MEASURES AND VALUES ( II )

What has real value ? What is indestructible, which always accompanies us and no one can take from us, which expresses virtues, what makes us better as individuals, the careful manners that never expire, treating everyone with dignity, watching the common good instead of being selfish, seek help if we can. be attentive, helpful, all that generate harmony.
We can measure the visible and pesable, but not what is visible by expression and form part of the abstract values such as intelligence, kindness or generosity. The values can be ethical, moral, without rigidity or driven from the religiosity, simply as the need to adopt a behavior intended to establish good ways for a optimum coexistence.
However, in the name of a doctrin, of fanaticism, of a few political ideals, homeland, enlarge some peculiarities of a small collective, is an exaggerated self assessment, and in reality an inferiority complex that wants to be compensated.
Who is strong, sensible, fair, respectful, don t need extern instruments that reaffirm, because the value of someone, don´t lies either language, the flag or the hymn; but in the dignified behavior toward others and constant humility..
Each individual or social level, has a few peculiarities, resembling to some and differentiating from others, and does not make us better or worse. What we are capable of transmitting and the footprint that leaves, here is where are elements of value or absence of them.
Think we are big is the clearest signal that one is small, because the greatness is simplicity, being aware of their own limitations, and the consideration toward everyone, weaving close connections, valuing the contribution of all,  without being more than or less than by any specific reason.

MEASURES AND VALUES ( I )

Measures and values accompany us continuosly, either by increase or reduce,  giving or receiving, win or lose. The numbers a part of indicate a position, are used to measure, where according the context and a multiple of variants we can approach or separate from objectives.
What is tangible can be measured, such as the external physical aspects. The intangible in the form of ideals, of symbols, despite the fact that it may have a visibility or application, would be in the paragraph of values. and unlike the measures that are objective, the values are subjective.
We can calibrate wealth or poverty according to what we have, the sphere of action and possibilities and the coverage of needs.outline the appropiate weight according to the height and complexion with close proximity.
The efforts or performance by the stage of form, age and training. All of these are general guidelines demonstrable and obvious found in results.
How must observe the values ? Is not the same east or west, north or south, a tropical or cold weather. Each one believes to be on the way, but if conflicts persist and there is no unanimity, notes some weak basis based on interested dogmas.
What has value ? By what ? What has to be sacred and what is profane ? Who determines it ? There is too much veneration for a few symbols that represent countries according to a colors set in a flag. Only are a combination of colors that are associated to one or another, and from here to give it value of sacred, a part of disproportionate is crazy. And the rest of symbols exactly equal, have the value that they want to give it, much or none. The only thing to do is to respect all the differents positions in signal of mutual consideration.
Nobody has to impose symbols to force, or ideologies nor should want to submit to those who are different forcing them to be like him. Those who believe they better, superiors, as by divine grace, a part to disrupt the harmony, what shows is an irrational primitive madness, product of delusions of grandeur that shows exactly the opposite.

MOMENTS

The life is made up of moments, small fractions  where we experience multitude of variants. We yearn that be presented " special " situations that provide satisfaction and well being. But what is certain is that among the thousands of days lived, only occurs on rare occasions, only some days a little significant, the rest is routine of automatism in the search for subsistence.
We have free time unconditioned of obligations, which is where it could forge rewarding opportunities, and when not for a reason for another, we are wasting time in futilities, that neither enrich nor make us feel good or contribute to an edifying purpose.
We will wish lives like a movie, exciting, but the reality is that we do not ever leave from our individual minimum, conditioned by what is most essential relationships or for health.
The superficial view, the impatience to achieve results, the goals of low profile, makes processes are living without intensity or depth, and therefore the various moments that make up are of very poor quality.
Many repetitive moments, automatons, insubstancial, and very few really exciting. We would like to reverse it, but the own inability to generate it, and the constraints of everyday, are difficult to overcome impediments.
We go through life without discovering the vast majority, which is the reason for our stay here, the function to run, and if we do or not. We would all be sensational : abundance of resources, satisfactory cloes ties, fullness of faculties. The picture is usually quite different, where the poverty or financial difficulties prevail, the relationships are often a disaster, and of course the overall performance is far below what it could be.
What we have done or what we have in our multiple moments that we have led  where we are ? If the current context is inclined more toward the misery that wealth in one or several factors, it is clear that the actions are not being carried out with the appropriate correction, and if we want to transform it, we must know the cause and amend it.
Life is made up of moments, and in each one of them must fix the maximum attention, put all the drives in give the best of us in order the successive moments will be more solid, more comforting and more positive. First we have to cultivate awareness of the value of each moment and its consequences, and strive to generate more qualitative conditions for the moments that come later.

