THE DIFFICULTIES OF CHANGE ( II )

The duality entails fluctuations, and the movement implies change. Nothing remains static externally, subjected to oscillating rhythms, and the task is to apply a eternal precepts in the transitory.
The archetypical patterns of behavior are unalterable to have some permanent references, and we must apply them in a context of constant variables. If everything were always statics, there would be no evolution, in the change is where lies the progress to embrace new possibilities.
To physical and spiritual level, the norm is go through different stages, where each is preparatory to the next. Once peaks in one area, we must move to new phases which lead to another forms and expressions.
Profit the time is extract precisely a profit, and so ask a mental and physical activity. From the idea to the action we go forging the day to day, where the outcome will indicate if the efforts are helpful. Increase the potential must be the goal, and if is not so, then means that there are not changes, and for this reason stagnation.
Where is the vital incentive ? In doing better the things that execute, and do it different is change rudimentary manners or little developed by other more sophisticated, consistent and more rewarding.
What sense has do it everything equal without and never change anything ? What enjoyment can experience seeing everything the same way without giving options to different alternatives to widen the consciousness and allow the acces to new variants ?
We must find balance between the valuable to retain and what is appropriate to transform. There are elements that disappear and others remain, and we must distinguish between what is useful to preserve and the expendable to give entrance to new trends with their contributions.
There is always a basis to preserve, a few foundations where support us, and later to build the own life and  environment. Though and action have to be assembled, tune up to extract the optimal performance of the different purposes, and as we seek the ideal fit, the way itself was forming changes that serving to go to higher levels. The aim of change is precisely this.

THE DIFFICULTIES OF THE CHANGE ( I )

Multiples are the causes of why we can´t change. Either a lack of deep self-knowledge, without observing to fund what we say or what we do with the consequences derived. Be convinced to be correct in the various expressions and manifestations, and therefore you don´t need to modify anything. Not wanting to lose privileges or advantages, although this is often at the expense of other clutching to charges or positions for a certain benefits.
Also is the slope indulgent where we let ourselves go in vices or harmful activities, apologizing assiduously with the famous " can not be perfect " as if this was already acquit and give the approval to continue satisfying with a maleficent pleasures so finally report.
Avoid efforts, preferring the perennal mediocrity before the quality and the satisfaction of what has been achieved with tenacity.
Conform to survive rather than trying to live, with no aspirations to overcome, doing the day to day a boredom that only leads to the physical maintenance without direction or goals.
Humans with the exception of a minority, are accustomed to do what is indispensable, and once achieved, waste the time and resources in futilities. The absence of yearnings to go beyond of a constant routine limite them to a reduced plot.
The defects, impurities, the incorrect forms, repeat ad infinitum, but this seems to matter little taking into account the passivity and minimizig that is being done in the apparent deadlock. Do not consider as negative harmful acts, is the greatest impediment to transform us, maintaning inadequate patterns from childhood to old age. The perpetuation of doing everything always equal is what takes forever individual conflicts, projecting it in the collective issues that remain perennial for decades or centuries.
We are here to learn and amend everything we have to be polished. If we do not correct, is like suspending the exam continously. A lot of people doesn´t seem to bother, from here the low yield and the difficulties in establishing qualitative interactions.
The dissatisfaction prevailing in a reflection of not knowing how to change in us schemes and obstructive procedures by those who provide possibilities that generate internal and external harmony.

DANGERS

The concept of danger is a warning that if we don´t act with caution we can suffer physical consequences or other characteristics according to the case. Of course we don´t want to take bad, or undergo distressing situations, and change many of the approaches and actions, behaving just discomfort, risks and losses in more than one sense.
The danger is not only limited to body, to pass deprivation, to deal with various crises. Is also the danger of wasting life uselessly, where sure that most would not catalog so because the focus purely of subsistence we are immersed in a majority.
We do more or less the truth is that we make always little, because the attention is diverted in activities or entertainment that not widen horizons nor provide relating to improve potential conditions by he need for resources, the narrow margin of maneuver usually lose in futilities. The danger therefore is to have time, which are opportunities, and do not use it constructively.
Study, work, have money, they are only instruments intermediaries to learn how to establish connections with the environment in different levels to carry out an evolutionary purpose. If we only stayed in the middle, not going to fund, and by opportunities that present do not know how see or give the accurate treatment facilitating new developments.
The danger of being limited, to stay in the surface, are obstacles that impede progress individually and collectively. We are surrounded by various dangers, before in line with the prevailing style of the time, now by the planetary imbalances resulting from disastrous procedures where the alleged benefit only can lead to curse.
The biggest danger is the same humanity if prevail the ignorant and selfish ways, having to raise awareness of what we want and where can bring it. We live in comunity, and so we have to focus the projects if wish create a prosperous environment, just and harmonious, where all are responsible for small and big actions. Depends on us generate more security, reducing the danger with the increase of awareness and taking altruistic positions.

PRIMARY VERSUS CIVILIZED

Human behavior can be lean in two directions : primary or civilized. The primary as it´s name indicates are those manifestations rudimentary that requiring a treatment for polishing various forms of expression. The civilized is the opposite, are the ways refined resulting from education, the consciousness and the dignified treatment of the personal and collective looking for harmony.
The primary forms are instinctive, the civilized are rational. Who is primary thinks in a small, in the most immediately, in reduced capacity. Pushed by their selfish desires, it is unable to see the consequences of certain approaches lacking in logic and wisdom, triggering adverse events for the own executor and the receiver,
All the conflicts to small and large scale, are the result of not knowing fit subject and object, being made available to all kind of situations. The inability to see with clarity makes it impossible to see the consequences that can be triggered through words or actions, and so convinced of being in the right when in reality shows the opposite, in how it generates the chaos and the various shortcomings in many areas.
Who is mostly primary is easy to distinguish as shown by, it focuses on their interests, does not take into account the other, impose even for the force, threatening. Values relating to him, and what don´t like it despises. Accustomed to treat so unworthy and humiliating when don´t think or say nor does as he wants, because its opinion and manners are those that have to prevail.
Authoritarian people without appreciating those who are different nor for themselves, because all the venom that spewed a part of dirtying the environment, dirty himself.
The civilized in change, with a level of consciousness more wide and more reflective, using logic, thinking of the good of the whole, what facilitates collaboration between different auditors because what is important is the final harmonious result.
The primary sooner or later leads to failure, to deterioration, loss, because the ignorant ways lead inevitably to dire consequences. If we want the good operation will be the norm in any context, we must transmute the instinctive expressions by the discernment, what separates by what unites, the brutality by the delicacy.

