EFFROTS TO WIN OR LOSE

The effort is to obtain a profit. One off issues, or the other short or long terms issues. Physical and mental efforts are the prominent ones, and in between the emotional part it must balance both from the idea to realization. Desire is the pusher that must see clearly for correct discernment that allow us to see pros and cons and possibles outcomes.                                                                                                                           No doubt the efforts seek some kind of gain, of resolution, improvement compared to precedents. There are efforts to expand the existing one, to maintain or to fix what does not work correctly. Between the investment of time, resources and action, we have to determine if it is worth it .All the dynamized and the result. Investments focused on personnel and others extended outside to social aspects.                               Losses and gains are shared from everything we achieve.Tipping the scales will depend on preparation, skills, agility when fitting various components. Efforts they must be done thinking about introducing quality. From the most trivial to the most relevant, making a difference is what brings profit. No one wants miseries, everyone longs for well being, satisfactory conditions, but this requires effort and we must know how to do it to obtain that we want.                                                                                                                 To get out of a difficult context due to shortcomings, due to lack of preparation, surrounded by adversities often it is not possible to get rid of an environment and cifrcumstances even with effort unable to straighten out the various fronts that require deep transformation. Efforts to traansitory gains and efforts for perennial gains. The external, material, mundane, serves for a season, a few years, and sooner or later it gets diluted. If we set a constant long term plan of specific studies connecting with our subtle side, expanding consciousness to understand andf capture beyond the visible and superficial we will increase understanding, we will be able to understand each other more deeply. Intangible goods that can expand without limits if the consecration is constant and they will always accompany us. If only we live for work, to cover the elementary, if the efforts they do not result in any improvement that is preserved, in the end the efforts will have been due. The one dedicated to the transitory subject to change, we can´t hold it back. Only we will get persistent solid gains when actions and intentions revolve around fulfilling the spiritual precepts to their fullest extent.

WHAT WE EXPRESS NOW

What we express now is the reflection of previous experiences and how they affect in us. We go from ignorance to knowledge, from the unknown to the know, the question is if we know how to take advantage of the opportunities to expand potential giving us more possibilities to proceed more effectively in everything we face. What we show now is the same as decades ago ? The deficits, unconsciousness, immaturity, are they still part of our behavior ?                                                                                                The function of time is provide us cumulative experiences to contrast what we thought, felt and did in one time and its result, and observe if now if we follow exactly the same or we have taken advantage of the diversity of situations and relations to proceed with more harmony.                                                               We must ask several questions to find out if we are on the right track : am I doing what I´m supposed to do ? with what I have done today, am I improving in part or globally ? can I do much more than I do ? with the current objectives, capacity of understanding and personal characteristics, Am I heading towards an improvement with respect to more or less recent or distant past ?  Am I as critical of myself as of others ?  Unfortunately what is expressed now in a large percentage is the same as decades or centuries ago. There is not more knowledge no more breadth of views, no more understanding, no more empathy, no more sensitivity. And this happens on a personal basis and in the singularity of the countries. There is an DNA identifier that marks us and conditions us to keep repeating schemes and patterns of behavior, amd if these are inappropiate and harmful they end up affecting the sender and receiver.                                                  We have incoporated utensils, new styles, the present possibilities there is not to see with the past, and instead, neither the countries nor much people don´t follow this exemple because every new now is the same as always. If what is expressed now is the same as an eternity ago, we are not making progress, and when the stagnation it is prolonged ends in decadence.

