Tuesday 28 June 2011

EVERYDAY BEHAVIOR

Everyday is to face numerous dualities where each according to the evolution, character, proceed and conditions has its own. We are debating between one option or another, where we can serve both as appropiate, and sometimes hurt us. Some may favor the opposite and disadvantaged from the outset, but will have to see how far the process takes.
There are many aspects of dual trend : true/false ; knowledge/ignorance; poverty/wealth. Is a kind of having or not having. The facilitator is to have, to behave according to guideliness to generate the ideal. The obstacle is not have, which is inadequate, and can be harmful.
Most live trapped in the inertia to cover the most basic, and so can not build high expectations. Just keep going and it is considered a lot. It´s pretty bleak when we see this scene surrounded by wealth, where never fully embracing that we could build, relationships eqquiped with inducement incentives, and instead found prevailing lack of genuine interest.
We have an immensity at our disposal and often live in poverty. Superficiality, little affinity, affectionate demonstrations at a low level, with a poor lifestyle in view of the media and information. We could enjoy a great quality in all senses, but we are unable to enter it.
The test is to pass from a dull life, limited, of simple physical maintenance, to life with content that goes beyond the immediate and transitional.
If conditions do not improve is due to conformity, not to believe in the changes, in our abilities, and no risk to experience noticeable transformations, still immersed in the routine without attraction or exciting goals that make us to strive to fund.
Times goes on, and over the years, but we really galvanized the dormant latent into something uplifting, we note that in fact we have done little to advance.
What we are limited, restricted, must be a driving force behind efforts to overcome in order to go beyond where we are. If all we had available, don´t should fight, we accomodate and would end the progress.
What is not working, not right, is an impediment, a condition that becomes an opportunity to work hard to transmute it.
We don´t ask for easy, because this often stops the expressive resources. The incentive that allows to grow it is  facing challenges to a larger scale, and we must be courageous trusting in our own possibilities.
In their everyday lifes is forged daily existence, depending on the tone you print it full of expectations, or simply cover the case.

Saturday 18 June 2011

HOW TO BE ATTRACTIVE

Everyone must think that beauty is the main point to capture the attention and to like. It´s certainly important to first glance, but behind it there will be more than just hold it, otherwise the attraction fade quickly.
What draws most of someone is what it says and what it does, just like you can be as nasty if rude and vulgar. Know how to captivate through the word is an art taken from a skilfull condition of words and sensitivity to give an air of refinement. Education training accumulated over the years, along with some distinctive features of the individual, provide the dialectic skill. Everyone know to speak, speeches or lectures may be more or less interesting, where the discourse seduction is granted only to a privileged minority.
We are tired of listening to politicians, celebrities or our acquaintances as they monotously repeating with a forecast annoying. The jam where they stopped long ago without broadening horizons, where it stayed and in consequence the expressions are the same.
The increased quantity and quality of knowledge and experience is what makes life attractive, and indirectly, when we relate to others do too. For those who find it so difficult to make differences, because to stay absorbed in working and daily activities rather trivial, but is no time dedicated to growing their own staff, being an impediment to continued growth in non dedicated attention.
People prefers the beautiful to the ugly, what ecited rather tah disappointed, what is that lights up an not what blurs, but does not strive to introduce these longings in itself, and as it is clear neither can see reflected externally while not build the movement who think so.
Often meet people and talk for how, but thorough look at the content of what they said, probably a large number of cases, you can´t make anything.
They talk a lot but nothing substantial worth, that would reflect that drives us to do things, to improve something. And this happens every day, most times you are left with known unless they join the already shared ideas or themes.
The mediocrity is not bout with mediocrity, just like ignorance with ignorance. If we introduce the qualitative elements will attract, and that means hard work, preparation and a real desire that we remain firm in training and polish to go through limited forms.

Thursday 9 June 2011

WHERE ARE LOOKING FOR ?

Everyone without exception search, goes to looking for, but the main thing is to know where to do so. If don´t go to the right place, we don´t get nothing, therefore, the essential is to know where we can find.
Most do not achieve their desires because they do not really know what they should. They try here and there, somewhat after another, ending sooner or later in frustration.
Generally, the claim focus on external factors, are convinced that a kind of panacea, cheking assiduosly that once you have the coveted object, it does not satisfy us as we thought. And the same thing happens if you do not get, because the mindset is who we self deceiving.
People, generally, so prominent, is convinced that happiness is a matter of having, and with this conviction thrown to pursue multiple objectives that society offers. Obviously some elements are essential of first order, as well as a handful of necessary to access to some amenities.
This is a function of intermediary, but should not be a goal. The problem arises from thinking that is  a goal, being at the mercy of objects, money or relationships.
Everything that is transitory, changing, subject to oscillations, losses, is not fundamental, because depend on others or circumstances, where today can be and disappear tomorrow.
What really is essential is what is eternal. What is always with us forged by our spiritual work, that nobody can take us, because it is subtle, as demonstrated qualities such as kindness, generosity, compassion., love, humility, patience, sincerity, wisdom and many more. These values are always reported permanent results, and not have to go find out.
If we see so many desenchanted people is because they seek something wrong in the wrong place, because if you were to seek it where it belongs (inside themselves) will get what they really seek but is ignored due to lack of introspection.
People say " i want to live " enjoy pleasures, access to wealth. And that in itself is neutral. It becomes harmful rather than beneficial when it is misused in the form of abuse or excess. In contrast, those who focused the intention cultivated as an individual to develop fully, striving in the neatness and corrected of what was said thinking of providing their services to socially fit individuals will live in peace and content only in the essential simplicity. But the subject in question relish other pleasures more valuable that those exposed to temporary, these that are permanent and indestructible.