LOST ATTRACTION

Activities, amusement or relations, are tracks that can awaken interest in us. The component of enjoyment is essential to feel attracted to one another. Without a motivating factor the attraction is not possible.
The novelty, the topic, the charm that it can cause can approach to experiences and people. And the good sensations of a moment don´t guarantee the continuity, neither in the same nor with the involved.
The principle is like the seed that contains the potential to develop. To measure the initial acquires form, according to the contribution, the sensations and tuning, the interest will be maintained or will fade by the movements produced during the journey and its impact.
The enthusiasm, the taste of the beginning, lies in the print and what we believe will come next. But these are just samples of a totality, and when that does not conform to our character is greater than the confluences, the attraction hardly will prevail.
The base of what attracts us can be consistent, and preserve it will depend on various factors. Introducing new manners for not stagnate, because the monotony diminishes the incentive. Widen the perspective experiencing alternative routes, similar things with differences.
The attractive of one time, by age, by taste, ceases to be when we rattled with other topics. And exactly the same in the relations, friends or couple, prominent and related, little by little or suddenly no longer tuned, because each one made his way, and if it differs, the distance is inevitable.
Extend the attraction indefinitely requires regenrative and life giving elements. The sun and the nature never get tired of looking at, because in spite of look alike, is the vitality and what they provide that preserves the appreciation.
And this exemple serves to imitate in our actions and relations. Give light and heat, and be suppliers of goods in large doses to participate in the abundance and nutrition.
When the activities lose warmth and enthusiasm diminishes, automatically the proximity turns in distance. When the relationships lose the charm we had sense and establish the coldness and indifference, the attraction is over.
Many attractions losing in the way replacing them with other. What is important is always having bonfires lit that make us  vibrate and express the best of each one.

THE WHAT, BUT NOT THE WHY

The prevailing trend in us is to go talking about of what but not the why. We look at what surrounds us seeing the surface without going into the background, and with limited knowledge, only gaining access to fragments, we perform all kinds of comments and draw conclusons convinced of being successful when there is much more ignored than the known.
We are accustomed to give turns and turns to the same topics without extract the necessary clarity to replace the harmful by the benefic, unable to access to why of what has been discussed, what fills of fruitless discussions that lead nowhere.
It is very easy to talk about this or that, to this or the other, to criticize without remorse, make judgments without knowing the involved or know the triggers for what we judge. We opine about fractions separating the set, and in this way the error in the verdict is usual by the global unconsciousness.
Worried about what affects directly, the approaches for what we say and do, revolve around our own interests. From this small microcosm, with a egocentric approach, to stand in a place of other people with different cultures, needs, in moods to do, it is almost impossible for the most.
What I do, what I say, what I give, what I receive as objectives, without deepening in the impulse which leads us to these manifestations. The starting point and destination should be present and clear in our claims to know if the desired is appropriate os dispensable, if we insist in certain matters or avoid them.
Opining about facts, assumptions, from our perspective, we´ll never extract clarifying conclusions.
If we don´t know why the what don´t provide the solution, and the tendency is to focus on the what without find out the why, hence the obstruction and the difficulty to resolve several questions by the inability to arrive to the core.
Once discovered why, we continually seek the harmony, and the why of what of each situation report the best possible context.

BREAKING LIMITATIONS

We have autonomy of movements, but in a few parameters. We can access to resources, but only in measured quantities respect to the whole. We build relationships, but only with a small proportion in one way or another we have to concentrate on small plots that we can cover and within these limits we have to be nimble in achieving the optimal degree of freedom that allows us to act without hindrance.
We are influenced by multiple factors, where only a part depends on his or her own will, and it is here where we must focus the attention, so that the efforts and decisions will lead us to the most appropriate resolution.
Who else who least is in situations where the coupling with other becomes complicated. The differences of approach often make it difficult to be understood, and what could easily be resolved can be extended indefinitely.
When a crash occurs is obstructing the free flow, limiting movements that prevent establish a more satisfactory context.
Unfortunately, the essential and enough lack of understanding, is the origin of the conflict, which may be temporary or indefinite.
The lack of vision or incorrect view, develops approaches usually focused on the ego, and from here every thing imaginable or unimaginable can trigger.
Create problems of nothing is frequent when the degree of unconsciousness is notorious, and the disregard for others is rooted with force. Absurd crises occur without sense by the inability to discern with clarity, and in consequence actions entered the chaos.
The fears, immaturity, maintain unproductive links, not daring to emancipate. To break the chains of relations that perhaps reported a support or economic security, at the expense of limited power and experience other variants. A few small interests deprive them of access to situations and conditions in which we can express ourselves with more freedom and greater possibilities.
Selfishness, unconsciousness, lack of logic, a mental confusion, cowardice, are factors highly dulling for the issuer of such demonstrations and for those who are affected through contacts,hindering greatly the relations and the fund thematic.
Breaking these limitations requests go to the opposite terms : link by others, raise awareness, clarity of ideas and courage. If they ara part of us, the proportion of freedom will be directly proportional to the good use of these.

