REACT OR RESIST ( I )

Assiduosly there were tense situations, which is not annoy us each time when dislike it. When harmony breaks for an event and its consequences, when someone disturbs the tranquility with words or clumsy actions, we can not allow ourselves to be trapped by circumstances, because the emotional response may be lack of essential clearly, and instead of fix worse what exists.
According to the own character, the particular code of values, many things can be annoying, but hte unpleasant lies not in the speaker and their emissions, rather in the impression received and what stir them in us. We can commit actions actually punishable, harsh expressions feeling attacked, but behind the facts there is a reason for you to enter a different context, or by shaking take out conclusions to modify some guidelines.
The others are intermediaries to enhance our development, and in spite of  frictions and controversies, these are only the envelope of some possibilities to expand the consciousness by improving the attitude.
People who seem enemies actually are friends dressed up as, the difference is that force us to mobilize the reserve funds saved for emergencies, and thanks to them we can overcome obstacles and strengthen us if we know face it with firmness.
Too much tranquility don´t allows grow, it is necessary from time to time new challenges to access to higher levels. And what the principle is heavy, which implies a handicap, if we resist the initial discomfort and we hope to respond with the aprropriate tone and time, then what seemed negative becomes positive.
The bad thing is that the majority immediateley feels offended, replicating wounded without giving enough time to the logical in search of conciliatory solutions.
If we react harshly the fire increases and lengthens the conflict. If we resist without finding ourselves or feel victims, we can decrypt the message of what has been said or done to find illuminating patways that lead to the adoption of positions more useful to us and especially the way to deal with dignity and correction to the neighbor even though they do not so with us.