WHAT ARE WE ABLE TO SEE ?

We see that we can, we know or what we want. Only is possible to see according to the own ability, which indicates that to identify something outside, first we have to know and have it internalized within.
To see is note, as long as we faculties to discern properly, whether it is objective, and the observed will made with equanimity.
Why are so much conflicts ? Because don´t know see that the movement made didn´t have the essential harmony between subject and object, between a party and another; while we are not able to decipher the cause, the effect will be the result of the origin.
As mentioned the King David : look but don´t see, hear but don´t listen. Unfortunately it is in many cases. An insufficient global training, which prepares us occupationally, but not to be impeccable in any field. A selfish focus of purposes, depriving to establish links and closers collaborations. The constraints of focus the efforts to mere subsistence, deprive the instruction in depth that provide the knowledge to know our individual role and its collective fit.
Not for the fact of " seeing " means that we should be prepared to act always properly respect the saw, and the incidence of seen in the middle.
See is not only a matter of physical question through the view, is to perceive, understand, and also intuition.
A greater vision, more possibilities to decipher the why, having a margin of maneuver to decide the position to adopt that can be more profitable or successful.
In the darkness we are limited, we can not act with fullness, with the danger of getting things wrong or make us damages according to the case.
In the clarity we see things without difficulty, facilitating the action without impediments.
In the everyday we wish to expand visual faculties of understanding, for our own personal and social progress; because the more people involved, more opportunities to establish appropriate conditions for the development and welfare in general.

PRIDE IS AN ABSURDITY

Pride is an absurdity that oversize the own values, and according to this belief nor tolerate some positions of others that the individual catalog not acceptable due to its self importance.
Far from believing that pride is an asset, which causes are separations and losses. Puting on a pedestal by easy executing is a false and exaggerated assessment of certain skills.
The source of our acquisitions is the Creator, we are just a channel, and the " successes " are the merit of having connected, expressing it with words or actions.
For more virtues acquired, will be small before the ignorance of those that we will have to acquire.
The performing domain in specific areas, will be given to us for the particular role assigned to each one in the evolutionary path, and the role played by us is of intermediaries transmitting ideas or services for the collective.
We can not accomodate us or be satisfied with specific episodes, there is always someone more talented than us, and the potential for growth is unfathomable. All we have is a loan, therefore think that we are someone like a chosen people by the fact of being more skilfull with regard to the prevailing majority, is deceived. And although at some subject we have ease, we are still a deep ignorant in many more.
The specific conditions are personal and nontransferable, and although we want to imitate someone to copy will never be the original.
You can be glad of a work well done, but not be oversized by or inflate it. The goal is the effectiveness, the highest quality possible, and if you are able to get fantastic, and enjoy of made of.
Pride is a focus in the self that transmute thinking in the you, and the reductionist effect needs to expand the field of vision to observe in depth and with clarity.
The pride of their own importance, which feels offended by positions or comments from others, is a stronghold of immaturity and ignorance. And the antidote is the humility that recognizes their insignifcance before the immensity.
More or less knowledge, more or less resources, more or less skills, is not decisive, what counts is the attitude, the dignified treatment with the neighbor.
As small we are in this world, we are big in the upper world.

FORCEFULNESS NECESSARY

Until where, even when we hold situations and / or relationships that don´t work ? Why is so difficult get rid of long ago is more a hindrance than a utility ? Fear of the unknown ? To the novelty will be worse ? If a certain context keeps us stuck or causes an impairment, must seek solutions to transform it or leave it.
If we have tried multiple alternatives without success, means that the test has not been exceeded. The message may consist in do it different or leave it, where the skills of observation, the process and the outcome will give clues in this regard.
What wins maintaning a relationship with someone dishonest, indifferent, with whom we can´t trust, without the essential affinity, where there is no reciprocity and the exchanges are of low quality where the balance inclines more toward discomfort and boredom ?
What wins clinging in a slaver context, without horizons, limiter and unsatisfactory ?
When prudence, the margin of confidence, the hope of change not reported a favorable result, we have two options : continues as a useless conformism that impedes progress toward better opportunities, or have the courage to make decisions that will lead to freedom.
Before modify drastically the current state we need to know what we want and what we should be in order to take the relevant strategy. Once we have clear the goal, the determination must be strong through words and actions to undo the dulling conditions. We don´t hesitate, and accompanied with an indispensable certainty going in the right way, show the necessary strength to break with the obstructive factors.
In the path leave activities, friends, couples, significant in its time and that have ceased to be. Leave behind the badness for common sense, practicism and self esteem. Life pushes us to detach which is no longer or has stopped working, and to flow without useless charges we must do the same.

