That relations will harm or cold depends on the willingness to adopt. There are so many types of relationship as of quantity, some close by links, other by affinity of ideas, friends, coworkers, mates, etc.
The assiduosness is not synonymous with anything specific, the treatment depends on several variants, and achieve fluidity, understanding and cordiality, it´s a question of couplings.
What generates warmth ? The way in which we see the other, the nexus of union, the received through different expressive forms. Add a plus to show us more nearby, thoughtful, caring, a feeling of wellbeing in the interaction.
What generates coldness ? Opposing ways of seeing things making it impossible to reach agreements, indifference, inability to feel affection for the other, mental focusing taking distance.
We can not be warm with all nor cold with all, it is a natural selection that occurs unintentionally. If treats to tune and awakening an attraction. If this is not manifested the warm can not emerge.
The coldness is just the opposite, the lack of essential affinity is not present, creating a distance that is evident in the behavior.
It is not necessary to do the same activities nor pursue similar goals to showing closers, is a question of observing the singularities of another, generate empathy and let flow the feeling to be able to connect more with the essence of what is each one.
Instead of thinking in ourselves, in our own interests, in what we can win, if we are more concerned to listen, to help and to serve, we will build stronger foundations where relations will be from deficits to qualitative.
After all when prevail the coldness we feel uncomfortable, because it is the warmth that vivifies, which stimulates. Establish connections, adjust various components is that allows to work the machines, and in the relationships is exactly the same. If we establish a closer treatment, if focused both parties, there will be functioning. If the opposite, like the machines, the links do not work by separativeness with the vacuum that this causes.
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