OPEN TO, CLOSE TO

Open can indicate start, close can indicate finish. What do we want to open up to ?  What do we want to close ? Sometimes opening up has favorable connotations, and others not according to the context and what it can cause. And the same goes for closing. Sometimes is advisable, and sometimes not. We must open ourselves to what can represent an improvement, possible healthy earnings,and expand horizons. . And vice versa in terms of closing, in that which put us in danger, which lead to losses, that leads to ill, to deterioration.                                                                  Open is a synonymous to externalize, close to internalize. We must be open to constantly increasing our potential and with the discernment to know when it is not appropiate to open up to what experiences can be more harmful than advantageous. Internalization is essential to reveal what drives us to say, to dor or what we want and where go.                                                                                                                            In the morning when we wake up facing  a new day, externalization begins, social contact, execution of activities. In the evening, after fulfilling the obligations, is time for introspection, to analyze our diary behavior to know possibles hits and errors and how improve them.                                                                Open to determined relations and close to others. The various changes in the time of friends, occupations, means and opening and closing. Beginnings meant opening and endings meant closing.                               With the years changes tastes, criteria and values, and this implies open to a certain questions in one determined time, and then closng. Those relevant activities, friends that seem to fit so well with us, suddenly disappears and they are replaced by other tendencies and other contacts that marks new stages. Everything is part of everyone´s process, some stagnant, and other renewing themselves, depending on the temperament and concerns of these involved.                                                                                                 Which was good in a period to open in order the further development and goals, then is better closing. And what had been unconscious or unknown it starts to become part of what we value, open to experience to what suits the characteristics of the moment.                                                                                               Know open to or close to, is the challenge that acompanies us every day to choose the most convenient.

A LOT OF VISCERALITY AND LITTLE INTELLIGENCE

Aspirants to govern municipalities or a country can such a low level  of preparation, with unpresentables speeches, continuously attacking the adversaries that do not agree with their points of view, where the only thing they know is to pollute the environment twitching in all ways ? Where is the capacity of the citizens to support a group of energumens similar to suburban gangs, with plenty of previous records of corruption and disastrous management ? How is it possible to defend projects that in the past meant censorship and dctatroship, eliminate rights, go against the needs of the moment, and have broad support from the population ? What do the voters think ? Is this their ability to discern ? Giving power to a bunch of trechers with an obvious lack of culture and civility, hypersensitivities for their simbols and elevate these  to the category of sacred, while in the same proportion freeze to eliminate everything they can not bear in the most despotic ways possible ?                                                                                                        Of mouth indivisible unity, and the actions are constantly on the way to division. Separatism is the culprit, yes, what they curse everyday to impose the will of one party to another.                                                      Can keep someone to be with you by force and you just repeat that you can´t leave why do I say it.The kidnapper sets the law, the rules, and the kidnapped must abide by them, because if he rebels will be punishment, attacks and persecution. This is the panorama that has existed since the time immemorial, it neither changes nor is seen in the short term, because too many people are driven by viscerality without seeing the bottom line and the consequences because intelligence has simply been left aside.

THE PERVERSIONS BEHIND THE WORDS UNITY AND FREEDOM

The treasures of perversion bring no profit. A self gratifying narcissistic perversion of wealth, power and position, they ultimately lead to ruin in some area. The one built on a toxic foundation may last for some time, but in due course accounts will have to be passed.                                                                                 Unity by force is not unity, it is only with will, fit and affinity. special laws, a power structure with multiple tentacles to reduce and dilute dissidents with verbal and physical aggression, it can never be unity because the actions themselves deny it.                                                                                                           Freedom for me, imposition for the different ones that I don´t like. Freedom to speak my language in my own house and in that of the neighbour who has a different culture and language, making it more mandatory, while the natives can not demand basic respect. The oppressed at the expense of the oppressors, remaining as outsiders in their own territory.                                                                               The supremacists have the freedom to impose language and customs in foreign places, they are not obliged to know the language of the subjugated, and the natives must know by decree that of the occupier.  Freedom for the oppressor it means saying and doing whatever they want without consequences. But depending of what the opponent says or do, it can be classified as a hate crime or whatever they decide.           Greatness is not having a skyscraper and being bothered by small corner store doing everything they can to eliminate it.                                                                                                                                                   Greatness is to have a dish full to spill and want to take more that the little that have of the neighbour.      Greatness it is not vexing, humiliating, insulting, disqualifyng so that they speak to you in the language you want using the force of authority and power.                                                                                                  How can you qualify that you can´t stand someone but you don´t want to let them go ? When you don´t like someone or something, the most logical thing is to stay away from them.                                              How can it be understood that you want to subjugate the opponent so that you take advantage of him financiallly, and at the same time drown him financially ?.                                                                            Everything is a sign of enormous perversion and also of a deep imbalance.                                                   Bragging about quantity, that they are more, that they have more, chasing those who are quantitatively less or have less. Where is the logic of this obsession ?                                                                                         What sense and what purpose is there beyond the appearances for one party to be the oppressor and the other to endure it ?                                                                                                                                            Centuries and centuries of the same ideas, the same goal, where the result is submission and an economic profit, in exchange for a permanent discomfort that turns the day to day in a nuissance. After all pursuing wretched ends with petty procedures. Materials earnings in exchange for spiritual losses who with their blindness to mental and emotional dirt ignore the repercussion it will end up having.

