PERSONAL GRATIFICATION HARM OTHERS

Everything that breaks the harmony is a consequence of not fitting in properly what emerges from the inside with the outside, of not properly coupling the individual desires or pretensions with respect to someone or the collective.                                                                                                                               The various daily aberrations that have devastating effects originate in ignorance and the unconsciousness. It wants to gratify the ego imbued by the demands of the instinctive lower nature and primary when foused on receiving and having self centered, disregarding the proism and the effect which can have the consequences of clumsy actions.                                                                                                                     What breaks the unity and natural flow with distorting methods is the cause of the conflicts. There are many ways to disturb order and peace : murder, blaspheme, steal, deceive, swear in vain, do what is wrong, defame, short circuits that distance the connection with the spiritual side. This diversity mentioned if we look at the intended purpose in each, the longing for personal gratification and the harm caused by the action taken is clearly seen.                                                                                                                        Temporary satisfaction lasting dissatisfaction is what sooner or later entails transgressing the rules basics of civility. Pursuing an alleged short term enjoyment or benefit without anticipating the triggers for not proceeding properly, is the manifestation of unconsciouness and ignorance in search of miserable ends. They are aware that they are committing criminal acts, they do not ignore the dangers,but if  continue their own darkness blinded to satisfy an immediate desire, it usually ends in a long purge that limits and conditions with a great imbalance between the gratification of a moment and what will happen next.         Appropriate personal gratifications are the ones that bring us improvement, they represent and advance and do not have a negative impact in others, on the contrary , if there is a potential increase in the virtues of social service.

GET CLOSER TO,, GET AWAY FROM

 Immersed in duality with the contribution of time and movement, the events that take place both individually and collectively, approach to and move away from. Moving from one context to another leaving behind a place, a situation to lead us to a different one.If we are static we are not going to any destination, but the passage of time will take us away from the phase of the day where we were and we will approach to another.                                                                                                                                  In a changing environment, we can be immersed in the routine that may be the same, but within it successive beginnings and endings take place, which involves moving away from and approaching to.      The various activities carried out with the desire to overcome they aim to set goals that gives resources and quality. We study to have a base and develop in the social environment. Then we prepare to specialize professionally, In both cases we hope to acquire capabilities which serve to offer as an exchange and cover the demands.                                                                                                                                                    The beginning are like an empty container, the endings a filled container. From ignorance to knowledge, we approach and move away from in the process. We can not be in two places at once, from one phase goes to another.                                                                                                                                                The question is : where do we want to approach ? what do we want to get away ? to a new study, a new job ? With current knowledge before making decisions we need to look at at the possible pros and cons. And unconscious daily exercise that we should do consciously to get closer to the profits and get away from the losses. Anyway we don´t know where we will approach or we will walk away in the face of unthinkable events which in due course are intended to put us to the test to expand the potential and proceed with more correction.

PATIENCE AND DRASTICISME

 There are occasions that require patience and others drasticism. The human race with its shortcomings, ignorance and unconsciousness it test our patience in the face of all sorts of nonsense observed on a daily basis. And the same human race pushes us to drasticism when it is impossible to dialogue, understand or establish a link that justifies it.                                                                                                                         The events are what they are, and we can only contribute a very small part in the successive events that occur on a daily basis. In what is not possible to influence even if we want to, in what depends on other people´s actions, in uncontrollable factors, so as not to damage one´s health with unnecessary worries, there is no choice but to be patient. If we are indifferent to some facts or results, there is no need for patience to intervene, stating that the fund depends on a personal assessment.                                              We constantly have to fit in with others, the environment and nature, and each show itself according to some peculiarities where sometimes we are related and sometimes not, and as our will cannot be imposed by force, patience is the key to adjusting and engaging in order for the outcome to be viable for the parties to enter the scene.                                                                                                                                             When does patience begin and when should it end ? When is it appropriate to be drastic ?                            We feel comfortable with those who adhere to us for ideals, points of view, tastes and hobbies, the fit occurs effortlessly. On the other hand. when the opposite is true, the irritation begins to rise, depending on the temperament and importance given to each topic. Accepting each others differences by being respectful is the challenge. Not because they are different should anyone be crucified.                                 There are situations and people who can patiently come to fruition. And also others that how much will we put into it, it is better to move away from what is impossible to change and of harmful toxicity to mantain close links.

