SATISFACTION - DISSATISFACTION ( III )

We seek the satisfaction in temporary factors because they do not know how to find lasting satisfaction, returning to the dissatisfaction precisely because what we are looking for is in the transitory.
Accustomed to look at the most immediate, external, mundane, many people are convinced that if you have this or that, they will be satisfied. And without doubt provision of material goods is not bad, it allows some resources, a certain quality, but they are not an end in themselves, only a medium.
If we are going to the search to be satisfied with a stability, do not have to rely on things or people that are now and after not. The periphery is to exchange, where the work is done, but everything is like a loan that comes and goes, nothing is our exclusive property. Neither family, nor sons, nor couple, we identify as "mine" to distinguish them in relation to others, they are free, its function is not providing with satisfaction, but if they are closer in terms of link is to learn and so wide horizons for our behavior may be possible.
As humans we are always wanting for gestures of all, more attentive, generous, fair, helpful, etc, and precisely if we receive all of this first we have to grow and develop in ourselves transmitting it in our relations. However, by not showing these attributes due to the usual egocentrism widespread, we scarcely and also receive in similar proportions. The thing is clear, or increase first the quality of the expressed in us, or exchanges will persist in the same level of poverty.
Eat, drink, play, life of luxury, such as flares are released into the air, the effect last an instant, and if the action is only thinking in us, after the initial blasts come the vacuum.
We are not here to pursue false dreams, we are here to discover who we are, what we are here to do and commit ourselves to do it. And this implies engage the personal goals with those of the collective, and will only be viable with a gradual opening of awareness facilitating change, sharing and giving; because everything that we have now is the result of a multitude of exchanges.
The vacuum is not to have, not to be. The fullness is to have and to be, and on the road to achieve this have had to increase the self through mobilizing the powers in a relevant manner. If we have and are is because we are able to proceed with success in relationships made during the journey. Part of merit is ours, the other through external contributions. And the satisfaction will increase when the ability to balance will be the keynote.

SATISFACTION - DISSATISFACTION ( II )

The true satisfaction is not focused only on the external, in physical pleasures or in obtaining some objectives, goes beyond. Feel satisfied must be the result of having fueled a potential achieving, a significant result according to the personal code of values.
Most believe that the satisfaction will come from having a lot of money, comfort and feel loved. This helps to provide conditions more comfortable, acquire an increased quality, but as it is not something material itself created by us, cannot generate true and lasting satisfaction.
We would like to receive samples of attention, warmth and affection, it is normal. However, there are many relationships poor or very poor, and then what we receive is an assiduous disenchantment. What we are looking for is not what makes the neighbor by me, because it is not up to us, but we can do, what we can to give to be useful.
When we turn to the others by offering our contribution with our skills and resources is when really experience satisfaction, the rest are simple attempts that we never will vibrate with the same intensity.
If the surrounding environment is what it is and the prevailing conflict by all sides it is because the selfishness, looking only in their own self interest, and the extend of generalized form are always producing conflicts of interest that separate themselves. Ourselves with our attitude and proceed generate the dissatisfaction we feel and accompany in all areas, and will continue to do so while not to change the trend of thinking, feeling, and acting only pending of the particular benefits to do so by engaging the needs of the individual with the collective.
We are too outstanding of the own self satisfaction, leaving aside or treated badly to the other, when the reality is just the opposite. The more we are outstanding to the other and better treat them, automatically we feel better. If the people are unaware of this is because of the awkwarp shapes in themselves and by the sloppy forms of behavior that originate from deteriorating conditions present in many areas.
If we want experience satisfactory situations, we have to create avenues of understanding and willingness to collaborate and help, seeing things in perspective where the unit in harmony will prevail over the separation in discord.

SATISFACTION - DISSATISFACTION

Satisfaction is to fill the measure of a wish. We need to know wether it is appropiate and that can bring.
We are going to search for what makes us feel good, but in this persecution is desirable to find some kind of obstacle in order to reinforce the skills based on perseverance.
In doing may have the satisfaction when it is effective, and also dissatisfaction when we forced the results or are poor. If carried out is healthy, it is a confirmation that the procedure is correct. If on the contrary the negative prevails, these contain the information of what we need to review to give a different orientation.
We need to clarify where we believe that we will find satisfaction, because according to it if is possible or is an illusion, and shall see how it fits into our character and if it should be really. We must not ask for what want the ego, but more suitable for the soul. And instead of focusing in irrelevant issues attract the conditions to cultivate virtues.
The objectives have to aim high, not to the usual platitudes that we are accustomed to serve as a little for his inconsistency. Crave an increase in wisdom, selfless actions, leading a life more peaceful, and more affective capacity creating harmonic conditions, this will make us feel satisfied, without external dependencies or short duration.
Dissatisfaction has to intervene as a factor in overcoming, not complaint. The balance between the two trends will keep us dynamic, being just one of many polarities.
The code of values, tastes, measures, are part of this tandem. If the expectations are too high can lead to dissatisfaction if not minimishing the effects with a sharp observation relativising it.
It the alleged satisfaction finish in dissatisfaction, notes an infounded expectations, bloated or inconvenient.
We want certain things with the belief that we like or love it, and sometimes it is appropiate experience disappointments to learn lessons, that if we note in the long run we can transform in future satisfactions.
Dissatisfaction may be specific or existential, in both cases we need to know the reasons, cherish it in perspective and outline a plan for that may straighten in a more favorable sense.
What we dislike about us or the environment is a way of inharmonic proceeding, and having so many things which can lead to excess weight, addictions or harmful diseases. This are mechanisms of compensation to alleviate frustration, and more that serve it harms. Insisting in addiction extends the basic problem if you do not remove the cause.
The solution is easy : go to the root of the conflict, make a determination and act accordingly to replace the useless by the useful.