TIES USUAL, OCCSASIONAL, CLOSE OR DISTANT

What do we really decide ? What real degree of freedom do we have to choose ? Why does everyone have specific relationships ? Fathers, sons, couple, they are all intermediaries. Each one performs a function with certain characteristics, where proximity and assiduity bring out our true essence. We are constantly tested to develop the potential to move from the unconscious to conscious, of the defense of one´s own interests to give and share. The failure of relationships and the low quality of these is why selfishness prevail and the straitjacket. So neither one nor the other play the role of messengers wasting the content of what we are showing.                                                                                                                                        The ties are inevitable, no one can live in isolation, and if it does so respect to people, it can not avoid the dependence of nature. The shortcomings force us to externalize ourselves, to establish connections, And if we are looking for good conditions, why do we adopt unpleasant postures, aggression, knowing that we need supports to covert deficits ?                                                                                                                     The needs to acquire resources it makes establish ties. First at school for mental nourishment. After in job training for material sustenance. And not necessarily some are looking for a partner and children to fill the  emotional side.                                                                                                                                          The ties can last more or less, and sooner or later they all end up being transitory, from here the need of detachment to avoid frustrations, because the companies enter and leaving in our vital stage, they are to play a role aimed at expanding our faculties.                                                                                                   Relationships are necessary for the coupling between the individual and the collective, and at the same time none is essential.                                                                                                                                       What we have extracted from the different context and stages ? What have learned from those people we like and those who dislike ? Have we been able in a one to one and hierachical relationship ? Do we know how to decipher what bothers us about someone and why do we have to experience it ? Have we taken advantage of the passage through the different areas and time to improve the expressions ?                          Ties are connections, and just like the machines works if there is a proper fit, exactly to human level. If there are disagreements, tensions and discomfort, there is a mismatch, and we have to find out where it is for the link to fulfill its purpose.

Man and woman they have been created back to back. Will they turn ?

We are all the product of the union of the two male and female principles, therefore although externally in the physical aspect we distinguish ourselves by a certain sex, the other principle is also in us.                       Man and woman have been created back to back. Everyone looks in opposite directions and they can´t see each other faces. The work of both consists of turning around and seeing each other head on, to identify and establish agreements based on implicit differences and that they work for unity in diversity.                  Be the same in essential but different in the rest. Fit the differences is a constant task taking into account the respective code of values, criteria, and quite opposite conceptions on several significant fronts. What is needed first is to acquire deep archetipal knowledge of the same gender, and then do the same with the other opposite to ours. Know why we are the way we are and the cause, giving us much greater and more satisfying possibilities..                                                                                                                                    Men are transmitters at a mental and physical level, and receivers in the emotional aspect. On the other hand, women are emotional transmitters and mental and physical receivers .Aware of these basic points, it is a matter of good disposition arising from a coherent broad discernment and the indispensable affection  it brings to establish links.                                                                                                                                The challenge is to internalize the qualities of the other polarity in us to not have external dependencies. And because this task is difficult and requires great effort and discipline, we hardly incorporate the attributes of the other sex in the optimal magnitude. Hence the majority look for the supplement that they believe will cover gaps or deficiencies.                                                                                                           Love binds, wisdom unties. What do we want ties for ? For love of someone or for own because of what the bond may imply. To bind oneself is to limit, and there must be a compelling reason and one purpose. The social evolutionary level in all cultures, is not enough developed to establish a couple relation that is the more demanding, and allow both individual and collective progress as a whole due to personal interests in oneslf and the interaction and one refined sensitivity to express altruistic love.                           Before conditioning ourselves with the responsibilities that will be incorporated we must ask ourselves primoridial questions . Why want this relation ? Can drive to show the best ? There is authentic enthusiasm in what I feel ? What I can supposedly earn can have more value tha what I enjoyed before the engagement ?                                                                                                                                                    There is too much fantasy, supposition and imagination over the idealization of what may lie ahead to fit in all areas. Choosing a partner in the west is usually for love, but this must be guided for wisdom, and fit both, because is the only manner to understanding both and have possibilities in the continuity that it will have to be constantly monitored.

