WHAT WE EXTRACT FROM EACH THING

Mobility means the pursue of some kind of achievement. To do for do not exist, consciously or unconsciously the dynamizing motivation is the extraction of a result at the end of the journey. If there is no interest, if we are indifferent, if we find out that efforts will be in vain, we don´t get started. We have inserted into the deepest of us profitability, which can bring a benefit, feeling of well being, although depending on what is involved later it can cause discomfort. We need to see clearly the goals with pros and cons, if it is worth the process we will have to speed up and the possible results. If perhaps it is better to focus on other more profitable areas, because every action has consequences, and these will be in line with the correctness or incorrectness. What do we want to extract ? What advantages will be gain by pursuing certain goals ? We can not receive attacks quiet and silent, because they are only possible by what we say or do. Someone may say that there are people who have received insults or aggressions without giving rise to it being so. What we don´t know is the history of each one and the triggers to end up receiving. Sometimes out of commitment, out of friendship, out of affection, we do not seek to extract anything for ourselves from the action executed, in these cases, the extraction of the task is done thinking about the satisfaction of the other person. In any field, whatever the activity, from the most relevant to the most insignificant, if there is no possibility of an extraction in the form of benefit or enjoyment, there will be no indispensable motivation to set us in motion. Our pretensions need a means of action, provide us with physical and mental resources, and establish connexions with people and utensils as a support for the dynamized end up bearing fruit. Shortcomings and dependencies force us to fit in the individuals with the collective. And this must serve as a reference for the coupling and the harmony extends to all areas to set the optimal guidelines focused on the common good

CHRONIC INFANTILISM

What are the characteristics of the infant stage ? Maximum dependence, unconsciousness, ignorance, desire to selfish receive, global limitation on being in the process of formation. The progressive maturity where should lead us ? Precisely to the opposite factors. Parents are the basis of support,and the spearhead to project us socially depends on us once we acquire the indispensable development. How many adults remain unconscious for ignorance ? A lot. And if is so it means that childish reminiscences are still present. How many people already of working age remain self centered without considering others in the need to perform equitable exchanges in the eternal give and receive ? In each epoch we should be in line with its specificities, what can not be is to increase the age but not mature. Child self centering is normal due to deficiencies, for emotional responses, but then we have to be responsible for what we want, of what we do and the consequences, and this mean taking into account the incidence of our actions in the environment. When we blame someone for the events by shedding responsibility; when we demand in bad ways; when we have to win even with traps; when we deceive, exaggerate, distorts the facts; when an observation or reflection can not be endured in order to improve as if we were perfect and had to correct nothing; when each movemment is only in our behalf. All these manifestations are a reflection of chronic infantilism. Who is truly mature is serious, responsible, assumes the consequences of the task, it does not seek excuses, but solutions, and instead of complaints, focuses on expanding horizons in the experienced.