BETWEEN TWO WAYS

We are always between two ways, what we know and the unknown, what has been done and what needs to be done, the past and the future, the end and the beginning, and so each day, trying to find meaning, and in this search, the desire to get welfare.
The human potential for one reason or another, is usually expressed in a very small percentage, hence the numerous conflicts, dissatisfaction and the inability to generate truly harmonic conditions.
We are here to develop us, where the task is to replace the layers of darkness that inclines us to make mistakes of all kinds, for clarity that should guide us toward the expressive correction. The various factors that accompany us, are the extent of our ability of light, because the same situation is not addressed as well as see. One can see a situation heavy, complicated, the other an opportunity to externalise the latent potential. The work is precisely this, convert the heavy in light weight, the discomfort in blessings, the foes in friends. Of course it´s not easy, but if we don´t work hard, life goes on inglorious if we don´t have a defined goal that will lead to an uplifting purpose.
The job to execute is immense, losing a lot of the time on the way in insubstantial occupations, defending positions that do not manage anything, with a low performance in general due to the lack of preparation.
We would like to be in a kind of fullness in all areas, but it is not possible by the own inability to create it, and will continue to be until we raise the level of consciousness and act according to this.
Improve, have more, but the question is how and why, because win by a side at hte expense of mortgage by another, is in fact not really a benefit. Advance in part and as a whole, is the goal, where each one according to its singularity has to find ways and means of introducing factors more satisfactory if you really want to.
In this journey between two ways, the universe puts us to test, and we may also be challenged to ensure that each new step, every experience, allows us to go up escalating level, so if is not stagnation occurs, and after the receding. because the vital rhythm pushes hard to go always forward.

WHAT WE DON´T SEE NOR KNOW IT

Is more what we don´t se nor do we know that the seen and known, and in spite ot this our recklessness with a portion of folly in certain occasions, makes us judge and criticize people and situations as if we had access to all information.
What easy is to criticize ! To the more minimal already give our opinion of someone that we don´t know the reasons of what drives to say certain words or do certain actions.
We are so bold that we have criteria for any item although we haven´t never tried neither experienced nor studied. Tell us things of someone do not know and we also have arguments about whether he is right or wrong.
It´s curious how the superficiality which we are living with the poor communication transmitted usually, the boldness in doing verdicts lightly lacking in knowledge and ability to elucidate in many ways.
We believe we are prepared to speak about this or that, but the reality is that only know something about some things. There is much more the ignored than the known, and we show as if were the opposite, confirming the ignorance.
What is behind exalted expressions, samples of coldness, indifference, arrogance ? Discontent, impotence, maladjustment, disconnection with life and environment, many reasons can boost to position that we don´t know the cause that is originated.
If we don´t even introspection about ourselves, neither self criticism nor reflection on the commited ¿ how we intend to go away from judging contexts even more unknown ? We are daring, for this reason the problems from centuries are still valid because the attitude has not changed.
The experiences must serve to be more prudent, more cautious, act with the minimum knowledge dealing with the unknown immensity, because what we see or know is a part, and it should be continually attentive for these minimum notions help us to say the appropiate words and perform the correct actions.

NECESSITY - DESIRE

The necessity has to be imbued with desire, because if we want to achieve something, execute an action, must contain desire. The indifference will keep us static if there is no objective to pursue.
The strict necessity is a signal of lack, otherwise is no longer necessary. The desire don´t need precisely a lack, but can be a longing to improve or satisfy in some sense. The need is primary, the desire secondary, and at the same time can merge both. The need is more to basic level, desire is a choice depending on various parameters.
As desired will give us clues to the people, trends and peculiarities. Necessity is a question of resources according to the environment and the specific situation. What we need pushes us to move. What we dont´t have and we want is what unites us all without distinction to prepare, to carry out exchanges and give us ourselves with services for the personal and collective operating.
The need is the key to bind us with each other, and through services cover the deficits of each one if we had already there.If we already have everything, don´t need to strive or come into contact with the neighbor, but this would be an absurd taking into considering that surround us and how we are designed.
With what we have we have to go to the search that we don´t have to ensure that we continue to have.
There are physical and spiritual needs, internal and external needs, we must identify it and ensure to get the intended.
Perhaps the needs are minimal in certain contexts, but we have always hoped the own progress that provide of sense the knowledge, experiences and relationships in the constant pursuit of perfection of our expressions.
What do I need ? Is missing or is dispensable ? What I desire ? Is to satisfy the ego, the lower nature or expand horizons to enter more correction ?
We need to be clear what are pursuing, because as we do we will have, and maybe once achieved the desired setting is not the authentic needs.
Achieve that now there isn´t, enjoy certain benefits that they can offer. Introduced, to obtain, for the near or far provides the appropriate in each area, this has to be the motivation.

CREATIVITY - PRODUCTIVITY - USEFULNESS

Usefulness must always be present to give meaning to the efforts with a benefit at the end of the process.
Everything that surrounds us does its work, because if it were useless or pointless, no longer be. From the most obvious to the most insignificant has a purpose an also an incidence.
The diversity of the universe is creativity. The constant spillages of nature is productivity, the result of the multiple contributions between the different kingdoms is utility.
In the world of action we have a need to cover, and to acquire them we have to offer services as  medium of exchange. This involves producing, and in the productivity we need to get the utility who is the audience for the product and what is gained as a consideration.
Create, produce, usefulness is like a string. The idea is passed to the movement to densify it in something tangible, and once completed must be applicated, because it is the aim of both the idea and its development.
Idealism is the starting point, the practicism the end of the journey, as if it is not the utility can not be present and this goes against the natural order.
We have to be useful for ourselves and in the social contribution, therefore the productivity must be coupled resources and knowledge to reverse in a global benefit for the supply and demand are being nurtured in the particular and in the collective.
Creativity is a product of a known part and unknown, and hence to shape specific ideas. Then there are the productivity that is a reproduction of previous molds. Whatever it is we have to generate new situations and conditions that we project toward a context of greater progress and potential directors. Engage creativity, productivity and usefulness is the goal to pursue in the approaches and daily executions.

INDULGENCE - FIRMNESS

Who seeks to achieve the best can not be indulgent. Lower the requirement reduces the potential, getting some result, but not the excellence.
Most strive by obligation in order to gain some reward, without injecting in the depths of themselves the deisre to be more, aspire to a better version. Study and work are the tools to perform specific actions and gain an advantage, and in these actions is where we have to be non conformist to the efforts we intend as high as possible.
Be indulgent is the result of erroneous vision, therefore give in to laziness, let pass mistakes, choose the harmful instead the beneficial, runs against the relevant conditions.
The firmness is evident with facts, needing the support of a broad discernment, agile and extensive for the movements that bring harmony and the execution of a task well done.
Firm and at the same time adaptable, have clear objectives, attentive to the improvisations, and unforeseen events that may alter the provisions to adjust the circumstances, without losing the horizon that drives us.
The indulgence justified has been to apply in specific cases where there are gaps, emergences, situations that the person does not have full mental or physical faculties, in a position of inferiority. Learn balance practicism with mercy to generate what is appropriate in each case and each time.
If we want quality we have to be exacting, and if we are with other, first we must apply it in our own skin, otherwise will have no moral force nor will be credible.
The firmness is to maintain and create new options, an applied self esteem in all areas that have to do with us. Cultivate determination reinforcing mentally to ensure that actions approached we want to achieve.
You get nothing without effort, and if anything comes without effort also fades quickly in the world of action where we are, wheter we like it or not. We need to be dynamic, knowing what to do, and the mobilized going in our behalf for the good of all; for this reason is so important to forge the firmness, for the consequences of now and tomorrow.
And in the same measure shall apply respect to other, know how to decant in the requirement or in the condescesion.

