CONSTANT ENLARGEMENT OR BOREDOM

Why are there so many boring relatinoships ? Because we only can demand as much as they are able to each one, and the prevailing society it only focuses on the banal, on mundane issues, ant the instruction and it was done to get a job, that´s what we have to expect.                                                                           What do we find in close, regular relationships ? Constant repetitiveness circling the same topics in a kind of labyrinth with no exit. There is no renewal because interests and aspirations are what they are, mantaining this low level of communication that is repeated daily.                                                                 Same words, same themes, same arguments, in order not to contribute anything new or significant that allows us to get out of a deadlock where we can´t see it the end.                                                                    The majority prepares only to carry out a professional ocupation, being educated up to university at the most. ¿ and then until retirement or beyond where there are new nourishments ? Stagnation begins in youth, and the lack of expansion of knowledge it makes conversations repetitive, predictable, monotonous. In order not to get bored making it extendable to the rest we must be increasing the instruction continously, not strictly focused on the labor field if it requires it, if not in the personal self introspection that awakens our consciousness about our identity, pecualiarites and purpose.                                             If no internal desire emerges, the focus will be on the limiting material aspects, and this is what see in families, couples and friendships, where there can be a lot of contact but little substance, with unsatisfactory superficial exchanges.                                                                                                               Every day is different, every stage, every decade, and on the other hand, the majority remains stuck in minimal knowledge that diminishes by not expanding it. If we put together some sort views, strictly material aspirations, and selfish approach and aspirations, leads to boredom due to repetitiveness and inability to introduce more enriching variants.                                                                                                Whe usually find two sides with low preparation, primaries desires which irremediably lead to nefarious exchanges. To get out of tedious boredom is only possible by raising consciousness. With an incessant broadening of knowledge that facilitates getting out of the strait. With a potential for a continuous development, bring new expressions, risk the unknown, because in the end when we pass from ignorance to knowledge is  to enter the unknown to do so in the known

FEARS : ASUMPTION OR EVIDENCES

How is fear formed ? It is the feeling of not being able to master a situation where we see ourselves in a prsent threat or in a hypothetical future, Faced with events that endanger our physical integrity or exposed to material losses that makes us vulnerable.                                                                                                      There are real fears and imaginary fears. The real ones are tangible, where we need to take precautions. Imagination are based on observation of various possibilities where it is to see the development of the focus that originate the fear. Be diminished in some aspect and suffer, not being able to be or feel with the faculties intact due to illness or accidents that limits resources in one or more aspects.                                  The consciousness to know that we may lose or deteriorate valued values, it should make us cautious in general terms from according to what pretensions to the way of making movements.                                     It´s all a matter of words and actions that stem from thoughts, feelings and emotions, and if they are in balance we need not fears adverse results.                                                                                                        There are many tribulations everywhere of all kinds because of transgressions. Conflicts, losses, tensions, deficits, they are the effect of precedents where the necessary harmony has not been acted upon, and the sufferings that arise are the consequence of not foreseeing the outcome. The mistakes of the past threaten the future in a present fearful of devastating effects at a personal and or collective level.                             Everything that happens is just the right thing, and the challenge is to unravel the purpose of the tests, in order to move to a more favorable context as long as we are able to decipher why and apply integrative remedies.                                                                                                                                                          As the spiritual precepts indicate : " the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom ". This indicates that any deviation from a correct behavior is to continuosly fit the parts and the whole, may result in some damage, and not knowing what it can be, when and to what extent, it is what arouses fear. However, if we try to be fair and upright at every moment, there is no reason to be afraid, because any affliction is a previous maladjustment.

THE ETERNAL INEPTITUDE

From a young age the society prepare us so that each one acquires a training that allows a minimum of autonomy in a maximum of dependencies. From the family clan to individual singularity requires spending years of study to know to operate in the surrounding environment, and with this basis prepare for a trade as a means of exchange in order to obtain resources.                                                                                     Know what, how and why in the different areas where we are, it is essential for the purposes to lead to a favorable result. Discover our characteristics and circumstances, and know how fit into each context is the taask to face that requires extensive knowledge, patience, observe, archive the influence of experiences, and with multiple rehearsals try to model the appropriate tone according to the situation, person, goal or other peculiarities.                                                                                                                                            We all long for well being and harmony, and we must generate it in the continuous fit between us and the established links in the environment and with others. We must know how, and this assumes having previously acquired skills. The will moved by desire, must be guided by an equanimous thought, a vision in perspective where the affective emotional side also participates. If balance prevails on the three fronts mental, emotional and physical, then harmony is the result. If the create by our pretensions and way of proceeding leads to discomfort and discord, is the clear exponent of not seeing clearly, clouding of ideas, harmful emotions, and counterproductive actions.                                                                                          Perhaps we have professionals aptitudes, but is also it is essential to forge them with respect to health, dealing with others and correct discernment regarding what we do, what we want and the consequences that may be unleashed.                                                                                                                                     From immemorial time, misfortunes, atrocities, aberrant events happen every day, where the desired wealth and harmony it doesn´t even come close. And it we are not able to reverse it is because we are inept, and the causes they lie in selfish approaches and interests along with a lot of ignorance product of the unconsciousness deprived of seeing clearly.                                                                                             The current technological sophistication does not improve ancestral behavior. The machines facilitate the action outside, but what really matters can only be achieved by developing internal qualities, which means having a longing for spiritual life that is the provider of aptitudes, and until this desire emerges we will continue to be immersed in conflicts, disatisfaction and the inability to improve where we should focus.