PATIENCE AND DRASTICISME

 There are occasions that require patience and others drasticism. The human race with its shortcomings, ignorance and unconsciousness it test our patience in the face of all sorts of nonsense observed on a daily basis. And the same human race pushes us to drasticism when it is impossible to dialogue, understand or establish a link that justifies it.                                                                                                                         The events are what they are, and we can only contribute a very small part in the successive events that occur on a daily basis. In what is not possible to influence even if we want to, in what depends on other people´s actions, in uncontrollable factors, so as not to damage one´s health with unnecessary worries, there is no choice but to be patient. If we are indifferent to some facts or results, there is no need for patience to intervene, stating that the fund depends on a personal assessment.                                              We constantly have to fit in with others, the environment and nature, and each show itself according to some peculiarities where sometimes we are related and sometimes not, and as our will cannot be imposed by force, patience is the key to adjusting and engaging in order for the outcome to be viable for the parties to enter the scene.                                                                                                                                             When does patience begin and when should it end ? When is it appropriate to be drastic ?                            We feel comfortable with those who adhere to us for ideals, points of view, tastes and hobbies, the fit occurs effortlessly. On the other hand. when the opposite is true, the irritation begins to rise, depending on the temperament and importance given to each topic. Accepting each others differences by being respectful is the challenge. Not because they are different should anyone be crucified.                                 There are situations and people who can patiently come to fruition. And also others that how much will we put into it, it is better to move away from what is impossible to change and of harmful toxicity to mantain close links.

PATIENCE BY FORCE

 Everyone is subject to cultivating  patience simply because everything takes time, a maturation, and learning comes with practice. When someone says patience, it may assume that is not mastered enough what is being done and insisted on, that some ongoing process still has a long way to go, or people who act by straining us or delaying results.                                                                                                               What we would like and what it is, that is training patience. Modify, improve, finding the right terms between speed and slowness, where the wait may be long or short dpending on background characteristics and timing                                                                                                                                                          Patience is the coupling of subject and object, and we need some knowledge between the existing and our purpose. Increasing the degree of patience is acquired with the accumulation of experiences, therefore it is gradual, and it will become an ally if we are able to temper desires with the right attitude.                             How is it measured if you have a lot or a little patience ? On what occasions is it appropriate and on what is not ? Patience must be present in the impasse that goes from the present to the one we want to manifest with certain changes.                                                                                                                                          Depending on the pretensions and what happens we will ask ourselves if is worth or has been worth being patient, and we will only know in the end.                                                                                                        Patience is the exponent that we constantly depend on external factors, that things do not come to our liking but as they should be in line, to the origin, to the actions committed, to the consequences and adjustments produced in successive developments, where everything has its rhythm. It can not be forced or accelerated, because the outcome is usually a loss instead of the final benefit which is the purpose of proceeding patiently.                                                                                                                                          We must have immense patience with all those people who don´t know how to behave correctly. Those who invade the space of another, selfishness of all kinds, people who are unable to cooperate because they intend to do everything according to their desire, and everything that breaks harmony and good manners. A limited patience that we must know how far we accept it.