WHAT DO WE WANT TIES FOR ( II )

The essential point for a nexus to report profit is the fit. We check it inside a clock, a circuit, or the key and the door.                                                                                                                                                      Everyone has a uniqueness, we will not find anyone exactly alike manifesting in everything like us, therefore, in the differences lies the effort if it is intended to combine the contributions of each part.           If we want fluid exchanges we have to find out our own character to know where the strengths and weaknesses are in order to proceed appropriately in each relationship and context that allows the best fit for the intended objectives.                                                                                                                            There must always be an interest that pushes us to leave us and have bridges of proximity with someone.   ¿ what are we looking for ? ¿ what exactly do we want ? ¿ what can the other provide us that we can not ? ¿ and what can we offer in exchange ? In order to make a suitable approach, the wider the self  knowledge, the better it can be the favorable result in the intended. If we don´t know how to define why we are like this nor distinguish whether we are on the right track or not, coupling with someone will have little chance of success. Unfortunately, this is what has been observed time and time again.                                             Unconsciously we acquire ties to some characteristic we like, retreating to a very narrow margin with respect to the whole, and once immersed in the adventure of commitment, the day to day awakens us from the illusion with " the lot " of each one, the complete package of who we are, surfacing disagreements, tensions and discomfort, and what seemed so beautiful suddenly lands us.                                                   We should not expect the feeling of well being from a single person with his impurities and shortcomings, why the most precious goods are intangible, and peace, silence, tranquility, and recollection come from within.                                                                                                                                                                What real progress have couples experienced after decades of coexistence individually or together ? Have we deciphered what we had to learn, polish, amend through the other to improve our expressions ? Of the previous imaginations of supposed satisfaction, what percentage has been evidenced ?  how many times have we thought of undoing the link due to boredom, stagnation and without a purpose that justifies the continuity ?                                                                                                                                                       It is the calculation of various factors that prevents the merger and the progress of the exchanges. The superficiality that permeates the relationship deprives of experiencing quality, and if we add the selfish part and considerable immaturity, it is not possible to achieve the purpose that must be provided by the fit of the two distinct identities working as a unit.                                                                                       

WHAT DO WE WANT TIES FOR ? ( I )

Why do you want changes ? To  improve the existing one by replacing it with something else. What do we want ties for ? To establish more satisfactory conditions not achieved before the bond. This is a consistent approach, and in any significant modification it is necessary to observe the context and benefits offered by being free from conditioning obligations, and the restrictions of mobility, time, space and resources that entails to acquire an habitual bond or of daily coexistence.                                                                             The idyosincrasy of the person and longings can favor internalization or externalization. If is toward intenalization, without a doubt the constant presence of someone is an obstacle to having moments of silence, peace and collection for the practice of exercises, instruction and reflection. Living as a couple requires maximum coupling, a fit that begins at the mental level with similarity of ideas, complementary emotionality that generates proximity and purposes in a similar direction. All the factors driving to the union, because in short it is about this.                                                                                     What do we often observe ? People attracted by the physical, by a singularity, some talent, that captivates at the beginning, and as times passes and characteristics are discovered and above all shortcomings, the initial enthusiasm decays if there is no solidity that can sustain it.                                                                  It all lies in words and actions. What is said, what is done, the tone, the manner, they will incline towards what we like or dislike. The question is : What you like about certain words or actions that captivate and from here think about tying up with this person ? Given the prevailing social mediocrity the overvaluation makes it all the more special, and this for be lacking in remarkable people.                                                  The gaps we don´t know how to fill by ourselves disconnect from our center pending the periphery, with the belief that a specific peson  with its deficits, selfishness and immaturity will fill us, are unrealistic fantasies.                                                                                                                                                          Subconsciously we want to tie ourselves to someone because deep down we know we will be tested, and the link will involve precise experiences and situations for learning. This will be only possible with a developed consciousness, and with the desire of perfect our expressions and behavior, if there is no such motivation, then share chats, money and perhaps activities, but without a purpose of growth, the tie it will not make us better nor will the supposed satisfaction occur as we imagined.                                                  Ties to go where, to do what ? To perpetuate rutines and boredom, or to take on challenges that encourage effort to expand individual and commom potential ? Limit ourselves for development work, or have a part time company that mortgages life.

