FAMILY ( II )

The parties are workig for all, and the all underpines the parties in a continuous exchange that gives purpose to the actions.
The immensity is a set of bigs and small blocks. The diversity arises from the unit, and despite the differences, the goal is to merge with the unit.
Families are structures groups that serve to organize within a given area with conditions so that our potential is encompassing. We are moving in a specific environment, with cultural features, geographical location, marking our conception of the universe, with a distinctive code of values and character, and this is only possible from bounded areas.
There are many singularities, many ways to make for each one, identified with their, which has to seen the ancestors that have been transmited. Some put emphasis on some aspects, others may be quite different, the issue is that they form part of their criteria in order the own identity. Which we define as a " people ", culture, are families with whom we identify, we have a sense of belonging. And even we have acquired a wide training, traveled around the world, the way of thinking and living, responds to the roots of the country, the continent where we have grown.
Parents are the first reference, the organization in small groups, here we learn to interact with other, to acquire responsibilities, which will have to reflect on the outside, in the social life. The surrrounding environment influenced by a few distinctive parameters forged for centuries, we soaked in some customs that we acquire as own as part of our uniqueness in relation to groups that cross the limit of the strict biological family.
And there is the large block, which we are all of us, regardless of beliefs and ideas. no matter how different we are, designed in the same manner and with the same basic needs, from their respective places and peculiarities, we have to seek for the common good, since the supplier source which enables us to live, depends on the particular behavior toward the planet. We are all individual, each one can only live by yourself, no one else can do this by others, but in this objective we are dependent on the contributions of third parties that contributes to the livelihoods, therefore, let´s take a look at what we are in immense family and instead of looking only by the self-interest let us pay for the collective, which in reality is to look for the self-interest with a more intelligent perspective.

FAMILY ( I )

The family is the starting point, the gateway to the world. The basis of sustaining that serves as a reference, extracting the provision of what is essential for moving fron the initial stage of dependence to individual autonomy later.
The known forms of life on earth are organizated by groups. From minerals, vegetals, plants, animals and the different human races, giving them a name, knowing the characteristics, peculiarities and contributions in each realm that make identification marks.
The family is analogous to the roots, to the foundations, the origin of the demonstration. Everything starts with an idea, and from here it follows an abstract process to concrete. And so, it must be a field where consolidated in order to fulfill its purpose, a field that existed previously, the origin of the origin.
The family structure is concentrated in a small core such a factor of recognition, because of this were would produce a dispersion, and in the case of the human race would utilize the special talents in the growth phase. Once it achieves a degree of optimal development and enough autonomy, then we are in a position to satisfy the collective structure thanks to the training.
The family has to be as a laboratory for experimentation that provides us the tools to integrate into the society. The protection that we need in order to feel safe, otherwise strolling from side to side like a compass damaged.
The structuring of clan serves as a training in giving and receiving, to do this extend in the outer scope outside of the parental contour.
Through the father and the mother we have to learn how to integrate the male and female principle in us, in order to extract the qualities conform in our patterns of behavior.
Before becoming patents, we must think about the responsability that entails, by acquiring the maximum educational background for the role of educator and nourisher, taking into account more than conceive a son is not an exclusive decision of prospective parents. Having a child is a social act, since each one individually have a contribution to the whole, and this is reflected in the good or bad functioning of society.
The children are the extension of the parents to ensure the continuity of the species, the manpower allows you to meet to many and varied occupation who operate the gear of a complex machinery of which we are all dependent to access to the basic needs and other pretensions since the level of conditional independence that all we have to a greater or lesser extent.
We are identified by collective groups, professionals, linguistic or other, which are small families. So is the distance that may exist for employment or placement, let us take what we do, wherever we are, all we drink from the same source which enables to us live.

QUESTIONS TO ASK OURSELVES

To ask implies not know with desire to know. Make understandable some thing that has not yet been deciphered.
From the most insignificant to the most important, the aim is to clarify, bring the light not seen to manifest the hidden.
We can auto-ask the real motivation behind what we think, what we feel, what we want and where we will take before mobilizing the relevant springs, because once the process is running we must face the consequences.
Ask involves any sort of concern, curiosity, to find solutions, and the interlocutor is the one who has to respond, being free to do as needed. Both the question and the answer is exercised from the freedom, but is the asked who dominates the situation, who knows or can know, and decide if wants to answer and with what words.
The question is :  matter knows ? with that purpose ? help me in any way ? If we are able to connect with our inner there would be no need for questions, the clarity give us the answer. Only we should consult the specialists in areas that did not mastered, the rest we will find out ourselves based on perceptions, study, observation and experience, theory and practice as the last and true knowledge.
The general limitation does live in a context of unconsciousness, which is why we produce so many chaotic episodes. And the inability to climb out of this small cercle trivials continously on the same points of view and concepts, being impossible to break the inertia and what it entails. In spite of repeated similar episodes, the people were not to reflect in order to find out the reasons, it is easier to complain and blame the other in the infinite chain of experiences lost by not see nor understand the background of what causes all this.
The question has to serve to run from the unknown to the known, the obstruction to the solution, the doubt to certainty. And to each answer go extending our powers without limitations due to a desire of wanting to improve everything in us.