PATIENCE BY FORCE

 Everyone is subject to cultivating  patience simply because everything takes time, a maturation, and learning comes with practice. When someone says patience, it may assume that is not mastered enough what is being done and insisted on, that some ongoing process still has a long way to go, or people who act by straining us or delaying results.                                                                                                               What we would like and what it is, that is training patience. Modify, improve, finding the right terms between speed and slowness, where the wait may be long or short dpending on background characteristics and timing                                                                                                                                                          Patience is the coupling of subject and object, and we need some knowledge between the existing and our purpose. Increasing the degree of patience is acquired with the accumulation of experiences, therefore it is gradual, and it will become an ally if we are able to temper desires with the right attitude.                             How is it measured if you have a lot or a little patience ? On what occasions is it appropriate and on what is not ? Patience must be present in the impasse that goes from the present to the one we want to manifest with certain changes.                                                                                                                                          Depending on the pretensions and what happens we will ask ourselves if is worth or has been worth being patient, and we will only know in the end.                                                                                                        Patience is the exponent that we constantly depend on external factors, that things do not come to our liking but as they should be in line, to the origin, to the actions committed, to the consequences and adjustments produced in successive developments, where everything has its rhythm. It can not be forced or accelerated, because the outcome is usually a loss instead of the final benefit which is the purpose of proceeding patiently.                                                                                                                                          We must have immense patience with all those people who don´t know how to behave correctly. Those who invade the space of another, selfishness of all kinds, people who are unable to cooperate because they intend to do everything according to their desire, and everything that breaks harmony and good manners. A limited patience that we must know how far we accept it.