PRIDE IS AN ABSURDITY

Pride is an absurdity that oversize the own values, and according to this belief nor tolerate some positions of others that the individual catalog not acceptable due to its self importance.
Far from believing that pride is an asset, which causes are separations and losses. Puting on a pedestal by easy executing is a false and exaggerated assessment of certain skills.
The source of our acquisitions is the Creator, we are just a channel, and the " successes " are the merit of having connected, expressing it with words or actions.
For more virtues acquired, will be small before the ignorance of those that we will have to acquire.
The performing domain in specific areas, will be given to us for the particular role assigned to each one in the evolutionary path, and the role played by us is of intermediaries transmitting ideas or services for the collective.
We can not accomodate us or be satisfied with specific episodes, there is always someone more talented than us, and the potential for growth is unfathomable. All we have is a loan, therefore think that we are someone like a chosen people by the fact of being more skilfull with regard to the prevailing majority, is deceived. And although at some subject we have ease, we are still a deep ignorant in many more.
The specific conditions are personal and nontransferable, and although we want to imitate someone to copy will never be the original.
You can be glad of a work well done, but not be oversized by or inflate it. The goal is the effectiveness, the highest quality possible, and if you are able to get fantastic, and enjoy of made of.
Pride is a focus in the self that transmute thinking in the you, and the reductionist effect needs to expand the field of vision to observe in depth and with clarity.
The pride of their own importance, which feels offended by positions or comments from others, is a stronghold of immaturity and ignorance. And the antidote is the humility that recognizes their insignifcance before the immensity.
More or less knowledge, more or less resources, more or less skills, is not decisive, what counts is the attitude, the dignified treatment with the neighbor.
As small we are in this world, we are big in the upper world.

FORCEFULNESS NECESSARY

Until where, even when we hold situations and / or relationships that don´t work ? Why is so difficult get rid of long ago is more a hindrance than a utility ? Fear of the unknown ? To the novelty will be worse ? If a certain context keeps us stuck or causes an impairment, must seek solutions to transform it or leave it.
If we have tried multiple alternatives without success, means that the test has not been exceeded. The message may consist in do it different or leave it, where the skills of observation, the process and the outcome will give clues in this regard.
What wins maintaning a relationship with someone dishonest, indifferent, with whom we can´t trust, without the essential affinity, where there is no reciprocity and the exchanges are of low quality where the balance inclines more toward discomfort and boredom ?
What wins clinging in a slaver context, without horizons, limiter and unsatisfactory ?
When prudence, the margin of confidence, the hope of change not reported a favorable result, we have two options : continues as a useless conformism that impedes progress toward better opportunities, or have the courage to make decisions that will lead to freedom.
Before modify drastically the current state we need to know what we want and what we should be in order to take the relevant strategy. Once we have clear the goal, the determination must be strong through words and actions to undo the dulling conditions. We don´t hesitate, and accompanied with an indispensable certainty going in the right way, show the necessary strength to break with the obstructive factors.
In the path leave activities, friends, couples, significant in its time and that have ceased to be. Leave behind the badness for common sense, practicism and self esteem. Life pushes us to detach which is no longer or has stopped working, and to flow without useless charges we must do the same.

UTILITY AND IMPROVEMENT

We are here for two reasons : to be useful to develop autonomously and provide service to others, and improve our expressions to evolve continously without limits.
In the first point we are in agreement as obvious as it is, by experiencing it daily in their various claims that each one has. The second despite being equally clear that the first, is a matter of conscience and will, only accessible to those who are able to develop both in oneself.
In fact, utility and improvement will interact, but those that focus on material life basically and worldly goals, they usually don´t have concerns to improve as self.
Strive to be useful is a necessity, to srive to improve is an inner restlessness led to work on our person.
We are all dependent, the collaboration of third parties is essential to cover the vital demands. However, we can not leverage nor claim that keep us, we must manage to achieve the greatest degree of freedom in a few limited parameters.To this aim, we must search the manner to be useful, because is so how the collective works, with individual contributions and also in the particular.
In the most elemental, the society is organizing by interest, by livelihood and for welfare, with more or less success, more or less equitativity is seeking the appropriate conditions of maintenance, and in spite of everything, the conflicts are always present. And this is the key to the issue, the problems, deficiences and discord are produced precisely to raise issues watching their own benefit, using the force instead of a constructive dialog, that reverts on what is appropriate and fair for both parties. But get there requires ability to see in perspective, consider the common good, and achieve this behavior depends on the personal improvement. To progress and evolve is imperative the internal harmony reflected on the outside.

