COHERENCE

Is actually consistent what we say and what we do ? We say one thing and do another different ? Why it contradicts what is said and done ? The reasons can be various : mindlessness, interests in some sense, precipitation, lack of clarity, and especially imbalance between the inner and outer.
It is an usual fact note inconsistencies, in the people closest to us, in the field of labor, in people who occupy key positions, and this create a bad image, loss of credibility, mistrust, because we can not trust in someone who says white and then shows black when act.
Really think the meaning of the words ? The effect of these ? The consequences of the disengagement between spoken and expressed ?
Feign, wanting to be what we don´t, generate a false impression with a hidden order, there is always a reason that has to clarify the dissonance between to say and to do, and often, in a frivolous environment, trivial, nor the same protagonist really knows that pushes to behave in this manner.
The incoherence is a disconnection, it is like trying to connect a wire in a mistaken place, and evidently it doesn´t work. The coherence is to tune the different elements coupling them correctly for its purpose and good use.
To go evidencing incoherences provokes distrust, lack of credibility, bad image, rating down, distancing, to avoid near treatments for the danger that suppose. It is a bad business to be incoherent, people go away, and the implied in question instead of extracting benefits what picks up are lost.
What failure on the way ? The lack of fit reflects an imbalance between what they want to believe in others and the performed action, and the triggers that drive to behave as well are multiple.
When we are coherents there is harmony, and this is transmitted to the outside. In the inconsistencies there are confusion, doubt and suspicion about a cloudy part hidden but obvious through the contradictions.

REACT OR RESIST ( II )

If we react to external events due to the behavior or others r circumstances, we became the effect of what happens. If we resist observing in perspective, preparing the best option for what has been generated, then we will be manufacturing the cause to plan and decide what we want and what is more convenient.
React is being trapped in something unpleasant created by third parties or for some personal action that does not come out as we would like. Resisting is accept a facts trying to extract an advantage.
The reasons that drive to react are diverse, they are by discontent, to wait for a different expectations, to value something with a result below the desired.
Resentment by expressions or the behavior of someone. Pride according of self importance and the treatment received by others. Revenge if the feeling is of having been insulted, injured, with desire for justice to satisfy primary emotions.
React is to show anger, speak with words or sour forms because they have received bad words or forms of other that in any way condone. React is an expression of the ego : what are saying to me, what are doing to me, what to be thought, what are believed.
Resist it´s a sign of maturity, of tranquility, look in perspective, nor to see the other as bad, but as the means for opening, of opportunities to make adjustments more careful.
In what is useless because it is impossible to communicate with the caller, withdraw is the most convenient.
Expect to change a damage only serves if there is willingness in both sides, the ability to listen, not wanting to impose by force the criteria themselves, but what was equitable thinking in the common good.
What is unfeasible, where there is no understanding, no confidence, which is harmful, it is to be left to pour energy into relationships and appropriate conditions.
Scream, insult, be offended, indicates that you are angry because there is no what we want as  we would like, and in some ways is a little child respond in these terms.
Keep calm, polite behavior, it is that makes the difference between someone who is in charge of the situation, without alteration. Lose the composure is being overtaken by events, responding instinctively without logic or with good judgment.

REACT OR RESIST ( I )

Assiduosly there were tense situations, which is not annoy us each time when dislike it. When harmony breaks for an event and its consequences, when someone disturbs the tranquility with words or clumsy actions, we can not allow ourselves to be trapped by circumstances, because the emotional response may be lack of essential clearly, and instead of fix worse what exists.
According to the own character, the particular code of values, many things can be annoying, but hte unpleasant lies not in the speaker and their emissions, rather in the impression received and what stir them in us. We can commit actions actually punishable, harsh expressions feeling attacked, but behind the facts there is a reason for you to enter a different context, or by shaking take out conclusions to modify some guidelines.
The others are intermediaries to enhance our development, and in spite of  frictions and controversies, these are only the envelope of some possibilities to expand the consciousness by improving the attitude.
People who seem enemies actually are friends dressed up as, the difference is that force us to mobilize the reserve funds saved for emergencies, and thanks to them we can overcome obstacles and strengthen us if we know face it with firmness.
Too much tranquility don´t allows grow, it is necessary from time to time new challenges to access to higher levels. And what the principle is heavy, which implies a handicap, if we resist the initial discomfort and we hope to respond with the aprropriate tone and time, then what seemed negative becomes positive.
The bad thing is that the majority immediateley feels offended, replicating wounded without giving enough time to the logical in search of conciliatory solutions.
If we react harshly the fire increases and lengthens the conflict. If we resist without finding ourselves or feel victims, we can decrypt the message of what has been said or done to find illuminating patways that lead to the adoption of positions more useful to us and especially the way to deal with dignity and correction to the neighbor even though they do not so with us.

