BETWEEN TWO EXTREMES

In everything we do there is a bipolarity. Open / close ; start / end ; up / down ; go / return ; full / empty ; do / undo.
The plot take place in the middle between a beginning and an end, which is where we are pursuing some kind of objective, which impels us to move. Get a benefit of the action is the vitaliser factor. The desire, the need or the commitment is the one who keeps all the movements of the diversity of fronts where we are immersed.
Of all actions only remains synthetics memories and a substance that nourishes in occasions the thought, others the affective part and some to the physical body.
We must put the marker continuously to zero on a daily basis in the dual constant situations that are part of a unit.
We start with a point and we headed to another, the process necer changes, going to the search for a purpose, because without the claim of achieving anything we don´t move. There is a need for a lack, a yearning, essential for the effort and overcoming.
The question is : we know take advantage of the potential of what experienced ? the constant daily repetitions we do with inertia empty of content, without taste or increasing the potential ?
Limited by the obligations, it works fairly automatic. What we manipulate, the resources that we have , serve as intermediaries in the varied claims and demands to cover.
Often we have not awareness of the wealth that surround us, that constantly receive through third parties, and this reduced vision makes us think in a small, and consequently so is received.
The beginning and end are constant, we are pursuing all sort of purposes, but focusing on the result, in the finished task, we don´t plunge in the development of the process that is the builder of the eternal present.
In the middle pases the history, the trigger of what entails losses or gains, comfort or discomfort, where we play the conditions of immediate future.
Problems, conflicts, many issues to resolve at the individual and collective levels, we have to observe the cause, discover the origin, and do everything possible to reverse the chaotic situations by establishing the order.
Of what we do and how we do between the two extremes depends on absolutely everything, in favor or aginst, for good or for bad.

STUMBLE

The objective of what has been accomplished and of what we want is to proceed with success to obtain a favorable outcome, but we are not in a position to know everything, nor have the same skill in different facets. Know where is the right and the wrong is a job that always accompany us, because here lies decant the balance in favor or against.
In a process there may be several stages, a predictable and unpredictable. A party depend on us, and the other external factors not controlled. To achieve the purpose we have to be prepared, but there is always a start where we are starting from zero, and the errors occur because of ignorance, lack of attention, or not synchronized movements.
The fact of stumbling can suppose serious consequences, mild or without effect, it tries to observe the detonator and take appropriate measures to correct what we can from a situation in the past or future with similar characteristics.
Both individually and collectively are repeating ancestral useless patterns.. Behaviors that have caused discomfort, frictions, loss, and by more repetitive that it has been will continue to maintain the same guidelines. Instead to stop, reflect and  see where occurs the disjoint, pushed by the selfish desires and a limited vision will perpetuate useless procedures. - These people really want welfare ?
With interested approaches, pending own benefit, the stumbling can not be correct because all interactions involves the intervention of two parties giving and receiving, and if there is an inbalance in this sense the harmony and the fair treatment will not be possible.
The basis of errors has several vertents. Conscious mistakes recognizing them, or unconscious for whatever reasons. Honest mistakes where the situation beyond us,  and bad faith where the person thinks should say or do certain actions by their concepts, ideas and values, where the negativity and the injury caused to third parties clearly show the incorrect.
The passage of time should serve to widen the panoramic and act much better, but the reality show us that not profit the experiences.
Stumble is an opportunity, and extract a benefit the objective. See without seeing and hear without hearing, act without foreseeing the consequences, here is where we will find the key to be perpetuating errors, and so continue until not pass to the other end of clarity.

DESCONNECTED CONNECTION

The apparent social image is that we have many contacts. Messages up and down, various networks, where everything is straw.
How many of these contacts provide a reciprocal communication ? How many friendships are really heart felt ?
The amount of interactions is undeniable, but this does not imply a quality. In order to have quality we must offer the best of us, and the prevailing superficiality does not allow revitalizing expressions in the exchanges.
Most relationships are driven by the interest, and thinking only about the own benefit can not be build solid links. What is transmitted is the reflection of the current potential, and if is rather low this is what we offer to the other.
As a general rule the people speaks about trivial subjects that lead to nowhere to fill the silence. Each day we note at work, with the family, partner, and in general there is no real opening to the other neither ideas nor feelings.
If both parties are not involved it is not possible a connection. It is not a matter of speaking, but decrypt the contents of the words with your component both mentally and emotionally, and exercising of listeners, sincerely concerned for the other, extract from the conversation useful material for the sender and the receiver. This should be the goal.
The inertia makes us unconscious, often reckless, acting according to some customs by dates and what they represent, and vibrate with what we do requires attention, knowledge and enthusiasm. The low intensity usually displayed in what was executed, is the main obstacle to captivating experiences. Don´t want to risk, nor treat some topics, fear grips us, leaving escape opportunities continuously.
How we contact indicates the type of person. Many people say of word that will do and then don´t. Preparing a meeting that never arrives. Phone calls, letters which do not respond. Indifference, coldness, this is the attitude adopted by a growing group. Friendships that in reality are not. Rapprochement only by interest. False affection.
How many among all known are really sincere in what they express ? With how many people we are able to show us what we are ? How to love authentically and how much love us ? Who know essentially ?  This type of disconnected connections is really what we want ?
We can establish many and varied connections, which in the deep indicates the great disconnection between all.