WHAT DO WE WANT TIES FOR ? ( I )

Why do you want changes ? To  improve the existing one by replacing it with something else. What do we want ties for ? To establish more satisfactory conditions not achieved before the bond. This is a consistent approach, and in any significant modification it is necessary to observe the context and benefits offered by being free from conditioning obligations, and the restrictions of mobility, time, space and resources that entails to acquire an habitual bond or of daily coexistence.                                                                             The idyosincrasy of the person and longings can favor internalization or externalization. If is toward intenalization, without a doubt the constant presence of someone is an obstacle to having moments of silence, peace and collection for the practice of exercises, instruction and reflection. Living as a couple requires maximum coupling, a fit that begins at the mental level with similarity of ideas, complementary emotionality that generates proximity and purposes in a similar direction. All the factors driving to the union, because in short it is about this.                                                                                     What do we often observe ? People attracted by the physical, by a singularity, some talent, that captivates at the beginning, and as times passes and characteristics are discovered and above all shortcomings, the initial enthusiasm decays if there is no solidity that can sustain it.                                                                  It all lies in words and actions. What is said, what is done, the tone, the manner, they will incline towards what we like or dislike. The question is : What you like about certain words or actions that captivate and from here think about tying up with this person ? Given the prevailing social mediocrity the overvaluation makes it all the more special, and this for be lacking in remarkable people.                                                  The gaps we don´t know how to fill by ourselves disconnect from our center pending the periphery, with the belief that a specific peson  with its deficits, selfishness and immaturity will fill us, are unrealistic fantasies.                                                                                                                                                          Subconsciously we want to tie ourselves to someone because deep down we know we will be tested, and the link will involve precise experiences and situations for learning. This will be only possible with a developed consciousness, and with the desire of perfect our expressions and behavior, if there is no such motivation, then share chats, money and perhaps activities, but without a purpose of growth, the tie it will not make us better nor will the supposed satisfaction occur as we imagined.                                                  Ties to go where, to do what ? To perpetuate rutines and boredom, or to take on challenges that encourage effort to expand individual and commom potential ? Limit ourselves for development work, or have a part time company that mortgages life.

THE 10 FORMS OF NEGATIVE SPEECH

It may seem that there is only one form of negative expression that encompasses everything, but like many other things there are nuances and distinctions.                                                                                               1 - Malicious talk. This is one of the most haarmful practices, since it affects who are addressed the comments, to sender because of the negativity spread, and the atmosphere that permeates the vibrations.   2 - Mumble. What profit is extracted from them ? Does it improve the fund, the people involved, the subject itself ?                                                                                                                                                   3 - Lies. Lies it means saying what is it not, for fear, for interest, to hide facts and the possible consequences.Be that as it may, that which deviates from the truth, never succeeds because it wants to pass the non existent as if it had existence and consistency.                                                                                   4 - Flattery. What purpose does the flatterer pursue ?Falsehood with ulterior motives is often the trigger. There is no need to soap up in front the evidence, the facts are the clearest exponent.                                   5 - Nonsense. The nonsense comes from a low cultural level, of a defective discernment. Squandering energy with useless conversations brings not benefit.                                                                                     6 - Controversy. It is a mixture of evil and interest, and it points to both mental and emotional impurities product of a mental narrowness and pretensions that can not prosper.                                                            7 - Anger. Always present when desires are not satisfied in the desired form or measure, when the events don´t happen the way we want.                                                                                                                         8 - Proud remarks. Self hype for little things. Everyone´s talents are just loans for a purpose, desire for personal improvement and social sharing.                                                                                                       9 - Cheating.Sincerity is the basis of every relationship, and if it´s not there it disappears the confidence, and without confidence nothing solid or consistent can be built with perspective. Cheating can suppose some kind of momentary gain, but as the foundations are not consistent, sooner or later it will end in failure.                                                                                                                                                              10 - Humiliation. When we believe that are more than others for a question of money, social position or has some advantage or privilege over others, considering inferior to someone by belief or comparison. Everything is a consequence of ignorance, of egocentrism, of insensitivy towards the proism and what is different, towards what don´t like, and this only can change introducing the refinement of superior nature getting rid of harmful forms

