WHAT LINKS WE WANT ?

Whatever our position, the links are inevitable and indispensable. At birth we have the greatest dependence in all senses, therefore we need someone to take care of us, and the first link is with the parents.
As we grow and we are more autonomous, widening contacts, from the strictly familiar at the beginning, we pass to establish social bonds. Is going to go from unconsciousness to consciousness, and from ignorance to knowledge.
In one way or another we have to make connections, the acquired is thanks to exchanges, where the needs and shortcomings push to relate to search for resources. From the essential to survival have to establish basic links that allow the continuity of the day to day. Then there is the secondary that is optional, and here is  where the free will of each one can choose to or who wants to be linked with the consequences it entails.
We are all inexorably conditioned on what is essential for the physical maintenance, but on the rest we can choose.
First, we should be clear if what we want bind us is necessary, if is useful, if limits or frees us, if facilitate a better version of us or restricts the potential.
The " illusions " the " fantasies " can be very nice in the imagination, but embodied or densified in the reality can be very heavy. Before venturing in certain commitments we must observe pros and cons, contrasting with our character to know if it fits or not, if it adjust with us.
Dive in a new context may be relatively easy. the difficult may be it will be out once immersed; therefore you have to be prudent and not be too hasty by supposed rewarding desires that can become unpleasant.
It is clear that if was convenient to experience it for a learning it had to happen. Then we must extract the grain from the straw, seek new horizons, and proceed wit more care and precision in futures similars situations.
Bind to the earth is required, bind to heaven is voluntary in our decisions and behavior. The earthly matters are transient, the heavenly are eternal. If we want perpetuate us we must do it with spiritual precepts in everything we do : love, kindness, joy, justice and truth. Only what links to heaven gives us peace, serenity and satisfaction. These are the links that we have to pursue every moment to live the true life.