SAY - DO

Our expressions has two tracks : through words and actions, what we say and what we do.
The word would expose the theory, and practice the action. The meaning of the words exerts an influence at all levels, in terms of thoughts, feelings and in the execution. Contain the power to bring good or bad vibrations, raise or lower the mood, build or destroy, approach or separate. Without making any movement the impact that can cause can leave strong sensations that will endure for a long time.
We must be vigilant, careful, before pronounce or writing certain words, because it is a mark on the environment, and contrary to what say the irresponsible, the words not outweighs the wind, because everything is registered; and shall be recorded in its proper place with the specific response of the content.
Our unconsciousness, the need for immediate gratification wanting to achieve the wishes quickly, generate unfortunate expressions that may be amanded only if we realize its impact and we are willing to correct the approach and tone.
In terms of the action is the same as with words. Before you say or do is our power, once we´ve said or done we have to assume the consequences of what trigger, therefore is crucial the clarity of the purpose and the prudence to the outcome will lead to harmony and not to devastation.
Words can heal or can kill, the actions also according to the habits or vices. The great danger with the prevailing banality, is the lightly treatment of what is being said or done, but everything counts and is recorded, and what seemed harmless or without importance, when the time is right will be ahead blow away what suits unceremoniously, exactly the same for the unconscious authors.
Words and actions are our assets to build, that expressed negatively forge destruction. Everything that surrounds us, individually and collectivelly is the manifestation of what has been said and done, what we say and do. If we want to change it, which could be better, the first thing is to change the words to report charitable actions of the derivative in both senses.

COHERENCE

Nothing happens without a reason behind it hold. Everything has an origin that has just been behaving a result.
We are continuosly subject to the law of cause and effect, which tell us that there is a logical reason visible or not, consciously or not, in the events that occur.
The word random is used as justification for what we don´t know decrypt with security, certainty or conviction. In reality every thing is conceived and ordered with a perfect coherence.
We as humans, nurtured from natue, and what we have to do is what it show : know how to put seeds in the appropriate field, provide them with the contribution of the four elements and bear fruits. - What this mean in the day to day ? Having some basic resources, investing properly, and access to some purposes that we nurture.
Coherence derives from cohaerere, which means " be united " and in practical terms means that thought and action have to be united, or be an harmonic fit between the idea and the execution, between what is said and done.
What happens when there is a dissonance between what is said and what is done ? An internal misalignment manifesting on the outside, product of an imbalance.
There has to be synchronicity between thought and action, otherwise chaos ensues. You can also have an " apparent consistency " in criminal acts or breaking harmony, where the results will indicate the existence of a dark, causing losses, damage or negativy.
Why are there so many chaotic episodes ? By a disconnection that deprives us of see with clarity the difference between what is right and what is wrong.
The incoherence is lack of harmony, a disunity between the idea and the execution by an egoical interference or by a manifest inability.
Moved pushed by the emotionally, depending on what sort of wishes, by the immaturity, and don´t know how to face challenges, end assiduosly in erroneous approaches product of the incoherence.
The coherence requires see clearly, know what we want and what consequences can be triggered adjusting the initial abstraction and final appearance.
What is coherent will lead us to the harmonic, and that is incoherent will behave frictions and undocking in various senses.