ASHIR ( wealthy ) eyes, teeth, hands, feet

Ashir means wealthy, not in its literal meaning, but in the physical resources we have to realize all kinds of purposes for our development. We have eyes to see, which are used to identify what surrounds us and know how to locate everything in the right place to fit optimally. We are eqquiped with teeth so that the food can be crushed properly before moving to the stomach and digestive system leaving us with the nutrients before the unusuable is eliminated. Hands are our tools of action. Five fingers on each hand that indicate that we must put the five senses before starting a movement and be precise. Get the intended result. The two hands with ten fingers, state that the purpose is achieve the completeness  in the purposes. And feet they allow us to move. We can´t stand still making connections involves the eyes to know where to look, the teeth to chew while staying with the essentials for good organic functioning. And the hands to forge the differents purposes every moment. It´s a matter of working together. Two eyes, jawbone upper and lower, two hands and two feets. The two principles sender i receiver, the two gender male and female. The left eye is associated with the moon, the right eye to the sun. Hand right and feet to the man, and hand and feet left to the woman.                                                                                                                               If we want to extract the best contribution, we must adjust the two polarities constantly. When we introduce harmony the fit has been produced. Distortions, physical or psychological problems are consequences of not having properly coupled the two principles.                                                                   Eyes, teeth, hands, feet, four types of resources, suppose a work of concreteness to practical level by the numerical connotations of the number four. When four becomes eight, which would be to raise the actions and their purpose to a more refined sphere. Depending on the benefits and the way of proceeding we will stay in the sphere of four or we can doble in the scope of eight.

PRESUMPTION OF INNOCENCE ? NO, LYNCHING !

This is the trend if we want to push the opponet away, spread rumors, spread alleged irregularities, create a story where the pointed out seems very bad, and throw the carcass publicly so that the populace can be added to it, and in a matter of time work done. Sometimes the center of the target will point to politicians, that if they have money in paradise countries, that if they have embezzed. Others that may cast doubt the deep state, not hesitating to mobilize the entire repressive apparatus that acts with impunity without the ability to replay or counterattack. Relevant people who annoy because of what they say, because of the echo, because it shows some crooked foundations and rotten forms derived from interests that few the lower.                                                                                                                                                               Clubs, institutions, presidents, everything that is not pleasant and is a nuisance, slanders, and the people that does not distinguish truth from lies, with the aim of unpacking what you don´t want, what you don´t like and put the status at risk.The accused are already guilty before presenting evidence, without trial, without demostrations, ready for that barbarity in the form of comments or actions and very severe requests of punishment, Only lacks imitate the ancient romans and turn the thumb down for these alleged wrongdoers to be charged.                                                                                                                                This uneducated society, insensitivity, exalting what is no value and despising what if they have. Surrounded by sophisticated tools but with an aggressive behavior, despot, violent, disrespectful, who happily signs up for free lynching to satiate the insctintive side.It doesn´t matter if the substance of the question is true or not, what it counts is cornering, dissolve, dilute, driven by desires that will not bring satisfaction finally, because they are encouraged in hatred, lies, revenge, and are doomed to failure.

THE DESIRE TO TRAIN OF THE HUMAN RACE

If we have all something in common without exception is the desire to train others to our liking. From our particular self centered view, considering the very low level of knowledge with respect to an unknown immensity, we are convinved that our arguments, ideas, code of values, way to proceed, targets, are the right ones, when realty persistently insists by denying a whole cluster of postulates observing the behavior and the many deficits evidenced in so many people. The politicians are the champions of desqualifications, treating opponents as if they never do anything good and instead they are always right and the whole surpasses the great excellences. This procedure is not exclusive, constantly we want that others be our puppets to say and do what we want. And this happen between men and women, in couples, parents and sons, friends, in the labor field. We want to mold others to our taste and convenience when we are not able to transform our vices, to show respect, and express good manners. And all of it points to social failure having a very reduced consciousness that thinks it knows, understand, see clear, when really the ignorance is who makes us adopt these position. There is a very great distortion between what we believe we are convinced and what really is due to the egocentric approach hypersensitive to what comes close and insensitive to proism, and so is impossible to arrive to an understanding, a decent treatment and peaceful coexisistence. The proof is that there are always conflicts, and always for petty interests  that are the origin and the battle of the oppressed towards the oppressors who pursue miserable goals, and this will be if there is no deep awakening of consciousness that make come us out of lethargy that keep us stuck.