INDIFFERENCE AND COLDNESS DO NOT GENERATE QUALITY

Indifference and coldness is the opposite to enthusiasm and warmth. When something doesn´t attract, doesn´t like or doesn´t arouse any interest, A distance stance is adopted because it does not impregnate neither sensitivity nor personal tastes nor is it part of the particular values.                                                   The indifference and coldness can occur from us toward external factors, or from other people towards us. The lack of connection generates distance, and hence indifference.                                                               Not giving importance to words, actions, opinions, events, being on the sidelines because the manifested  does not vibrate with our characteristics. Not getting involved, adopting a neutral stance, a middle ground  that can sometines be useful and convenient and on other occasions perhaps not depending on what is involved and the subsequent trascendence.                                                                                                      Activities, relevant topics in a past, meaningful relationships, are often modified over time due to a change in the interests that attracted before but not now, and the perspective is gradually adopted according to the expansion of knowledge and consciousness.                                                                                                   From attraction to indifference, from assiduity to no contact, tell us that the external is subject to variations, and for mantain ties, occupations that last over time, a solid base is needed to lean on continously project itself with new nutrients that are responsible for preserving the foundation.                   Distance in relationships where previously there was a confluence that has been fading away it is due to paths that lead us astray due to different concerns and singular characteristics that make it difficult keep the same difficulty.                                                                                                                                           What or who are we indifferent and why ? The answer it would indicate a good part of our idyosincrasy and where we direct what is considered important. Indifference and coldness does not generate quality because a distant position is adopted and of little value at the bottom of what is being discussed. The excellence in the current and past executed works are the product of developed talent with discipline and love for what is done, with an eagerness to overcome that implicity brings enthusiasm. If there is no enthusiasm, indifference arises, and this achieves neither improvement nor satisfaction, and consequently there is no quality.                                                                                                                                            In our lifes to generate quality enthusiasm is required  in addition to preparation and resources, and what is certain is that with indifference and coldness is unworkable.

THE PURPOSE OF OUR LIVES

WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF OUR LIVES ?                                                                                               A life complete and deep that is or will only be possible with one spiritual transformation with the proper training of knowledge and practical application in what is carried out day by day.                                                                                                                                                                                                                   WHAT IS THE MEANING OF PAIN AND SUFFERING ?                                                                          Pain and suffering are presents in our lifes for two reasons. Either by wrong actions, or by a cleansing process to free us from a negative influence.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               WHAT CHOICES ARE IN OUR POWER, AND WHAT IS BEYOND OUR CHOICE ?                             Our elections make all the diference in the world. Decant towards fluidity or obstruction, ease or difficulty it depends on the execution and what is intended.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       HOW CAN WE FIND PEACE AND CONTENTMENT IN THE MIDST OF THE USUAL CHAOS  AND VARIOUS DANGERS ?                                                                                                                        Peace and satisfaction only are possible when we see clear pros and cons, we have a range of views, and the purpose is act righteously for us and in relation to the rest.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 HOW CAN WE MAKE A POSITIVE DIFFERENCE IN THE PERSONAL AND SOCIAL ?                    The individual transformation is the first step. Acquire a gradual expansion of consciousness rethinking our attitudes, values and targets, why instead of doing it from a perspective of the ego desire which generates discord and conflicts, we do it in order to proceed correctly, because the challenge is to constantly harmonize the individual and the collective.

SHARE WHAT AND HOW

Share is the great challenge aware of the individuality that we must nurture in a non transferable personal task. Nature share what she has, and we learn this in the family. First we must prepare fitting in the near in terms of relationships and environment that contribute with resources, and in successive training stages to acquire knowledge and goods for their own use and sharing in part weaving our continuity.                        We share by donation or for a consideration. Of their own volition or interest. Know what we give, what we offer and what purpose there is appropiate for a utility.                                                                              The closest to is where the most connections occur. Close ties where we share space, time, opinions, utensils. Forming a family reduces the freedom to do according to what to concentrate in one area and specific people with which share the most essential to subsist and make contact according to the respective idiosyncrasies. Exactly the same in couple. And we must ask before being conditioned by what commitmments. ¿ why do I want to share and for what purpose the day to day with this person ? Does it have so many qualitative attributes to be present several hours a day ? We must not rush into false illusions, wrong impressions, unfocused judgments, lack of perspective. First think what we want share, why, with what pretension.                                                                                                                               In a close relationship there must be a confluence between the members, otherwise sooner or later will fade due inconsistensy in the base. A parallel in the maximum possible number of aspects, in the mental and affective, an afinity that brings consistency and understanding, because if not, even if we want to share, it will be impossible because unfeasible.                                                                                              There is a voluntary sharing freely chosen, and one by force for various reasons that we can not avoid.  In the social and personal share what makes us similar, what identifies us because it is common to us, because it is similar to us.                                                                                                                              What and how share, why, for whom. How the what is carried out and the how will mark the quality or absence of this, and this is a constant exercise in the little things and in the bigs, in the usual and in the sporadic.