INVESTMENTS

The day give us time, and the distribution of this builds roads in various areas. The pursuit of objectives contains a base acquired in the past, that serves as a reference and resource, and a speculative part that we don´t know what results will contribute to the staging and the outcome.
What we do with the time ? Filled it with purposes strictly materials, or we think devote a portion to the development of self ? The investments are designed for temporary benefits or to be enduring ?
In the investments we need to put knowledge, know how ho act, the reason and purpose. In many cases there will be precise talent looking for money, as well as money in the form of intermediary for transactions.
Before mobilizing the relevant, we must clarify if the focus is only to satisfy their own desires. or in driving individual improvement.
We always intend profit, but this requires the insertion of different factors. Will be harmful investments and also beneficial. Investments destined to gain and others to lose. What is going to make it possible to expand, which behave harmony, are investments to perform. What offer an increase in assets with a cost of harmfulness in return, it is desirable to avoid.
The investment that endangers the integrity, health, relationships or freedom, goes against the same investor principle that is to achieve an advantage.
Most investments are in the short term, and the planned on year, we don´t know if at the end will provide what we want or thought achieve.
Live is invest in us through constant exchanges. If the benefits are useful, the investment will be profitable. If losses prevails, we are going to less. The experiences may seem negative at times by what occurs, but if it serves to introduce better ways and expectations more favorable, the investment should have been good.
When approaches are honest, proceed with seriousness, considering the influence in third persons and move for noble goals, investments are always beneficial.

WHO WANTS SATISFY ?

Without desire of some kind there is no movement, and this desire can have many ramifications and addresses.We need to know discern if desired is necessary, useful, favorable, or even harmful.
We should ask ourselves : Who wants satisfy ?. To our lower nature or higher ? To the ego or the soul ? To other people that I love, or to any particular interests ?
There are situations where we have to choose, sometimes quickly, others not. Is assessing the pros and cons, be clear that we want, and ensure that the road end leading to fruitful results.
Foresee the consequences should be present before undertaking any purpose, knowing that we want, for what reason, and be prepared to deal with the situation to approach to our claims.
Why so much people are dissatisfied ? When not for one thing another or several at the same time, the question is that yearns a life of wellness. abundance and harmony, and milions ans milions experience just the opposite.
What are we doing to attract discomfort, poverty and discord  ? Lack of clear vision, erroneous ideas, thinking only in us breaking collaboration team that provides the force.
We want satisfaction and create dissatisfaction because we don´t know interact. We don´t treat well neither us nor others, without being aware that the origin is far, is deeply ingrained, and we are incapable of seeing it and understand it.
The satisfaction is redirect it everything to the center achieving stability, and from here take it abroad to generate a kind of communicating vessels between inside and outside, the personal and collective.
Absorbed in the ego, the immediate and mundane, it is not possible obtain true satisfaction. We have to focus on something broader, more extensive, beyond exclusive interests. And on the basis of establishing connections, knitting bridges of unity, we will create continually situations enriching exchanges that give meaning and feeling of satisfaction will accompanied indefinitely.

THINGS TO DO

Always has to have something pending in the work of personal development, because this is the goal of our earthly stay. Study, work, socialize, are the means to acquire training, preparing to act with the aim of providing new features that encouraging the precise resources between some and others.
We have been to correct deficiences and awkward experssions in order to create the optimum gear between the different individualities and the collective. Obtain the goods and livelihoods is to focus on the basics, what it is from here is to know what skills have and what deficits, which function we have to make and how we acquire the learning to cope with the vital purpose.
Which is externally should be internally. the study of the surrounding to move with autonomy, must have its correspondence within us discovering the motives that lead to be and do in a particular way.
The work is the road link to insert ourselves socially, should focus on introspection for connecting with the core of our singularities and how to channel the expression.
Relationships is where lies the trigger for all this. Any movement involves the collaboration of different components, indicating that the relations are present in everything. We from unconsciousness and the usual egoical vision, do not value much less the impact of what we say or tell, what we do or do others, leaving a much bigger impact that we can imagine.
From the inanimate kingdom passing through the entire evolutionary chain, we are constantly influencing the environment, and it is here where our main concern has to lead the efforts to generate harmony through a growing awareness of us and as we have to transmit what is appropriate in each context and occasion.
Conflicts, problems, difficulties, are the constant exposure that we don´t make things correctly, and while the obstacles follow without be resolved, we can not devote the attention to others matters to be stuck.
The defects, impurities and imperfections is what we have to transform to get rid of obstructions and create more favorable conditions for the properly discern and act with responsibility.

QUICKNESS - SLOWNESS

Quickness like synonimous of agility, efficiency, progress. Slowness expressing just the opposite of fast.
The quickness is good when the result is favorable. The slowness is good through observation, reflection and the appropriate tests to obtain at the end of the process a satisfactory contribution.
The quickness itself is not a guarantee for success if is not accompanied of the precise movements within the appropriate context and relevant conditions. The slowness is not a bad thing unless it will lead in accidents, lossess or bother to third persons.
We must take advantage of the rapidity externally, the slowness in the internal, but also quickly to understand, perceive and feel, and slow to be precise, neat and accurate. Slow to develop plans to see it with hte maximum amplitude, and quickness in the clarity that link thinking and action.
Generally quickness suppose ability, seriousness, responsibility. The slowness of movements and ideas is what clogs the quality of what we want.
The inventions that are substituting previous inventions are designed to be faster and with better benefits. Slowness is associated with what has already been used, and only values when the maturation of an item or product reporting a benefit.
The fast is to address the immediate, the slow for what has to endure in time.
There are occasions that require fast and other slow, what is important is knowing how to find the right rhythm in each context.
Rapidity should not mean precipitation, so hurry misderected can behave problems.
The slowness should not be excessive reflection for caution nor inaction for fear of risking.
 Find the balance is the challenge, and this will depend on a set of factors in us where we have established the stability between the internal and the external, between us and the rest, between primary and secundary values. Both quickness and slowness must brings us the best where the action is.