EFFROTS TO WIN OR LOSE

The effort is to obtain a profit. One off issues, or the other short or long terms issues. Physical and mental efforts are the prominent ones, and in between the emotional part it must balance both from the idea to realization. Desire is the pusher that must see clearly for correct discernment that allow us to see pros and cons and possibles outcomes.                                                                                                                           No doubt the efforts seek some kind of gain, of resolution, improvement compared to precedents. There are efforts to expand the existing one, to maintain or to fix what does not work correctly. Between the investment of time, resources and action, we have to determine if it is worth it .All the dynamized and the result. Investments focused on personnel and others extended outside to social aspects.                               Losses and gains are shared from everything we achieve.Tipping the scales will depend on preparation, skills, agility when fitting various components. Efforts they must be done thinking about introducing quality. From the most trivial to the most relevant, making a difference is what brings profit. No one wants miseries, everyone longs for well being, satisfactory conditions, but this requires effort and we must know how to do it to obtain that we want.                                                                                                                 To get out of a difficult context due to shortcomings, due to lack of preparation, surrounded by adversities often it is not possible to get rid of an environment and cifrcumstances even with effort unable to straighten out the various fronts that require deep transformation. Efforts to traansitory gains and efforts for perennial gains. The external, material, mundane, serves for a season, a few years, and sooner or later it gets diluted. If we set a constant long term plan of specific studies connecting with our subtle side, expanding consciousness to understand andf capture beyond the visible and superficial we will increase understanding, we will be able to understand each other more deeply. Intangible goods that can expand without limits if the consecration is constant and they will always accompany us. If only we live for work, to cover the elementary, if the efforts they do not result in any improvement that is preserved, in the end the efforts will have been due. The one dedicated to the transitory subject to change, we can´t hold it back. Only we will get persistent solid gains when actions and intentions revolve around fulfilling the spiritual precepts to their fullest extent.

WHAT WE EXPRESS NOW

What we express now is the reflection of previous experiences and how they affect in us. We go from ignorance to knowledge, from the unknown to the know, the question is if we know how to take advantage of the opportunities to expand potential giving us more possibilities to proceed more effectively in everything we face. What we show now is the same as decades ago ? The deficits, unconsciousness, immaturity, are they still part of our behavior ?                                                                                                The function of time is provide us cumulative experiences to contrast what we thought, felt and did in one time and its result, and observe if now if we follow exactly the same or we have taken advantage of the diversity of situations and relations to proceed with more harmony.                                                               We must ask several questions to find out if we are on the right track : am I doing what I´m supposed to do ? with what I have done today, am I improving in part or globally ? can I do much more than I do ? with the current objectives, capacity of understanding and personal characteristics, Am I heading towards an improvement with respect to more or less recent or distant past ?  Am I as critical of myself as of others ?  Unfortunately what is expressed now in a large percentage is the same as decades or centuries ago. There is not more knowledge no more breadth of views, no more understanding, no more empathy, no more sensitivity. And this happens on a personal basis and in the singularity of the countries. There is an DNA identifier that marks us and conditions us to keep repeating schemes and patterns of behavior, amd if these are inappropiate and harmful they end up affecting the sender and receiver.                                                  We have incoporated utensils, new styles, the present possibilities there is not to see with the past, and instead, neither the countries nor much people don´t follow this exemple because every new now is the same as always. If what is expressed now is the same as an eternity ago, we are not making progress, and when the stagnation it is prolonged ends in decadence.