BETWEEN MINIMUM AND MAXIMUM

To locate or determine a specific factor between one minimum and one maximum measuring tools are required. The contrast by comparison observed repeatedly, it places different contexts in one side or another according to what presents.                                                                                                               Who determines what is considered minimum or maximum ? The assessment, the consensus of the reviewers, the sensation. Both the minimum and the maximum, depending on which time or incidence it can be favorable at times and unfavorable at others.                                                                                        We can agree on temperature, height or weight. 10ª you can feel cold and 25º hot, a little difference, and once everyone is placed in their group, the extremes can be in more or less. The height or weight is exactly the same, there are some numbers accepted by the majority when indicating the decantation.         In what surround us we have to make calculations to obtain the best possible result. On a trip to be punctual, take a means of transport, depending on the leeway we have, it is convenient to know the minimum or maximum to speed up or slow down the pace.                                                                           Measurements have to do with what we can see, touch or feel. In abstract questions to densify ideas, it will depend on subjective assessments and the progressive development if the projects go ahead. Minimum or maximum it will have to be observed gradually as time passes.                                                                     Minimum or maximum is a guiding reference, and we should want to extract the maximum benefit from latent talents for one´s own individual benefit and for what it means in terms of social contribution in the constant give and receive that serves a nourishment in the personal and collective.                                      Managing time and resources as we proceed will show us if we make good use of them.¿ What do we usually invest time and resources in ? ¿ in expanding knowledge and acquiring virtues, or do we squander it in banal unproductive occupations ? ¿ through time we refine ourselves by polishing the behavior and having a more careful treatment in general with proism ? ¿ do we introduce qualitative elements into what we think, feel and do ? If the feeling is of stagnation in various aspects, it is clear that we are only doing the minimum. Go pulling, cover the file.                                                                                                       To move forward significantlyand progress as a being, we have to forge it in the deepest. The energizing impulse that pushes you to surpass yourself on all fronts, it must springs from the inside shaping it with facts externally, amd with the longing to achieve the maximum, perhaps we will only achieve small improvements, when the persevering goal, preparation and discipline will bring us closer to a progressively more optimal version.

CONSTANT ENLARGEMENT OR BOREDOM

Why are there so many boring relatinoships ? Because we only can demand as much as they are able to each one, and the prevailing society it only focuses on the banal, on mundane issues, ant the instruction and it was done to get a job, that´s what we have to expect.                                                                           What do we find in close, regular relationships ? Constant repetitiveness circling the same topics in a kind of labyrinth with no exit. There is no renewal because interests and aspirations are what they are, mantaining this low level of communication that is repeated daily.                                                                 Same words, same themes, same arguments, in order not to contribute anything new or significant that allows us to get out of a deadlock where we can´t see it the end.                                                                    The majority prepares only to carry out a professional ocupation, being educated up to university at the most. ¿ and then until retirement or beyond where there are new nourishments ? Stagnation begins in youth, and the lack of expansion of knowledge it makes conversations repetitive, predictable, monotonous. In order not to get bored making it extendable to the rest we must be increasing the instruction continously, not strictly focused on the labor field if it requires it, if not in the personal self introspection that awakens our consciousness about our identity, pecualiarites and purpose.                                             If no internal desire emerges, the focus will be on the limiting material aspects, and this is what see in families, couples and friendships, where there can be a lot of contact but little substance, with unsatisfactory superficial exchanges.                                                                                                               Every day is different, every stage, every decade, and on the other hand, the majority remains stuck in minimal knowledge that diminishes by not expanding it. If we put together some sort views, strictly material aspirations, and selfish approach and aspirations, leads to boredom due to repetitiveness and inability to introduce more enriching variants.                                                                                                Whe usually find two sides with low preparation, primaries desires which irremediably lead to nefarious exchanges. To get out of tedious boredom is only possible by raising consciousness. With an incessant broadening of knowledge that facilitates getting out of the strait. With a potential for a continuous development, bring new expressions, risk the unknown, because in the end when we pass from ignorance to knowledge is  to enter the unknown to do so in the known