FILL EMPTY, FILL FULL

How we fill ? Of anything ? Are we selective ? Can we see the consequences of what we believe need or we can satisfy ? Are we confident ot the value ? We have contrasted ?
We want to live with satisfaction, with welfare, with rewarding experiences, it is natural. The question is : the supposed benefit leaves us peace, serenity, a feeling of fullness, or an outbreak of momentary enjoyment followed by empty ?
When we pour to satisfy the desires of ego, in external facets, without a true sharing, the received fills briefly and the effect disappears immediately.
If other people involved in the harmonic exchanges, when we want to provide some benefit to the neighbor, when we yearn be useful, then the feeling of well being has no price and lasts over time.
The fill vacuum is something that at the end does not generate a profit or the pleasant sensations are the imagined.
The fill full is when we establish connections pouring to give the best of us by the taste of transfer knowledge, resources or whatever thinking in others such as recipients.
We can fill us inside and/or outside. Intangible values do no occupy space and accompany us always and we can use through actions or words, although we accumulate to be infinite, the possibilities are too.
The tangible values that we see, that have form, weight, are limited, subjected to lost, deteriorations and substituted for others to the end of a time.
Most only thinks and decants toward transitory goods, they want to fill with things convinced that this provides them well being. The external to us is fluctuating, and if we yearn a stability and an autonomy, we must try values that fill us inside in order to use outside.
We must have goods in both sides, to nourish the several vital needs, and the ability consists in find the balance of what pour to each one to not neglect that is really important, and that is a daily task of weigh, refine and decide how to fill in a sensation of fullness and not a fill that drives to the empty.

POTENTIAL BLESSINGS

Between what had been done and what is pending, between what has been learned and what can learn, we must know generate new opportunities for continued expansion. We don´t know the extension of our potential, because we are always limiting it to a few areas, acting mechanically, living repetitve situations with very few innovations that break the prevailing inertia.
Immersed in the daily claims, do not pay attention to different signs, that will be presenting on the road, in the form of words, attitudes, talks and other.
Among the various messages to understand, to realize the specific function of certain relations, necesary errors to modify harmful forms by introducing more optimal forms, if we are absorbed in what is the most superficial, we can not capture the specific that we have reserved for each of us with the respective conditions to experience.
In the same manner as the individual contributions to the whole are exclusive with its particular seal, it is also the vision, the values and objectives profiled in a personal title. In the action of the day to day with everything that involved, is where lie the blessings, but first we have to see, and then run the appropriate movements to become as such.
We stumbled on incorrect actions and lack of vision, and if the approaches remain the same, it is not possible to leave from the vicious cycle.
Conflicts, tensions and crises, will be kept in a context stuck while we find the root that is generated and see in the invisible the expressed in the visible, is what contains the potential blessings to eradicate thoughts and harmful behaviors transforming them.
The universe provides the adjusted configurations to each one according to past baggage, current development and the determining claims. The introspective clarity, the understanding of the facts and the desire to improve, are crucial to take advantage ot the blessings that the way will be presenting, or othewise are diluting irremediably.

MORE DEMANDING, MORE RESPONSIBLE

When we are child we requires little and responsibilities begin in the school. The self exigence and responsibility entails take care of itself in order to get good results.
Why we are given time ? To achieve a growing awareness of the purpose for which we are here in this moment.
Each one has some peculiarities, some challenge to assume, a few lessons to learn, certain aspects to correct, and if only are awaiting the usual routines it will not be possible to find out if we are actually doing what it is.
We have always to aspire to more, know more, raise the bar in everything that we can. If we are conformist ends the fluidity and the options to new opportunities, and then the time is a simple wandering without objectives that push us to improve, make a nonsense to keep the body functioning.
We have to find out what talents we have, which skills we are better, because this is the inner fire that we had to push to give the existence with our own particular seal, what makes the difference between some and others. We are unique, in the physical appearance, voice, and therefore we have to print a few distinctive features, and not be only an irrelevant number in the crowd. Crave with force the purposes of content.
When we choose voluntarily to be more demanding and more responsible,  is an example of understanding that our possibilities and conditions depends on us, that we cannot take refuge in others, nor blaming or complaining of the external factors.
Surrounded by regulars protests of all kinds, demonstrations in the slightest, project in others our shortcomings and disabilities by becoming the effect ot those who are the cause.
Everything that happens has a reason, and if you have considered unfair situations, what we have to do is to find ways and means to straighten it out, go to the action to be the own builders of what we want and not a few extras in the hands of profiteers. Thereby we must be discerning and take responsibility, in the strictly individual and in the social sphere for the powers and efforts bring benefits and welfare.

DIRT - CLAEANING ( II )

Preserve the internal and external cleaning requires continuous attention in all movements by their incidence. If we are not concentred, if we are lenient in certain desires, with a low willingness, the danger increases according to the inclination and the influence.
We must search once and again attune with the pure, enter in us to permeate all areas in the form of amplitude and kindness of thoughts and feelings expressed in actions.
The environment, relationships, what we receive from outside influences sometimes notoriously and other with subtlety, and if we are not focused, accompanied by the necessary srength not be affected, we are in danger of being contamined by the dirt outside.
Once introduced in us the harmfulness, we have to respond immediately, otherwise the ball will grow with the serious consequences that can be triggered in the form of disease, crisis and various kinds of problems.
The permanent balance is not possible because life is movement, and we are subject to cyclical biorritmes.
The goal to pursue is stability, where we can experience all kinds of situations without affect us thanks to the clarity, inner peace and certainty that every event has always a reason to provide messages and opportunities that only take advantage if we know decrypt by having a correct discernment wrought in us.
Cleaning always benefits, should extend beyond the selfish limitations that we will allow us see the things to the extent necessary and move with effectiveness.
If we ask with fervor be guided by higher entities, gradually the luminosity will increasse in all areas of our lives by providing it with purity that will give us accurate and precise movements every moment.. This is or only be possible if previously if we have developed sufficiently the consciousness, but unconsciousness is one who make us fall in the dirt when don´t see the consequences of neglect or evil.

