Tuesday 28 April 2015

PRIDE IS AN ABSURDITY

Pride is an absurdity that oversize the own values, and according to this belief nor tolerate some positions of others that the individual catalog not acceptable due to its self importance.
Far from believing that pride is an asset, which causes are separations and losses. Puting on a pedestal by easy executing is a false and exaggerated assessment of certain skills.
The source of our acquisitions is the Creator, we are just a channel, and the " successes " are the merit of having connected, expressing it with words or actions.
For more virtues acquired, will be small before the ignorance of those that we will have to acquire.
The performing domain in specific areas, will be given to us for the particular role assigned to each one in the evolutionary path, and the role played by us is of intermediaries transmitting ideas or services for the collective.
We can not accomodate us or be satisfied with specific episodes, there is always someone more talented than us, and the potential for growth is unfathomable. All we have is a loan, therefore think that we are someone like a chosen people by the fact of being more skilfull with regard to the prevailing majority, is deceived. And although at some subject we have ease, we are still a deep ignorant in many more.
The specific conditions are personal and nontransferable, and although we want to imitate someone to copy will never be the original.
You can be glad of a work well done, but not be oversized by or inflate it. The goal is the effectiveness, the highest quality possible, and if you are able to get fantastic, and enjoy of made of.
Pride is a focus in the self that transmute thinking in the you, and the reductionist effect needs to expand the field of vision to observe in depth and with clarity.
The pride of their own importance, which feels offended by positions or comments from others, is a stronghold of immaturity and ignorance. And the antidote is the humility that recognizes their insignifcance before the immensity.
More or less knowledge, more or less resources, more or less skills, is not decisive, what counts is the attitude, the dignified treatment with the neighbor.
As small we are in this world, we are big in the upper world.

Monday 13 April 2015

FORCEFULNESS NECESSARY

Until where, even when we hold situations and / or relationships that don´t work ? Why is so difficult get rid of long ago is more a hindrance than a utility ? Fear of the unknown ? To the novelty will be worse ? If a certain context keeps us stuck or causes an impairment, must seek solutions to transform it or leave it.
If we have tried multiple alternatives without success, means that the test has not been exceeded. The message may consist in do it different or leave it, where the skills of observation, the process and the outcome will give clues in this regard.
What wins maintaning a relationship with someone dishonest, indifferent, with whom we can´t trust, without the essential affinity, where there is no reciprocity and the exchanges are of low quality where the balance inclines more toward discomfort and boredom ?
What wins clinging in a slaver context, without horizons, limiter and unsatisfactory ?
When prudence, the margin of confidence, the hope of change not reported a favorable result, we have two options : continues as a useless conformism that impedes progress toward better opportunities, or have the courage to make decisions that will lead to freedom.
Before modify drastically the current state we need to know what we want and what we should be in order to take the relevant strategy. Once we have clear the goal, the determination must be strong through words and actions to undo the dulling conditions. We don´t hesitate, and accompanied with an indispensable certainty going in the right way, show the necessary strength to break with the obstructive factors.
In the path leave activities, friends, couples, significant in its time and that have ceased to be. Leave behind the badness for common sense, practicism and self esteem. Life pushes us to detach which is no longer or has stopped working, and to flow without useless charges we must do the same.