HEAT - COOL

That relations will harm or cold depends on the willingness to adopt. There are so many types of relationship as of quantity, some close by links, other by affinity of ideas, friends, coworkers, mates, etc.
The assiduosness is not synonymous with anything specific, the treatment depends on several variants, and achieve fluidity, understanding and cordiality, it´s a question of couplings.
What generates warmth ? The way in which we see the other, the nexus of union, the received through different expressive forms. Add a plus to show us more nearby, thoughtful, caring, a feeling of wellbeing in the interaction.
What generates coldness ? Opposing ways of seeing things making it impossible to reach agreements, indifference, inability to feel affection for the other, mental focusing taking distance.
We can not be warm with all nor cold with all, it is a natural selection that occurs unintentionally. If treats to tune and awakening an attraction. If this is not manifested the warm can not emerge.
The coldness is just the opposite, the lack of essential affinity is not present, creating a distance that is evident in the behavior.
It is not necessary to do the same activities nor pursue similar goals to showing closers, is a question of observing the singularities of another, generate empathy and let flow the feeling to be able to connect more with the essence of what is each one.
Instead of thinking in ourselves, in our own interests, in what we can win, if we are more concerned to listen, to help and to serve, we will build stronger foundations where relations will be from deficits to qualitative.
After all when prevail the coldness we feel uncomfortable, because it is the warmth that vivifies, which stimulates. Establish connections, adjust various components is that allows to work the machines, and in the relationships is exactly the same. If we establish a closer treatment, if focused both parties, there will be functioning. If the opposite, like the machines, the links do not work by separativeness with the vacuum that this causes.

SEARCHERS

What pushes us to search ? The lack. In what we do not have lies the key to our function. To advance and make progress, we need some resources in the form of knowledge, money or some type of material possession.
We are going to the search for primary goods and also to intangible assets. The first have to nourish the body, the second the spiritual part. Our desire is to want the best, what happens is that we don´t know attract it due to ignorance and unconsciousness, that make us act so clumsy.
We desire many things : health, money, love, wisdom, satisfying relationships, overall quality, various pleasures. Come into contact with these aspects require appropriate guidelines, and in addition has to be taken into account the individual karma that can facilitate or impede certain areas.
Satisfaction in what we do, as experienced, this is the objective to pursue. The question is : what and how focused on the external, in transitional matters, depending on third parties, only is possible to obtain a temporary enjoyment, in a constant dynamic of insets and offsets of short duration.
Most of the things that we want to achieve are ephemeral. Fill briefly and we have to start from zero again and again with the sensation that the " yearning joy " goes and come always sporadically.
With a materialistic formation and strictly wordly goals, the possible satisfaction always be partial and oscillate, because the focus is outside in a context of dependency.
If on the contrary we have a spiritual training and the purpose is transform us from inside to improve our behavior every day, the satisfaction will increase when replace the obstructive manners for the new ones with more fluidity. An unattainable task,  infinite, and wihout knowing where are we going, but stating the welfare in ourselves through successive changes, this is the research with more sense and profit derived from the action.
Tune us with eternal values in the temporal, this should be the main purpose, otherwise we are wandering around in experiences of small fractions that pass to increase the memory, but that does not behave a benefit of growth as self.
Accumulate internal treasure continously for that everyday life is lived with intensity and the satisfaction will be permanent and not at times.

WHAT LINKS WE WANT ?

Whatever our position, the links are inevitable and indispensable. At birth we have the greatest dependence in all senses, therefore we need someone to take care of us, and the first link is with the parents.
As we grow and we are more autonomous, widening contacts, from the strictly familiar at the beginning, we pass to establish social bonds. Is going to go from unconsciousness to consciousness, and from ignorance to knowledge.
In one way or another we have to make connections, the acquired is thanks to exchanges, where the needs and shortcomings push to relate to search for resources. From the essential to survival have to establish basic links that allow the continuity of the day to day. Then there is the secondary that is optional, and here is  where the free will of each one can choose to or who wants to be linked with the consequences it entails.
We are all inexorably conditioned on what is essential for the physical maintenance, but on the rest we can choose.
First, we should be clear if what we want bind us is necessary, if is useful, if limits or frees us, if facilitate a better version of us or restricts the potential.
The " illusions " the " fantasies " can be very nice in the imagination, but embodied or densified in the reality can be very heavy. Before venturing in certain commitments we must observe pros and cons, contrasting with our character to know if it fits or not, if it adjust with us.
Dive in a new context may be relatively easy. the difficult may be it will be out once immersed; therefore you have to be prudent and not be too hasty by supposed rewarding desires that can become unpleasant.
It is clear that if was convenient to experience it for a learning it had to happen. Then we must extract the grain from the straw, seek new horizons, and proceed wit more care and precision in futures similars situations.
Bind to the earth is required, bind to heaven is voluntary in our decisions and behavior. The earthly matters are transient, the heavenly are eternal. If we want perpetuate us we must do it with spiritual precepts in everything we do : love, kindness, joy, justice and truth. Only what links to heaven gives us peace, serenity and satisfaction. These are the links that we have to pursue every moment to live the true life.