DIRT - CLEANING

The dirt or cleaning is one of the factors more clarifiers to show the current status of utensils or persons and to carry out the intervention intended to extract the best profit.
The pure or impure is the intention, the aim. Purity is raised internally to capture elements more subtle to transmit them to other.
Any contact, any exchange, if it is based on the egoical satisfaction behaves impurities if there is not a spiritual goal. The purification in both senses can occur when thinking about who may need help.
We have to observe where ideas come from, if they emerge from the ego or from the soul. If they are from the ego at some point there will be dirt. If are from the soul cleaning is the impulse and the objective, and the result is a stable tranquility.
Cleaning is clarity, understanding. Dirt is darkness, the need for changes to establish the appropriate. Cleaning is to preserve, dirt is to transform in cleaning.
The contrast are an indication to know where we should opt, modifying attittudes correcting the timely if the case requires it.
The cleaning brings benefits, dirt behaves losses. Cleaning is what has always been to seek, develop and strengthen. Dirt needs attention to elininate in us or abroad.
Cleanliness body and the utensils of use is important, but it must be accompanied of the inside cleaning. What emerges from within has to be pure for display as well.
If internally there is dirt, conflicts will be evident in the external. Surface cleanliness will be like having care only by the packaging, not the product that is where the value is.
Purity is the base, without this there is no understanding, and without understanding the actions leads to error.
From childhood that is the beginning, has been to grow and learn the portion to adopt in each circumstance, from this depends on the success or failure.
Dirt can be by carelessly, by frequent use, per incident of external elements. In the strictly personal the introduction of lower forms inside us that disturb the realm of the thoughts or feelings, which will be erroneous, generating discomfort in oneself and where to expand influence. Harmful actions not synchronized properly. Ways of thinking or feel counterproductive by wishes wrongly directed.
Dirty what is disturbing the peace, which breaks the harmony, are spots to deal with the cleaners to retrieve the ideal state.

CODE OF VALUES

What has value ? What are the parameters to measure and decide ? The values are subjective because they are depending on each one, its uniqueness, position, resources and many different factors.
All can be of value and all also not have it, and choose the listing of the important things is strictly personal, because we can not put inside of anyone, only in us.
We are accustomed to magnify ideas, possessions, situations that we consider appropriate, and then watching it note that none of the alleged externally is the philosopher´s stone. Of course we need to preserve the basic goods of subsistence, where a part of this should investigate each case to elucidate the value contained in specific aspects.
Someone with many knowledge is not the same as someone iliterate. Very rich person is not the same as the very poor. Someone with a good health can not be compared with a patient. The individual development, training, context of action, are decisive in the respective code of values., because the characteristics and circumstances determine the belief of what is valued.
There are tangible and intangible values. What we see like material objects offering benefits, and not seen in the density which are evidenced through words and deeds.
Transient values have a relative value, often cover a plot, make a temporary service, and once the potential had exhausted repaired if is possible or replaced by others in good conditions.
Personal values are the qualities that we acquired and facilitate the exchanges and provide opportunities in various levels.
Collective values is the sum of private contributions for the common good, where the dependence need to create conditions for the global nurture.
The materials of use, the diverse relationships with the many singularities and what we give and receive in the interactions are values that help us to live in the daily construction.
The value has to add by the result that behaves. If the supposed value implies losses, dangers of upset, if don´t extract then a benefit thanks to an expansion of consciousness and the modification of obstructive factors, is not a true value.
The only indestructible values are spiritual, always current, always favorable, always with us to generate peace, harmony and welfare without distinction of any kind.

BETWEEN TWO EXTREMES

In everything we do there is a bipolarity. Open / close ; start / end ; up / down ; go / return ; full / empty ; do / undo.
The plot take place in the middle between a beginning and an end, which is where we are pursuing some kind of objective, which impels us to move. Get a benefit of the action is the vitaliser factor. The desire, the need or the commitment is the one who keeps all the movements of the diversity of fronts where we are immersed.
Of all actions only remains synthetics memories and a substance that nourishes in occasions the thought, others the affective part and some to the physical body.
We must put the marker continuously to zero on a daily basis in the dual constant situations that are part of a unit.
We start with a point and we headed to another, the process necer changes, going to the search for a purpose, because without the claim of achieving anything we don´t move. There is a need for a lack, a yearning, essential for the effort and overcoming.
The question is : we know take advantage of the potential of what experienced ? the constant daily repetitions we do with inertia empty of content, without taste or increasing the potential ?
Limited by the obligations, it works fairly automatic. What we manipulate, the resources that we have , serve as intermediaries in the varied claims and demands to cover.
Often we have not awareness of the wealth that surround us, that constantly receive through third parties, and this reduced vision makes us think in a small, and consequently so is received.
The beginning and end are constant, we are pursuing all sort of purposes, but focusing on the result, in the finished task, we don´t plunge in the development of the process that is the builder of the eternal present.
In the middle pases the history, the trigger of what entails losses or gains, comfort or discomfort, where we play the conditions of immediate future.
Problems, conflicts, many issues to resolve at the individual and collective levels, we have to observe the cause, discover the origin, and do everything possible to reverse the chaotic situations by establishing the order.
Of what we do and how we do between the two extremes depends on absolutely everything, in favor or aginst, for good or for bad.