PATH TO FREEDOM

In a conditioned environment by many factors that continually located within a few small plots, the path to freedom is the deep yearning that springs us to a greater or lesser extent in us. The question  is : how can increase the percentage while respecting the standards and laws.
We have freedom of choice in the thought, in the expression of feelings, and in the action according to the level of individual conscience. To more consciousness more possibilities, to less consciousness less potential to move freely.
The need to fit the parts to the whole force to establish an order for the proper functioning, creating laws to that effect and at the same time this means responsibility. The diversity limits the degree of freedom because it is attached to the fundamental coupled to the environment and treat all with dignity.
The larger freedom is about ideas, and in spite of everything will depend on our ability and current developments. On the material level freedom is limited, subject to many elements. In the subtle, in the invisible are concentrated the larger proportions of freedom. As density increases it reduces the percentage of freedom.
Nor for the fact to have or do we are more free if this ends up behaving negative consequences.
Freedom to decide what, how, but if it is harmful will lead us to slavery.
The whole life is a continuous learning to free us from restrictive conditions, and although we have many studies and money, also will be a little freedom because we are subject to many enviromental facets as well as to the dependecies of other and nature.
In reality it is more the longing to the experienced. We want or we would like to be able to act with greater freedom, but if is not enough prepared mentally, if is not enough mature, serious, truly responsible, it is better to be restricted but with a safety, that it should not be put at risk by not foresee the consequences.
Freedom entails demands for which not everyone is ready, and that is why we are immersed in a context where necessarily we can not do follies for the risk that can cause.

SURVEILLANCE

Watch is a need to prevention. The animals moved by the instint captures signals that allow them to go on the attack or on the defensive. We, as humans use more the mental part, rely on the discernment in order to carry out the steps that provide safety.
The majority focuses the vigilance only to the body movements, but it begins in the inner. The impressions we receive from outside impacting us, and as we fit we will express then a certain attitude.
We must be attentive to the movements that occur in us, observe if it calm down or alter, if they make us feel good or bad, if it is egotistic approach or altruistic. According to the base will be the action, so if the origin is harmonic as well will be the happened, but if the root has conflicting connotations, the result is also true.
From the abstraction to the specification. First a thought occurs, then an intermediate stage that suspended if we want it or not, whether we like it or not, if it suits us or not, and once we decided, the action has to translate into action.
Vigilance ask concentration, agility to decide, move promptly. What surrounds us exerts a function, this limits the space, and in the empty spaces is where we have to fit in with other people, animals, objects, etc.
When we get in troubles, in whatever form, is the result of not having guarded properly what we thought, felt and doing with the connotations that will end up reporting. This is something that will serve as a warning, reviewing the case and see where we have failed.
The dangers can appear at any time, in the most unsuspected, either by the movements themselves or by external factors, therefore the vigilance is essential to preserve the integrity. And the same thing exactly transferred to thoughts and feelings, if we leave that enters dirty, the experiences will also be in line to the internally stored.
Many people don´t take conscience of what it says, what it does, what is triggered then, and the chaotic environment and constant controversy.
It is already said in the Scriptures " keep watch, because the devil, like a roaring lion, is ready to eat us alive.
In the internal version we have to watch where we can be in danger, because if there is no attention we can be devoured.

RAISE THE REQUIREMENT

We never must be satisfied with the achieved level, because we don´t know where we can reach and the immense rewards that representing.
If we really want to welfare and satisfactory conditions, must cover greater challenges, because maintaining requests an effort, and improve requires an extra portion.
The requirement is not focused in one or two  areas, if we want quality we need to be clear that is in all terms. From the inner we have to establish the clarity, the ability to understand, the breadth of vision, discernment as a basis for the actions to plan and realize, and this means knowing how to carry out connections between us and the rest, the pretensions of the individuals with whom we come in contact.
Have qualitative external elements let´s you live with more comfort, but these will be insuficient if they are not in line with an inner quality expressed in our demonstrations. The requirement is to do better, be fixed purposes on a larger scale, because stagnation don´t go anywhere, and if it´s not going to any side we live by inertia without developing the potential.
Limited to rhe search of resources needed for their survival, establishing a widespread conformism renouncing to discover the latent talents, covering the dossier of subsistence without experiencing trascendence, that gives meaning, substance and objective beyond access to material goods.
Longing, desire to be more of what we are, to do more of what we do, not on the labor side in first term, but how to be. This has to merge from within, only depends on us, and if not rooted in the concerns, of course it is not possible the mobilizations that implies after.
The self demand is who can catapult into a continuous progress, without this we are condemned to a simple wandering where it will not be possible develop widely nor access to the most optimal expressions that facilitate more enriching and satisfactories experiences.