PATIENCE BY FORCE

 Everyone is subject to cultivating  patience simply because everything takes time, a maturation, and learning comes with practice. When someone says patience, it may assume that is not mastered enough what is being done and insisted on, that some ongoing process still has a long way to go, or people who act by straining us or delaying results.                                                                                                               What we would like and what it is, that is training patience. Modify, improve, finding the right terms between speed and slowness, where the wait may be long or short dpending on background characteristics and timing                                                                                                                                                          Patience is the coupling of subject and object, and we need some knowledge between the existing and our purpose. Increasing the degree of patience is acquired with the accumulation of experiences, therefore it is gradual, and it will become an ally if we are able to temper desires with the right attitude.                             How is it measured if you have a lot or a little patience ? On what occasions is it appropriate and on what is not ? Patience must be present in the impasse that goes from the present to the one we want to manifest with certain changes.                                                                                                                                          Depending on the pretensions and what happens we will ask ourselves if is worth or has been worth being patient, and we will only know in the end.                                                                                                        Patience is the exponent that we constantly depend on external factors, that things do not come to our liking but as they should be in line, to the origin, to the actions committed, to the consequences and adjustments produced in successive developments, where everything has its rhythm. It can not be forced or accelerated, because the outcome is usually a loss instead of the final benefit which is the purpose of proceeding patiently.                                                                                                                                          We must have immense patience with all those people who don´t know how to behave correctly. Those who invade the space of another, selfishness of all kinds, people who are unable to cooperate because they intend to do everything according to their desire, and everything that breaks harmony and good manners. A limited patience that we must know how far we accept it.

GO WAITING

What do we expect from ourselves, from others, from life ? Probably more than it will eventually be. We can only wait according to the chain of links between the effected in a past tense and the consequences that derive from it. We are subject to inescapable laws and cannot escape to cause and effect. Depending on the cause will be the effect, it is inevitable, and we can only expect a trigger in line with what was stated in the case. Then there is the law of action and reaction. Every action is followed by an equal and an opposite reaction, supporters and detractors they will always be present in any kind of approach no matter how absurd which may be some. The environment in which we are immersed has some characteristics with advantages and disadvantages, and what we can expect in terms of events will depend on the room for maneuver and the ability to proceed. We must also have individual and collective karma. Each has a singularity and a function to perform, and must be performed in a specific context. The place where we are links us to a collective karma at the cultural level and a vision that affects the code of values and therefore in the conduct. The past provides us with current bases and current resources, constantly projecting us forward with purposes that we don´t know if they will occur and where we will end up or what we will end up doing. We can expect to observe some precedents, our capacity and projection that certain situations are outlined but dependence on third parties and a universal order beyond our consciousness which fits the parts and the whole, they place us at every moment in the place, circumstances, experiences and precise relationships that will be appropiate for each one. The terms sudden, unexpected, unthinkable, they simply express that we don´t see the link between a previous fact and the trigger. There are no coincidences and nothing happens without a foundation, it´s a matter of focusing on the process, knowing that the fruits correspond to the seeds, and this is what we should expect.

DENSE FOOD OR SUBTLE FOOD

Just as we are interacting between the inside and the outside, we also do it between the dense and the subtle. We move in a material environment pursuing specific goals, and knowing how to procede to achieve this depends on the interior to act as a guide between the idea, the process and the result. The instinct for survival makes us constantly seek out nutrients in order to provide us with the best possible conditions, and this task requires incessant exchanges in the environment with another and nature. Staying physically means feeding on dense elements, but also subtle in terms of instruction, between the emergent from the inside manifested on the outside, we must find the right measures of the means at our disposal and the goals Where we spend time, effort and resources, it is a form of food. If we live only to work and subsist the nourishment will be only dense. If we have concerns of overcoming some ideal, to make a useful contribution to society, become a better person by acquiring virtues through relevant studies leading to increased consciousness and transform us gradually, we will be feeding the subtle. We must ask : we want to pass for life only to mantain an insubstancial presence, or do we want to find a meaning beyond the observable and visible by the five senses ? Accumulate days to accumulate without a profit, without a purpose, without progressing in attitudes, relationships, behavior, is this the life we want ? Sure not, but unfortunately that´s the case with the exception of very few people who want to break in and out this purely basic exixtential circle immersed in battles, controversies, petty interests which prevent us from advancing by being stuck in the different primary expressions of what is linked to the matter. Feeding the dense is easy, we are all obliged if we want continuity. Feeding the subtle depends on internal concerns, on implicit evolution, of consciousness, and the proportion of the higher nature established in the depths ob being.

THE LITTLE BENEFIT OF WHAT WE SAY AND WHAT WE DO ( II )

The purpose of what we express is to raise sparks of light, and this is not known to most. A wordly society prepares us to subsist but not to trascend, and confusing the medium as if it were the goal, with a training focused on the material, what is observed daily is due to the limitations chosen by unconsciousness and being trapped by a set of circumstances that condition us. A lot of waster chatted, repetitive, predictable conversations, because there is no ambition to introduce new knowledge and broaden horizons to facilitate greater efficiency Everyone longs for well being in the main areas ¿ what do we do to achieve this ? stuck to screens and the wide range they offer ? what is the use of all this ? does that make us better ? can we improve ourselves and the relationships ? And between message and message, the day to day is full of aberrant events. Shedding energy on the outside, in machines that facilitate the conditions respect to past times, human behavior remains unchanged in the usual lows. What advantage can we take about what we say ? what percentage of the run is useful ? for what purpose do we say what we say and do what we do ? What we say and do has an impact on the environment, and the echo will cause a certain impact. The conversations we hear in any field reveal what the person has accumulated, which approaches or identifies certain theses. And in politicians or socialites who are to be well versed, just have to realize the true level. An uneducated society, increasingly evading external means that move away from a connection with our interior, which seeks the minimum effort and the maximum profit and don´t want complicate challenges, without goals of overcoming beyond material characteristics. Superficial appearances can be interpreted as saying a lot and do a lot, but if this not translates into a tangible and consistent profit, they are useless words and actions.