STUMBLE

The objective of what has been accomplished and of what we want is to proceed with success to obtain a favorable outcome, but we are not in a position to know everything, nor have the same skill in different facets. Know where is the right and the wrong is a job that always accompany us, because here lies decant the balance in favor or against.
In a process there may be several stages, a predictable and unpredictable. A party depend on us, and the other external factors not controlled. To achieve the purpose we have to be prepared, but there is always a start where we are starting from zero, and the errors occur because of ignorance, lack of attention, or not synchronized movements.
The fact of stumbling can suppose serious consequences, mild or without effect, it tries to observe the detonator and take appropriate measures to correct what we can from a situation in the past or future with similar characteristics.
Both individually and collectively are repeating ancestral useless patterns.. Behaviors that have caused discomfort, frictions, loss, and by more repetitive that it has been will continue to maintain the same guidelines. Instead to stop, reflect and  see where occurs the disjoint, pushed by the selfish desires and a limited vision will perpetuate useless procedures. - These people really want welfare ?
With interested approaches, pending own benefit, the stumbling can not be correct because all interactions involves the intervention of two parties giving and receiving, and if there is an inbalance in this sense the harmony and the fair treatment will not be possible.
The basis of errors has several vertents. Conscious mistakes recognizing them, or unconscious for whatever reasons. Honest mistakes where the situation beyond us,  and bad faith where the person thinks should say or do certain actions by their concepts, ideas and values, where the negativity and the injury caused to third parties clearly show the incorrect.
The passage of time should serve to widen the panoramic and act much better, but the reality show us that not profit the experiences.
Stumble is an opportunity, and extract a benefit the objective. See without seeing and hear without hearing, act without foreseeing the consequences, here is where we will find the key to be perpetuating errors, and so continue until not pass to the other end of clarity.

DESCONNECTED CONNECTION

The apparent social image is that we have many contacts. Messages up and down, various networks, where everything is straw.
How many of these contacts provide a reciprocal communication ? How many friendships are really heart felt ?
The amount of interactions is undeniable, but this does not imply a quality. In order to have quality we must offer the best of us, and the prevailing superficiality does not allow revitalizing expressions in the exchanges.
Most relationships are driven by the interest, and thinking only about the own benefit can not be build solid links. What is transmitted is the reflection of the current potential, and if is rather low this is what we offer to the other.
As a general rule the people speaks about trivial subjects that lead to nowhere to fill the silence. Each day we note at work, with the family, partner, and in general there is no real opening to the other neither ideas nor feelings.
If both parties are not involved it is not possible a connection. It is not a matter of speaking, but decrypt the contents of the words with your component both mentally and emotionally, and exercising of listeners, sincerely concerned for the other, extract from the conversation useful material for the sender and the receiver. This should be the goal.
The inertia makes us unconscious, often reckless, acting according to some customs by dates and what they represent, and vibrate with what we do requires attention, knowledge and enthusiasm. The low intensity usually displayed in what was executed, is the main obstacle to captivating experiences. Don´t want to risk, nor treat some topics, fear grips us, leaving escape opportunities continuously.
How we contact indicates the type of person. Many people say of word that will do and then don´t. Preparing a meeting that never arrives. Phone calls, letters which do not respond. Indifference, coldness, this is the attitude adopted by a growing group. Friendships that in reality are not. Rapprochement only by interest. False affection.
How many among all known are really sincere in what they express ? With how many people we are able to show us what we are ? How to love authentically and how much love us ? Who know essentially ?  This type of disconnected connections is really what we want ?
We can establish many and varied connections, which in the deep indicates the great disconnection between all.

AUTHENTICITY

The path is not done for many, and of these only a few are authentic.
Consecrate the life beyond the material subsistence to inner work of steady growth, calls for much more than intellectual understanding. It requires an immense desire to completely rid themselves to the instruction and training without truce leading to the opening of consciousness as a reference, and the subsequent transformation of prosaic forms by refined forms.
The external conditionings, the immediate needs, the various obligations, limit the dedication to be seen and know with certainty that we should be a part of access to material resources. Inertia is the dominant trend, where to do long pauses for introspection is an utopia caught up as we are in the pursuit of money and the commitments that this entails.
If you had a guaranteed income,  how many of us pour to the spiritual cultivation ? Most of them only look for entertaintment and fun, thus engage in body and soul to the integral development is a vocation that has to be strongly routed in the inner, otherwise lacking the intensity, desire and continuity to the many challenges that must be confront.
Worldly life is only directed to the external, visible. The spiritual life is pursuing the lace at all levels, and besides ensuring economy and essential goods, we have to work on oneself for the manifestations of what we think, feel and do, will more neat for the purpose to generate more favorable conditions.
Focus only on the subsistence is live for the temporarily. Focus on trascendence is projected toward eternity, acquiring indestructible gains that serve to continue raising in an evolutionary level.
The elementary is common in all, where the difference between a life of simple maintenance and a life with purpose, is what we prepare us beyond time and space known in our dimension to diving in subtleties revealing the role that we have to perform here.

NOT TO LOSE IS TO WIN

All of us are here with a karma where we don´t know the origin and its magnitude, but what is clear is the need of amend us on several fronts.
No one is free of receive many grievances that come from all parties. Sometimes are parents, other siblings, the couple, friends, coworkers. At one time or another we received blows, and sometimes of several people at the same time. It seems as if it were not possible to keep the peace in an stable way, and when it was a battle begins another.
Most times, if we look at the process, we will see the absurdity of what has caused the discord. The logic disappears, leaving that imposing a certain wishes leading to conflict. And this is repeated now with one now with another, and while we should continue to act in the same way will never be solved the controversy.
Many episodes seen only by what has happened, do not have a rational basis, and it is here where the outstanding debts can clarify the detonating if decode the content of what they have produced.
We attack and are attacked indefinitely until that revealing the awareness that the interactions are a bridge between what has been done previously and its consequences, and the possibilities to see and understand more fully what is on our role here and now through the relationships that are crossing on the way.
The other we should have as a potential aid to expand, as the spark needed to reflect on and modify these harmful positions replacing them for better expressions.
Although we received punishable treatment, indifference or ingratitude, we have to act in such a way so as not to accumulate karma, showing us helpful and correct.
On the way some relations are diluted, we live unpleasant sensations, and attempt to respond with good pay debts if it was, because the important thing is not to increase loads. With this attitude not lose in the events that are taking place, and not losing win by the determination to establish harmony with the progressive improvements that will examine if preserve in forging the good.

