REACT OR RESIST ( II )

If we react to external events due to the behavior or others r circumstances, we became the effect of what happens. If we resist observing in perspective, preparing the best option for what has been generated, then we will be manufacturing the cause to plan and decide what we want and what is more convenient.
React is being trapped in something unpleasant created by third parties or for some personal action that does not come out as we would like. Resisting is accept a facts trying to extract an advantage.
The reasons that drive to react are diverse, they are by discontent, to wait for a different expectations, to value something with a result below the desired.
Resentment by expressions or the behavior of someone. Pride according of self importance and the treatment received by others. Revenge if the feeling is of having been insulted, injured, with desire for justice to satisfy primary emotions.
React is to show anger, speak with words or sour forms because they have received bad words or forms of other that in any way condone. React is an expression of the ego : what are saying to me, what are doing to me, what to be thought, what are believed.
Resist it´s a sign of maturity, of tranquility, look in perspective, nor to see the other as bad, but as the means for opening, of opportunities to make adjustments more careful.
In what is useless because it is impossible to communicate with the caller, withdraw is the most convenient.
Expect to change a damage only serves if there is willingness in both sides, the ability to listen, not wanting to impose by force the criteria themselves, but what was equitable thinking in the common good.
What is unfeasible, where there is no understanding, no confidence, which is harmful, it is to be left to pour energy into relationships and appropriate conditions.
Scream, insult, be offended, indicates that you are angry because there is no what we want as  we would like, and in some ways is a little child respond in these terms.
Keep calm, polite behavior, it is that makes the difference between someone who is in charge of the situation, without alteration. Lose the composure is being overtaken by events, responding instinctively without logic or with good judgment.