FEARS : ASUMPTION OR EVIDENCES

How is fear formed ? It is the feeling of not being able to master a situation where we see ourselves in a prsent threat or in a hypothetical future, Faced with events that endanger our physical integrity or exposed to material losses that makes us vulnerable.                                                                                                      There are real fears and imaginary fears. The real ones are tangible, where we need to take precautions. Imagination are based on observation of various possibilities where it is to see the development of the focus that originate the fear. Be diminished in some aspect and suffer, not being able to be or feel with the faculties intact due to illness or accidents that limits resources in one or more aspects.                                  The consciousness to know that we may lose or deteriorate valued values, it should make us cautious in general terms from according to what pretensions to the way of making movements.                                     It´s all a matter of words and actions that stem from thoughts, feelings and emotions, and if they are in balance we need not fears adverse results.                                                                                                        There are many tribulations everywhere of all kinds because of transgressions. Conflicts, losses, tensions, deficits, they are the effect of precedents where the necessary harmony has not been acted upon, and the sufferings that arise are the consequence of not foreseeing the outcome. The mistakes of the past threaten the future in a present fearful of devastating effects at a personal and or collective level.                             Everything that happens is just the right thing, and the challenge is to unravel the purpose of the tests, in order to move to a more favorable context as long as we are able to decipher why and apply integrative remedies.                                                                                                                                                          As the spiritual precepts indicate : " the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom ". This indicates that any deviation from a correct behavior is to continuosly fit the parts and the whole, may result in some damage, and not knowing what it can be, when and to what extent, it is what arouses fear. However, if we try to be fair and upright at every moment, there is no reason to be afraid, because any affliction is a previous maladjustment.

THE ETERNAL INEPTITUDE

From a young age the society prepare us so that each one acquires a training that allows a minimum of autonomy in a maximum of dependencies. From the family clan to individual singularity requires spending years of study to know to operate in the surrounding environment, and with this basis prepare for a trade as a means of exchange in order to obtain resources.                                                                                     Know what, how and why in the different areas where we are, it is essential for the purposes to lead to a favorable result. Discover our characteristics and circumstances, and know how fit into each context is the taask to face that requires extensive knowledge, patience, observe, archive the influence of experiences, and with multiple rehearsals try to model the appropriate tone according to the situation, person, goal or other peculiarities.                                                                                                                                            We all long for well being and harmony, and we must generate it in the continuous fit between us and the established links in the environment and with others. We must know how, and this assumes having previously acquired skills. The will moved by desire, must be guided by an equanimous thought, a vision in perspective where the affective emotional side also participates. If balance prevails on the three fronts mental, emotional and physical, then harmony is the result. If the create by our pretensions and way of proceeding leads to discomfort and discord, is the clear exponent of not seeing clearly, clouding of ideas, harmful emotions, and counterproductive actions.                                                                                          Perhaps we have professionals aptitudes, but is also it is essential to forge them with respect to health, dealing with others and correct discernment regarding what we do, what we want and the consequences that may be unleashed.                                                                                                                                     From immemorial time, misfortunes, atrocities, aberrant events happen every day, where the desired wealth and harmony it doesn´t even come close. And it we are not able to reverse it is because we are inept, and the causes they lie in selfish approaches and interests along with a lot of ignorance product of the unconsciousness deprived of seeing clearly.                                                                                             The current technological sophistication does not improve ancestral behavior. The machines facilitate the action outside, but what really matters can only be achieved by developing internal qualities, which means having a longing for spiritual life that is the provider of aptitudes, and until this desire emerges we will continue to be immersed in conflicts, disatisfaction and the inability to improve where we should focus.

ADMIRATION YES, IDOLIZATION NO

 To admire is to focus on the object that transmit a pleasant feeling through images sounds or words to which assign value. Idolization is focus on the subject who is skilled in some area and has the public approval that enjoys the shown.                                                                                                                       We are intermediaries, and the talents o abilities are acquired knowledge from others that have preceded us and each one individually imprints characteristics with a distinctive stamp in order to share with others contributing to the society.                                                                                                                               What do we admire in a work ? What touch us, make us vibrate according to our tastes and sensibilities. The admire for some it can be indifferent for others, even rejected. All quite subjective.                             We must not idolize anyone because individual peculiarities have been assigned to us with precise supervision so that through effort and externalization we establish useful connections for personal and collective benefit.                                                                                                                                             Despite the prevailing mediocrity we need quality, and when in the different areas someone stands out for what it offer, it´s that when admiration springs up. The artist is only a channel through with inspiration passes, a loan to execute a particular purpose in the constant chain of links.                                                 Valuable works endure in time and continue to be admired, while the authors have disappeared, indicating that the focus should  be on admiring the product, what it offers, what it conveys. The idol which is to elevate excessively because they know how to express certain skills beyond the prevailing term, he has only filtered what he has been able to capture, giving it shape in order to share it, thus fulfilling his task of social contribution.