INDIFFERENCE AND COLDNESS DO NOT GENERATE QUALITY

Indifference and coldness is the opposite to enthusiasm and warmth. When something doesn´t attract, doesn´t like or doesn´t arouse any interest, A distance stance is adopted because it does not impregnate neither sensitivity nor personal tastes nor is it part of the particular values.                                                   The indifference and coldness can occur from us toward external factors, or from other people towards us. The lack of connection generates distance, and hence indifference.                                                               Not giving importance to words, actions, opinions, events, being on the sidelines because the manifested  does not vibrate with our characteristics. Not getting involved, adopting a neutral stance, a middle ground  that can sometines be useful and convenient and on other occasions perhaps not depending on what is involved and the subsequent trascendence.                                                                                                      Activities, relevant topics in a past, meaningful relationships, are often modified over time due to a change in the interests that attracted before but not now, and the perspective is gradually adopted according to the expansion of knowledge and consciousness.                                                                                                   From attraction to indifference, from assiduity to no contact, tell us that the external is subject to variations, and for mantain ties, occupations that last over time, a solid base is needed to lean on continously project itself with new nutrients that are responsible for preserving the foundation.                   Distance in relationships where previously there was a confluence that has been fading away it is due to paths that lead us astray due to different concerns and singular characteristics that make it difficult keep the same difficulty.                                                                                                                                           What or who are we indifferent and why ? The answer it would indicate a good part of our idyosincrasy and where we direct what is considered important. Indifference and coldness does not generate quality because a distant position is adopted and of little value at the bottom of what is being discussed. The excellence in the current and past executed works are the product of developed talent with discipline and love for what is done, with an eagerness to overcome that implicity brings enthusiasm. If there is no enthusiasm, indifference arises, and this achieves neither improvement nor satisfaction, and consequently there is no quality.                                                                                                                                            In our lifes to generate quality enthusiasm is required  in addition to preparation and resources, and what is certain is that with indifference and coldness is unworkable.

THE PURPOSE OF OUR LIVES

WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF OUR LIVES ?                                                                                               A life complete and deep that is or will only be possible with one spiritual transformation with the proper training of knowledge and practical application in what is carried out day by day.                                                                                                                                                                                                                   WHAT IS THE MEANING OF PAIN AND SUFFERING ?                                                                          Pain and suffering are presents in our lifes for two reasons. Either by wrong actions, or by a cleansing process to free us from a negative influence.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               WHAT CHOICES ARE IN OUR POWER, AND WHAT IS BEYOND OUR CHOICE ?                             Our elections make all the diference in the world. Decant towards fluidity or obstruction, ease or difficulty it depends on the execution and what is intended.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       HOW CAN WE FIND PEACE AND CONTENTMENT IN THE MIDST OF THE USUAL CHAOS  AND VARIOUS DANGERS ?                                                                                                                        Peace and satisfaction only are possible when we see clear pros and cons, we have a range of views, and the purpose is act righteously for us and in relation to the rest.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 HOW CAN WE MAKE A POSITIVE DIFFERENCE IN THE PERSONAL AND SOCIAL ?                    The individual transformation is the first step. Acquire a gradual expansion of consciousness rethinking our attitudes, values and targets, why instead of doing it from a perspective of the ego desire which generates discord and conflicts, we do it in order to proceed correctly, because the challenge is to constantly harmonize the individual and the collective.

SHARE WHAT AND HOW

Share is the great challenge aware of the individuality that we must nurture in a non transferable personal task. Nature share what she has, and we learn this in the family. First we must prepare fitting in the near in terms of relationships and environment that contribute with resources, and in successive training stages to acquire knowledge and goods for their own use and sharing in part weaving our continuity.                        We share by donation or for a consideration. Of their own volition or interest. Know what we give, what we offer and what purpose there is appropiate for a utility.                                                                              The closest to is where the most connections occur. Close ties where we share space, time, opinions, utensils. Forming a family reduces the freedom to do according to what to concentrate in one area and specific people with which share the most essential to subsist and make contact according to the respective idiosyncrasies. Exactly the same in couple. And we must ask before being conditioned by what commitmments. ¿ why do I want to share and for what purpose the day to day with this person ? Does it have so many qualitative attributes to be present several hours a day ? We must not rush into false illusions, wrong impressions, unfocused judgments, lack of perspective. First think what we want share, why, with what pretension.                                                                                                                               In a close relationship there must be a confluence between the members, otherwise sooner or later will fade due inconsistensy in the base. A parallel in the maximum possible number of aspects, in the mental and affective, an afinity that brings consistency and understanding, because if not, even if we want to share, it will be impossible because unfeasible.                                                                                              There is a voluntary sharing freely chosen, and one by force for various reasons that we can not avoid.  In the social and personal share what makes us similar, what identifies us because it is common to us, because it is similar to us.                                                                                                                              What and how share, why, for whom. How the what is carried out and the how will mark the quality or absence of this, and this is a constant exercise in the little things and in the bigs, in the usual and in the sporadic.