To experience what we desire, we must attract it. There must be a minimum as a starting point to be able to achieve more. If we want to fill in some section, we must have an appropiate container. If we do not have it, it will not be possible no mater how much we want it. Exactly what happens in relationships. We are only able to offer what we have previously internalized. If we want quality, we must achieve it through actions and properly coupled optical materials. This means that what is transmitted through thoughts, feelings and expressions must be refined by knowledge and the will to transfer them in the best way. What proportion is prepared for continuous refinement ? Only by permanently expanding consciousness will be able to replace the rudimentary obstructive forms in us with those that establish authentic and healthy connections. What can we offer of value to others ? That which is in line with what has been learned and developed. If so many relationships go wrong, it is because they believe that the approaches and purposes are the right ones, and the very results that generate discord reveal the error of the one who made them. Limited training, self centered interests and ignorace are the cocktail for failure will all the episodes of tension and discomfort. If many people don´t know how to treat themselves well, they will do even less with others. We can not be attractive with blatant deficits. If we remain superficial and on unproductive topics, we will never feel fullness in our exchanges. Only by touching the deep, what make us vibrate, what excites us, we will have the opportunity to do so.