TO WANT AND TO POWER

We want to get many things, and at the time of truth very few can be materialized. ¿ What happens between wanting and powering ? To densify an idea to practice need some mateials and know engage them to obtain the desired result, and if it falls a part or both, it is not possible concrete the desired.
We would like all kind of things, and in the first place we have to learn to discern on their desirability or not, and if appropriate, necessary or by interest, equip with the essential preparation to provide the best available care and treatment.
We want good relations, well ¿ but what we do in this way ? Selfishness, the unconsciousness, mess up again and again with unfortunate behavior, that instead of reporting satisfaction is quite the contrary. We want to be involved , but we can not because we don´t know act properly.
The rest of aspects thay may be as many as we think, exactly the same. In any context enters an specific medium with their characteristics, people that are part of scene with us and our intentions. Move defly making the appropiates laces, taking clear where we start, with what we achieved and where we go or, to be precise and to make successive links.
There are things viable and other non viable, is a matter of common sense, we are only just to see what can be feasible and that don´t.
We could get a lot more on several fronts, and if is not as vell is due to some kind of lack that deprives more closer to the goal. Individually and socially there are always many gaps remaining to fill, and will continue until that we see the manner to fill and catalyses for transforming all the empovering situations thanks to expertise and knowledge to be.

SAME COURSE, SAME LESSONS

A great number of people does not move from the same course and the same lessons as if it were impossible to learn more, to cover more and introduce better conditions. With a restricted freedom of movements, aspirations focusing strictly on the elementary, without real concerns of overcoming, repeating identical movements until the exhaustion. All areas are impregnated, repetitive talks, complaints, eternal dissatisfaction; ultimately powerlessness to change the own conditions living in a climate of constant frustration.
The worst is that from generation to generation, these parameters are go on, observing how mediocrity, the decay and conformism, make life a weight annoying where survive seems really heavy. It is the negative view and the attittude to it who is generated, when they should strive to enter relevant factors applicant to increase the potential in the desired areas.
It is very boring give turns and turns to the same things in the same way without conclusions, and in the end it does not go anywhere. In a variety of topics you can vary the staging, change some character but follow the story and the talk, while maintaining the survival structures without incentives that planned toward breakers objectives. Thus it is impossible to get rid of automaton routines that promote a renewed version, different with other possibilities.
Living means taking risks, and not moving undertaking new challenges opting for what is known without advance is death in life.
Why need the abundance, the wealth that offers the nature in all senses, if after a mentality of poor restricts us to the indigence although we have house and resources ?
We leave to win to not loose a minimum. The opportunities to expand are continously escaping, by fear to delve in other areas. To preserve the elementary does not attune to the essential. And so day after day, year after year, make up this environment gray, when we could make it bright and shining, but this depends on the consciousness and some lofty ideals otherwise the change is impossible.

LIVING IN SOCIETY

To live with, and this includes all us without exception. From the respective indvidualities, isolated or in crowd, we are separated in the presence but also united to share the essential. We are designed in such a way that we must seek the independence of movements as a unit, with the accurate support of others for our own maintenance.
From different singularities, with the diversity of criteria, valuations and approaches, each of us has to find the appropriate fittings in a constant give and receive to cover what was desired.
Knowing how to live in family, in society, is an art that requires continually trascend the ego without renounce to our lace, idiosincrasy amd supply the needed.
The problems arise when we want to impose the strength, submit to other by interests or whatever reasons. When there is no respect or a decent treatment, prepares the ground for the conflict in not acting with equity.
We would have to ask before getting in motion : what i´m trying to do is correct ? Can hurt someone else or is neutral ? I see only my benefit or the common good ?
From actions of others depends the order and efficient services, therefore we have to ensure for a optimal exchanges, because here is where lies the final quality. Instead of thinking what benefit would draw from, we have to think about how can I contribute to improve this or that thing.
The difficulties and adversities come from separative approaches. My in front of the rest, when it should be all contributing with all for the mutual nutrient.
The degree of harmonic awareness shows the evolutionary level, personal and social. The relationship with others is dialog, clip differences for a common good. It´s not a question of winners or losers, but collaborators that work to create the optimum state depending upon the time, circumstances and needs.

TESTED ( III )

We have to face material and spirituals tests. With a reduced level consciousness, with some basic knowledge to proceed with any degree of effectiveness, we must manage in the physical realm adjusting again and again the shortcomings, individual desires and needs in the environment that it can provide.
Efforts at level material are intermediaries between the coverage of basic subsistence amd spiritual goal beyond our faculties of understanding and perception. Through learning experiences, if we have the ability to decrypt the background of the events with teir intrinsec purpose, we´ll reveal the ways that allow us to locate the appropiate behavior. Not focus on selfish profits, but raise in the terms of successfully proceed in relation to an harmonious whole.
The spiritual tests involve transfer limitations, from ignorance to knowledge, from poverty of ideas to the fluidity, from mediocrity to brilliancy. The environment influences on several fronts, but the desire to improve, to progress, to live with a neatness, depends only on us.
The mundane tests are the exposure of what we have to address in the density, with their instruments and operability. The spiritual tests are subtle, and if we have not previously worked for a long time with fervor to be in tune with, we will not have the ability to understand the messages that show us everywhere with evidence.
If we don´t introduce changes, it will not possible to make gradual changes aimed at improving our conduct and conditions, by demonstrating that we are stagnant, not making any progress, and therefore there is no overcoming.
Lack of knowledge of what we could achieve, the focus on the mundane, conformity with the style of life empty of content, keep us in a state of perpetual lethargy. The test is to go from lower to higher stages, and this requires an immense preparation and much more than the will.