SIMPLICITY - HAUGHTINESS

Who depends on display simple or haughty ? The level of consciousness. To greater consciousness more simplicity, to more unconsciousness more haughtiness.
The simple person realizes of your insignificance compared to the immensity, before the constant dependence for access to the intended resources, the fragility that is exposed by events not controlled, the need for others as suppliers.
The haughty person believes it is important because it occupies a relevant charge, because have money, because it reaches people that acclaim, because influenced by the ego thinks it is greater, better than others in comparison with respect to having. But these positions are wrong, product of an illusion that makes it impossible to see with clarity the background.
Who is simple is more comprehensive, dialogant, open, considered, knows that mistakes are made for several reason but not on purpose.
Who is haughty is proud, closed, only has its criteria, don´t recognize the defects, it can´t not be advised because it is considered impeccable. Self centered in their things, the others are a kind of inevitable, opposite his exaggerated valuation.
The simple person is humble, and convinced of not be relevant, with it´s attitude is someone.
The haughty person believes is someone, and just for what it says, what it do, by the usual comptentuous ,treatment, is no one.
The simple person without the need for some specific knowledge shown with wisdom because understands what is essential.
The haughty person, lack of vision, pending of your microcosm, distorts the reality observing it at your convenience, living in the falsehood of an assumed value who denotes an inferiority complex trying to compensate unseccssuscefully.
Who is simple makes it easy to understand and resolve issues. Who is haughty discusses, wants to get away, and that with good manners will expedite quickly, the expressive arrogance perpetuate the conflicts.
Definitely it´s all a question of clarity or darkness, key to any approach and the triggers that will come next.

COHERENCE

Is actually consistent what we say and what we do ? We say one thing and do another different ? Why it contradicts what is said and done ? The reasons can be various : mindlessness, interests in some sense, precipitation, lack of clarity, and especially imbalance between the inner and outer.
It is an usual fact note inconsistencies, in the people closest to us, in the field of labor, in people who occupy key positions, and this create a bad image, loss of credibility, mistrust, because we can not trust in someone who says white and then shows black when act.
Really think the meaning of the words ? The effect of these ? The consequences of the disengagement between spoken and expressed ?
Feign, wanting to be what we don´t, generate a false impression with a hidden order, there is always a reason that has to clarify the dissonance between to say and to do, and often, in a frivolous environment, trivial, nor the same protagonist really knows that pushes to behave in this manner.
The incoherence is a disconnection, it is like trying to connect a wire in a mistaken place, and evidently it doesn´t work. The coherence is to tune the different elements coupling them correctly for its purpose and good use.
To go evidencing incoherences provokes distrust, lack of credibility, bad image, rating down, distancing, to avoid near treatments for the danger that suppose. It is a bad business to be incoherent, people go away, and the implied in question instead of extracting benefits what picks up are lost.
What failure on the way ? The lack of fit reflects an imbalance between what they want to believe in others and the performed action, and the triggers that drive to behave as well are multiple.
When we are coherents there is harmony, and this is transmitted to the outside. In the inconsistencies there are confusion, doubt and suspicion about a cloudy part hidden but obvious through the contradictions.

REACT OR RESIST ( II )

If we react to external events due to the behavior or others r circumstances, we became the effect of what happens. If we resist observing in perspective, preparing the best option for what has been generated, then we will be manufacturing the cause to plan and decide what we want and what is more convenient.
React is being trapped in something unpleasant created by third parties or for some personal action that does not come out as we would like. Resisting is accept a facts trying to extract an advantage.
The reasons that drive to react are diverse, they are by discontent, to wait for a different expectations, to value something with a result below the desired.
Resentment by expressions or the behavior of someone. Pride according of self importance and the treatment received by others. Revenge if the feeling is of having been insulted, injured, with desire for justice to satisfy primary emotions.
React is to show anger, speak with words or sour forms because they have received bad words or forms of other that in any way condone. React is an expression of the ego : what are saying to me, what are doing to me, what to be thought, what are believed.
Resist it´s a sign of maturity, of tranquility, look in perspective, nor to see the other as bad, but as the means for opening, of opportunities to make adjustments more careful.
In what is useless because it is impossible to communicate with the caller, withdraw is the most convenient.
Expect to change a damage only serves if there is willingness in both sides, the ability to listen, not wanting to impose by force the criteria themselves, but what was equitable thinking in the common good.
What is unfeasible, where there is no understanding, no confidence, which is harmful, it is to be left to pour energy into relationships and appropriate conditions.
Scream, insult, be offended, indicates that you are angry because there is no what we want as  we would like, and in some ways is a little child respond in these terms.
Keep calm, polite behavior, it is that makes the difference between someone who is in charge of the situation, without alteration. Lose the composure is being overtaken by events, responding instinctively without logic or with good judgment.

REACT OR RESIST ( I )

Assiduosly there were tense situations, which is not annoy us each time when dislike it. When harmony breaks for an event and its consequences, when someone disturbs the tranquility with words or clumsy actions, we can not allow ourselves to be trapped by circumstances, because the emotional response may be lack of essential clearly, and instead of fix worse what exists.
According to the own character, the particular code of values, many things can be annoying, but hte unpleasant lies not in the speaker and their emissions, rather in the impression received and what stir them in us. We can commit actions actually punishable, harsh expressions feeling attacked, but behind the facts there is a reason for you to enter a different context, or by shaking take out conclusions to modify some guidelines.
The others are intermediaries to enhance our development, and in spite of  frictions and controversies, these are only the envelope of some possibilities to expand the consciousness by improving the attitude.
People who seem enemies actually are friends dressed up as, the difference is that force us to mobilize the reserve funds saved for emergencies, and thanks to them we can overcome obstacles and strengthen us if we know face it with firmness.
Too much tranquility don´t allows grow, it is necessary from time to time new challenges to access to higher levels. And what the principle is heavy, which implies a handicap, if we resist the initial discomfort and we hope to respond with the aprropriate tone and time, then what seemed negative becomes positive.
The bad thing is that the majority immediateley feels offended, replicating wounded without giving enough time to the logical in search of conciliatory solutions.
If we react harshly the fire increases and lengthens the conflict. If we resist without finding ourselves or feel victims, we can decrypt the message of what has been said or done to find illuminating patways that lead to the adoption of positions more useful to us and especially the way to deal with dignity and correction to the neighbor even though they do not so with us.