea formed of a work.
Harmony like synthesis of the diverse contributions that thas to be present in each one. It is a question of knowing, wanting and doing. The harmony is the indicator that we do the right thing.
And evidently, patience. Every thing has a few peculiarities, a treatment and development, it is a question of not precipitating the chain of successive events, in order that the initial seed culminates in the fruit in the proposed area.

Thursday 18 October 2012

FAMILY ( IV )

To cover the social demands it is necessary that a lot of people feel the need to have children to ensure the coverage of services. In addition, the succession is essential for the continuity of what is essential.
If we bear in mind that paternity is one of the acts of greater responsibility, it is vital to clarify very well what produces and what could be their incidence. Realize if is only an " illusion " with the magnitude that it represents, or well thinking to bring great people to society. I doubt many people think the second point.
Parents are a medium where the word " my " is simply related to identify these with others. They are not creators, only reproducers, in a large chain of links beyond our conscious to accomplish a purpose of cosmic order.
Having children affects freedom, space, time and resources, so before getting mortgage indefinitely should think hard about whether we are prepared, and what the consequences would be and if the aim will be globally joyful.
Focusing on the mundane is what generates the desire of wanting children, and must foresee the consequence that entails.
Actually the function is to accomplish a lace that confront parents and children a certain karma where most times it lives unconsciously without opportunities for learning and correction.
If you look at he human evolutionary level, it is not surprising the low paternal capacity to instill their children values of discipline, responsibility and respect for others. And despite this, prevail order, without finding the best ways to straighten the many problematic social factors.
If we really want a better world, first we must crops the perfection in us, and then think if is convenient or not to bring children into the world. An event of this significance requires good sense to grasp the magnitude of the event.
Before to act we must think the consequences in the short and long tern, for us and the collective. We are responsible fort what we do and everything that happens.

Monday 8 October 2012

FAMILY ( III )

Parents are the referent that have to teach us how to behave in society. From the unconsciousness in the birth to the minimum awareness, we need to know how to act with efficiency. For this purpose is paramount acquire training, and that the parents provide a mature conception of life, to transmit values to reverse in a common benefit.
Despite the family hierarchy, this fact has not mean subjugation or domination, simply a fair treatment, being treated with dignity among all. Children are not property of the parents, we are all free. The role of fathers is only physical intermediaries for which each one perform the specific function.
The family by its connotations, represent the most remarkable people, by its ties, coexistence and links have been established.
The influences received will be reflected in the manner of proceeding. However, it is only the base, the point of reference, because individually we are different with the respective peculiarities, that we are transmitting to the society.
The growth is move from dependence to independence, from an ignorance to a learning. Parents provide nutrition, and they also have to be a support in the mental and emotional.
As we acquire greater autonomy, the family goes to occupy a secundary place, until to form a new one if is the case.
The organization in small plots facilitates the concentration, a better functioning by focusing on what we can supply. And what we need and what we have to seek out, we provide other groups making all together of intermediaries.
The division in a myriad of families provides the order, otherwise it would have a dispersion negating the smooth functioning of the whole.
Everything has its reason for being, it is a question of knowing hold on us, and in the role of parents and children there is a mutual teaching and learning.
Through the experiences are new challenges that test the members of the family, and the merit is to find the appropriate expression in each case for a fluid exchange. The collaboration, dialog, and understanding must be the aim to ovecome dissonance where peaceful coexistence a reality.