THE 10 FORMS OF NEGATIVE SPEECH

It may seem that there is only one form of negative expression that encompasses everything, but like many other things there are nuances and distinctions.                                                                                               1 - Malicious talk. This is one of the most haarmful practices, since it affects who are addressed the comments, to sender because of the negativity spread, and the atmosphere that permeates the vibrations.   2 - Mumble. What profit is extracted from them ? Does it improve the fund, the people involved, the subject itself ?                                                                                                                                                   3 - Lies. Lies it means saying what is it not, for fear, for interest, to hide facts and the possible consequences.Be that as it may, that which deviates from the truth, never succeeds because it wants to pass the non existent as if it had existence and consistency.                                                                                   4 - Flattery. What purpose does the flatterer pursue ?Falsehood with ulterior motives is often the trigger. There is no need to soap up in front the evidence, the facts are the clearest exponent.                                   5 - Nonsense. The nonsense comes from a low cultural level, of a defective discernment. Squandering energy with useless conversations brings not benefit.                                                                                     6 - Controversy. It is a mixture of evil and interest, and it points to both mental and emotional impurities product of a mental narrowness and pretensions that can not prosper.                                                            7 - Anger. Always present when desires are not satisfied in the desired form or measure, when the events don´t happen the way we want.                                                                                                                         8 - Proud remarks. Self hype for little things. Everyone´s talents are just loans for a purpose, desire for personal improvement and social sharing.                                                                                                       9 - Cheating.Sincerity is the basis of every relationship, and if it´s not there it disappears the confidence, and without confidence nothing solid or consistent can be built with perspective. Cheating can suppose some kind of momentary gain, but as the foundations are not consistent, sooner or later it will end in failure.                                                                                                                                                              10 - Humiliation. When we believe that are more than others for a question of money, social position or has some advantage or privilege over others, considering inferior to someone by belief or comparison. Everything is a consequence of ignorance, of egocentrism, of insensitivy towards the proism and what is different, towards what don´t like, and this only can change introducing the refinement of superior nature getting rid of harmful forms

ASHIR ( wealthy ) eyes, teeth, hands, feet

Ashir means wealthy, not in its literal meaning, but in the physical resources we have to realize all kinds of purposes for our development. We have eyes to see, which are used to identify what surrounds us and know how to locate everything in the right place to fit optimally. We are eqquiped with teeth so that the food can be crushed properly before moving to the stomach and digestive system leaving us with the nutrients before the unusuable is eliminated. Hands are our tools of action. Five fingers on each hand that indicate that we must put the five senses before starting a movement and be precise. Get the intended result. The two hands with ten fingers, state that the purpose is achieve the completeness  in the purposes. And feet they allow us to move. We can´t stand still making connections involves the eyes to know where to look, the teeth to chew while staying with the essentials for good organic functioning. And the hands to forge the differents purposes every moment. It´s a matter of working together. Two eyes, jawbone upper and lower, two hands and two feets. The two principles sender i receiver, the two gender male and female. The left eye is associated with the moon, the right eye to the sun. Hand right and feet to the man, and hand and feet left to the woman.                                                                                                                               If we want to extract the best contribution, we must adjust the two polarities constantly. When we introduce harmony the fit has been produced. Distortions, physical or psychological problems are consequences of not having properly coupled the two principles.                                                                   Eyes, teeth, hands, feet, four types of resources, suppose a work of concreteness to practical level by the numerical connotations of the number four. When four becomes eight, which would be to raise the actions and their purpose to a more refined sphere. Depending on the benefits and the way of proceeding we will stay in the sphere of four or we can doble in the scope of eight.

PRESUMPTION OF INNOCENCE ? NO, LYNCHING !

This is the trend if we want to push the opponet away, spread rumors, spread alleged irregularities, create a story where the pointed out seems very bad, and throw the carcass publicly so that the populace can be added to it, and in a matter of time work done. Sometimes the center of the target will point to politicians, that if they have money in paradise countries, that if they have embezzed. Others that may cast doubt the deep state, not hesitating to mobilize the entire repressive apparatus that acts with impunity without the ability to replay or counterattack. Relevant people who annoy because of what they say, because of the echo, because it shows some crooked foundations and rotten forms derived from interests that few the lower.                                                                                                                                                               Clubs, institutions, presidents, everything that is not pleasant and is a nuisance, slanders, and the people that does not distinguish truth from lies, with the aim of unpacking what you don´t want, what you don´t like and put the status at risk.The accused are already guilty before presenting evidence, without trial, without demostrations, ready for that barbarity in the form of comments or actions and very severe requests of punishment, Only lacks imitate the ancient romans and turn the thumb down for these alleged wrongdoers to be charged.                                                                                                                                This uneducated society, insensitivity, exalting what is no value and despising what if they have. Surrounded by sophisticated tools but with an aggressive behavior, despot, violent, disrespectful, who happily signs up for free lynching to satiate the insctintive side.It doesn´t matter if the substance of the question is true or not, what it counts is cornering, dissolve, dilute, driven by desires that will not bring satisfaction finally, because they are encouraged in hatred, lies, revenge, and are doomed to failure.