THE LITTLE BENEFIT OF WHAT WE SAY AND WHAT WE DO ( I )

Apart from great artists and discoverers which have revolutionized society, and the great diverse social works, differs greatly to the behavior and contribution of what the majority represents. We must always pursue a beneficial outcome of what we express with words and actions, and we have to check it in the echo of these. The mouth and the hands play a preponderant role, they are in charge of what we say and what we do. The mouth located in the head is linked to the mental part. The four elements they manifest through the mouth. What comes in ( solid and liquid ) correponds to the female elements of earth and water. What we internalize for nourishment, for continuity. Words emerge from within by previous experiences, by knowledge, by the conception forged over time according to our potential, ideals and idiosyncrasies. The impulse to express oneself is provided by the element of fire, and the pronounced is associated with the element air. What comes out of the mouth ( fire and air ) corresponds to masculine elements The hands in the middle can connect with the heat and feet. Bring down ideas by giving concrete form. Orders may come through the mouth, but executions depends on the hands. What we say, the tone, the content, the echo it can leave, indicate characteristics of the person. We can get closer or furher away, get excited or bored, excite or frighten ¿ and in the space before pronouncing the words and once said, do we stop to think about the possible impact it can cause ? Surely not noticing the day to day of people of such influential as anonymous people. What we say and what we do make up individual and collective life. We can do and undo, build or destroy, improve or make worse, and despite the importance of what can be generated one only has to realize of the unconsciousness and ignorance which surrounds us to realize the amount of nonsense that are to say, and the little consistency of the many actions performed.

RETAIN

What does it mean to retain ? Not letting a person or thing go. Preserve in the memory or in understanding. Sometimes is it advisable to retain and others no.Whatever it is to prevent or avoiding dangers is a good measure. Wanting to hold someone against their will does not. To retain si synonimous with to calm down, to paralyze, to place in reduced places of concentration. The underlying question is what and for what purpose. Accostumed to dictatorial regimes we should ask the opressors the reason it pushes to systematically reduce opponents It is good to retain knowledge that is applicable, experiences that serves as a reference to proceed with a larger margin of maneuver. Which serves the potential and bring about improvements is important to retain it. And the part to avoid it is clinging to situations, relationships or utensils which have already performed their function and now they are rather and obstructive harm. Who is brave does not hold back for fear of losing and fixing negativity that a possible change will be worst. Cowardice paralyzes, prevents you from seeing clearly and the immobility does not resolve the background context. Wanting to retain by force using execrable methods so that a couple does not leave, or to keep territories occupied with the complicity of allied countries, laws and various extortions, they are samples of how far human misery goes on too many occasions. We can´t force anyone to be with us if they don´t want under threats and less with agressions. Relationships must be established freely because no person is in possession of any other. There are no sacred ties nor is any country sacred, and whoever thinks otherwise, a part from being a misfit, has a mental problem. The worst thing is that for petty interests one wants to subjugate and impose,important only selfish desires with a total disregard for the desired. We can not retain the seasons, the passage of time, meteorological changes, and who intends it on people, to preserve a certain context with means against nature, it will be able to prolong the durability but not to prevent the explosion that sooner or later will provoke to act in opposition to the foundations of order and harmony.

INDIFFERENCE

Indifference is neither yes nor no, neither cold nor hot neither like nor dislike, neither in favor nor against, in short, a neutrally is adopted that does not opt for anything by keeping a distance from the underlying theme. With indifference it does not matter the outcome, nor whether there is improvement or a worsening, if one or the other wins, if there are gains or losses due to not feeling involved. Indifference is closer to cold because there is no enthusiasm nor is it given the indispensable value to take side. In many social aspects that concern us all we should be vigilant for them for optimal conditions, and instead the usual individualistic and selfish tendency with a restricted view when searching only for a small plot, it makes many inhibition problems persist. When something touches us closely we are not indifferent because the desire is to have, preserve, and dispose of appropriate conditions. Indifference occurs not to understand and not vibrate in the background and in/or the form, and in the absence of emotional involvement it is easier to show detached mental attitude. The significance and relevance of an era can become indifferent over time for various changes. And exactly the same in relationships. Important people with certain ties, we find that they have passed into oblivion, because enthusiasm, affection and affinity have evaporated along the way. At what times, in what areas should we be indifferent and when should we become involved ? We will have to observe our reactions, the validity or not of certain atitude, and readjust as many times as necessary our response to events that occur.