THE DIFFICULTIES OF CHANGE ( II )

The duality entails fluctuations, and the movement implies change. Nothing remains static externally, subjected to oscillating rhythms, and the task is to apply a eternal precepts in the transitory.
The archetypical patterns of behavior are unalterable to have some permanent references, and we must apply them in a context of constant variables. If everything were always statics, there would be no evolution, in the change is where lies the progress to embrace new possibilities.
To physical and spiritual level, the norm is go through different stages, where each is preparatory to the next. Once peaks in one area, we must move to new phases which lead to another forms and expressions.
Profit the time is extract precisely a profit, and so ask a mental and physical activity. From the idea to the action we go forging the day to day, where the outcome will indicate if the efforts are helpful. Increase the potential must be the goal, and if is not so, then means that there are not changes, and for this reason stagnation.
Where is the vital incentive ? In doing better the things that execute, and do it different is change rudimentary manners or little developed by other more sophisticated, consistent and more rewarding.
What sense has do it everything equal without and never change anything ? What enjoyment can experience seeing everything the same way without giving options to different alternatives to widen the consciousness and allow the acces to new variants ?
We must find balance between the valuable to retain and what is appropriate to transform. There are elements that disappear and others remain, and we must distinguish between what is useful to preserve and the expendable to give entrance to new trends with their contributions.
There is always a basis to preserve, a few foundations where support us, and later to build the own life and  environment. Though and action have to be assembled, tune up to extract the optimal performance of the different purposes, and as we seek the ideal fit, the way itself was forming changes that serving to go to higher levels. The aim of change is precisely this.

THE DIFFICULTIES OF THE CHANGE ( I )

Multiples are the causes of why we can´t change. Either a lack of deep self-knowledge, without observing to fund what we say or what we do with the consequences derived. Be convinced to be correct in the various expressions and manifestations, and therefore you don´t need to modify anything. Not wanting to lose privileges or advantages, although this is often at the expense of other clutching to charges or positions for a certain benefits.
Also is the slope indulgent where we let ourselves go in vices or harmful activities, apologizing assiduously with the famous " can not be perfect " as if this was already acquit and give the approval to continue satisfying with a maleficent pleasures so finally report.
Avoid efforts, preferring the perennal mediocrity before the quality and the satisfaction of what has been achieved with tenacity.
Conform to survive rather than trying to live, with no aspirations to overcome, doing the day to day a boredom that only leads to the physical maintenance without direction or goals.
Humans with the exception of a minority, are accustomed to do what is indispensable, and once achieved, waste the time and resources in futilities. The absence of yearnings to go beyond of a constant routine limite them to a reduced plot.
The defects, impurities, the incorrect forms, repeat ad infinitum, but this seems to matter little taking into account the passivity and minimizig that is being done in the apparent deadlock. Do not consider as negative harmful acts, is the greatest impediment to transform us, maintaning inadequate patterns from childhood to old age. The perpetuation of doing everything always equal is what takes forever individual conflicts, projecting it in the collective issues that remain perennial for decades or centuries.
We are here to learn and amend everything we have to be polished. If we do not correct, is like suspending the exam continously. A lot of people doesn´t seem to bother, from here the low yield and the difficulties in establishing qualitative interactions.
The dissatisfaction prevailing in a reflection of not knowing how to change in us schemes and obstructive procedures by those who provide possibilities that generate internal and external harmony.