THE CONSEQUENCES OF EMOTIONAL OUTBURSTS

Reactions received from comments or facts if they lead to angry forms it can have harmful consequences for the sender and the receiver. The non conformity, the unpleasant according to the valuation and the character of the one who feels offended, can generate a tense climate, regardless of intention and tone of whom  has uttered certain words or performed certain actions, what coul end in a more or less successful can lead to a tension and aggression that is difficult to calm down and liquidate.                                          Each case must be observed, however it is common for the subject to be considered abused it is due to self importance.                                                                                                                                                       If it is a question of praise ahead, if it is a question of criticism or simply discrepant observations, a mess is already organized. It is what happens when immaturity persists and everything that displeases is unbearable.                                                                                                                                                      Too many people are immersed in a superficial life, focused on unproductive banalities where true self knowledge is lacking that allows to see, understand and put us in touch with our uniqueness. Only pending supposed gratifying sensations, with limited goals, we should not be surprised by the daily nonsense that is dragging chaos and misfortune in its path.                                                                                                  The techincal sofistication that surround us does not stop incivility or lack of education or knowing how to treat others with respect. The root of all this is low education and the cult of the ego, a potential risk that often leads to various diary dramas. Some words or actions that may or may not be right, but they are an opportunity to observe and contrast different views to incorporate new parameters. We can receive it with interest, indifference or contempt, and after the emotional outburst there is no satisfaction or learning, only discomfort to defend a wounded ego.

EMOTIONAL OUTBUSRTS : dislike what others say or do

It is unfortunate to observe the usual episodes of rage over nonsense. The most irrelevant is a great offense for those who receive it, and so in any field, not only in the constant grotesque political episodes, also in family relationships, as a couple, as a friend or with anyone.                                                                          The childhood stage linked to the moon governs emotions. When we are child we want everything quickly, selfishly and to our liking, but we have to keep in mind the dependency, the unconsciousness and the immaturity that surrounds it. As age increases, so must knowledge and the responsibility, and these reactions of the first vital phase they can not maintained indefinitely with the pass of time.                         We are capable of achieving much greater development of what we get, and if is not so is not because or this or that it is selfish centrism that is incapable of far sighted vision between personal and collective pretensions so that it leads to a reciprocal benefit.                                                                                          It is a reflection of immature´s society own and others reasons every that what we want does not happen. Pretending that others say and do to our liking is rather a dictatorial attitude. And unfortunately all relationship problems originate in this immature egoic stance.                                                                       Desires are linked to the astral body, located between the physical body and  the mental body. If desires are part of the lower nature we focus on our interests disregarding the common good, and the consequences will be those we know well in the form of disputes, fights, controversies, and strong discomfort. It the desires come from the higher nature, the mental part will indicate  to us the ideal posture to adopt, so that the focus, the outcome and the result lead to a harmony between the individual and the collective. To reach this level we must trascend childishness that makes us react angrily by perpetuating disonances of all kinds, and become true adults not only by age but by behavior conducive to the overall vision thinking of what is best in each context and no strictly personal gratification.