Until where, even when we hold situations and / or relationships that don´t work ? Why is so difficult get rid of long ago is more a hindrance than a utility ? Fear of the unknown ? To the novelty will be worse ? If a certain context keeps us stuck or causes an impairment, must seek solutions to transform it or leave it.
If we have tried multiple alternatives without success, means that the test has not been exceeded. The message may consist in do it different or leave it, where the skills of observation, the process and the outcome will give clues in this regard.
What wins maintaning a relationship with someone dishonest, indifferent, with whom we can´t trust, without the essential affinity, where there is no reciprocity and the exchanges are of low quality where the balance inclines more toward discomfort and boredom ?
What wins clinging in a slaver context, without horizons, limiter and unsatisfactory ?
When prudence, the margin of confidence, the hope of change not reported a favorable result, we have two options : continues as a useless conformism that impedes progress toward better opportunities, or have the courage to make decisions that will lead to freedom.
Before modify drastically the current state we need to know what we want and what we should be in order to take the relevant strategy. Once we have clear the goal, the determination must be strong through words and actions to undo the dulling conditions. We don´t hesitate, and accompanied with an indispensable certainty going in the right way, show the necessary strength to break with the obstructive factors.
In the path leave activities, friends, couples, significant in its time and that have ceased to be. Leave behind the badness for common sense, practicism and self esteem. Life pushes us to detach which is no longer or has stopped working, and to flow without useless charges we must do the same.
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