Hardness considered by some, it may be softness by others. The view, the value given to relating factors, depends on a wide range of items of subjective criteria.
Hardness, softness of forms, in the attitude. The tone, the words, its incidence, are not the same in different people, and the same thing that involves an impact on someone can be indifferent in another.
We must be prepared to face situations, having the necessary adaptability to respond forcefully if the occasion requires it, or in any case with condescesion. What is important is the final result, that ensure to establish what is right and appropriate in every moment.
The hardness or softness in relationships will be in function of the partner. If prevail good manners, the softness has to prevail. If it is backwards, or prevents the contact or hardness can emerge.
The requirement toward ourselves is necessary to extract more performance with the aim of achieving best conditions. Would be an initial hardness for final softness.
The effort, preparation, the domain of what we do, are fundamental, and getting results is thanks to a process. The indolence, laziness, go down, is a bad softness.
Harshness as a synonym for strength, endurance, ability. Softness as a synonym for flexible, adaptable, easy to fit. The balance is able to express the best version of both in the different variants that we encounter.
Hardness not seem bad, it´s necessary to sustain, to resist in certain areas, and redress the wrong done to others in an effort to establish the correct.
The softness does not have to be good always, will depend on its impact. Not wanting to face or scolded, it can be much worse than show a dosi of rigor in certain moments.
It´s a matter of having clear ideas, be consistent in taking the proper posture to extract the optimal result in the many and varied facets that we face.
Wednesday 28 August 2013
Tuesday 13 August 2013
FOCUS THE ATTENTION
Be attemtive is to be in the now, at the moment, which ultimately is the most important thing, because the rest or is part of remembrance or is an imagination that we don´t know if it will be real.
In practical terms we have to strengthen the attention to the movements, the details, because the present actions forged the basis of the future, and with a definite purpose has been to fit in with the surrounding preserving the desired projecting new expectations to come.
We have to ask ourselves ¿ why deviate the attention to not fruitful topics, empty of content, losing opportunities to widen the perspective and the potential ?
Often deviate from the desirable or of what is important, is the result of feeling frustratred, lack of any, and sometimes a degree of unconsciousness that not measure properly values to be preserved.
All, little or much, took a detour from time to time of the real objective, of what can report an individual progress.
Regulars deviations who opt for distractions or secundary occupations, away more satisfactory occupations. That is why the dissatisfaction is what predominates, inevitably it is so to ignore the eternal goods focusing in the transients.
Success in any area is always the sum of a continued preparation to acquire domain through practice, time and will, where the attention has to be present from beginning to the end, because it depends on the result.
If we are distracted by other things that do not come to the case, we lose the concentration and not mastered the situation, then is the situation that dominate to us having dispersed.
The attention is not applicable exclusively to external elements, in the first instance has to focus on us, observe how we are, how we feel, because it is all a matter of measures and constant laces that arise from the inner operating abroad. To more connection in what emerges from within, more possibilities to act rightly in the actions to be executed, which ultimately is the desired purpose.
In practical terms we have to strengthen the attention to the movements, the details, because the present actions forged the basis of the future, and with a definite purpose has been to fit in with the surrounding preserving the desired projecting new expectations to come.
We have to ask ourselves ¿ why deviate the attention to not fruitful topics, empty of content, losing opportunities to widen the perspective and the potential ?
Often deviate from the desirable or of what is important, is the result of feeling frustratred, lack of any, and sometimes a degree of unconsciousness that not measure properly values to be preserved.
All, little or much, took a detour from time to time of the real objective, of what can report an individual progress.
Regulars deviations who opt for distractions or secundary occupations, away more satisfactory occupations. That is why the dissatisfaction is what predominates, inevitably it is so to ignore the eternal goods focusing in the transients.
Success in any area is always the sum of a continued preparation to acquire domain through practice, time and will, where the attention has to be present from beginning to the end, because it depends on the result.
If we are distracted by other things that do not come to the case, we lose the concentration and not mastered the situation, then is the situation that dominate to us having dispersed.
The attention is not applicable exclusively to external elements, in the first instance has to focus on us, observe how we are, how we feel, because it is all a matter of measures and constant laces that arise from the inner operating abroad. To more connection in what emerges from within, more possibilities to act rightly in the actions to be executed, which ultimately is the desired purpose.
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