UTILITY AND IMPROVEMENT

We are here for two reasons : to be useful to develop autonomously and provide service to others, and improve our expressions to evolve continously without limits.
In the first point we are in agreement as obvious as it is, by experiencing it daily in their various claims that each one has. The second despite being equally clear that the first, is a matter of conscience and will, only accessible to those who are able to develop both in oneself.
In fact, utility and improvement will interact, but those that focus on material life basically and worldly goals, they usually don´t have concerns to improve as self.
Strive to be useful is a necessity, to srive to improve is an inner restlessness led to work on our person.
We are all dependent, the collaboration of third parties is essential to cover the vital demands. However, we can not leverage nor claim that keep us, we must manage to achieve the greatest degree of freedom in a few limited parameters.To this aim, we must search the manner to be useful, because is so how the collective works, with individual contributions and also in the particular.
In the most elemental, the society is organizing by interest, by livelihood and for welfare, with more or less success, more or less equitativity is seeking the appropriate conditions of maintenance, and in spite of everything, the conflicts are always present. And this is the key to the issue, the problems, deficiences and discord are produced precisely to raise issues watching their own benefit, using the force instead of a constructive dialog, that reverts on what is appropriate and fair for both parties. But get there requires ability to see in perspective, consider the common good, and achieve this behavior depends on the personal improvement. To progress and evolve is imperative the internal harmony reflected on the outside.

SAY - DO

Our expressions has two tracks : through words and actions, what we say and what we do.
The word would expose the theory, and practice the action. The meaning of the words exerts an influence at all levels, in terms of thoughts, feelings and in the execution. Contain the power to bring good or bad vibrations, raise or lower the mood, build or destroy, approach or separate. Without making any movement the impact that can cause can leave strong sensations that will endure for a long time.
We must be vigilant, careful, before pronounce or writing certain words, because it is a mark on the environment, and contrary to what say the irresponsible, the words not outweighs the wind, because everything is registered; and shall be recorded in its proper place with the specific response of the content.
Our unconsciousness, the need for immediate gratification wanting to achieve the wishes quickly, generate unfortunate expressions that may be amanded only if we realize its impact and we are willing to correct the approach and tone.
In terms of the action is the same as with words. Before you say or do is our power, once we´ve said or done we have to assume the consequences of what trigger, therefore is crucial the clarity of the purpose and the prudence to the outcome will lead to harmony and not to devastation.
Words can heal or can kill, the actions also according to the habits or vices. The great danger with the prevailing banality, is the lightly treatment of what is being said or done, but everything counts and is recorded, and what seemed harmless or without importance, when the time is right will be ahead blow away what suits unceremoniously, exactly the same for the unconscious authors.
Words and actions are our assets to build, that expressed negatively forge destruction. Everything that surrounds us, individually and collectivelly is the manifestation of what has been said and done, what we say and do. If we want to change it, which could be better, the first thing is to change the words to report charitable actions of the derivative in both senses.

COHERENCE

Nothing happens without a reason behind it hold. Everything has an origin that has just been behaving a result.
We are continuosly subject to the law of cause and effect, which tell us that there is a logical reason visible or not, consciously or not, in the events that occur.
The word random is used as justification for what we don´t know decrypt with security, certainty or conviction. In reality every thing is conceived and ordered with a perfect coherence.
We as humans, nurtured from natue, and what we have to do is what it show : know how to put seeds in the appropriate field, provide them with the contribution of the four elements and bear fruits. - What this mean in the day to day ? Having some basic resources, investing properly, and access to some purposes that we nurture.
Coherence derives from cohaerere, which means " be united " and in practical terms means that thought and action have to be united, or be an harmonic fit between the idea and the execution, between what is said and done.
What happens when there is a dissonance between what is said and what is done ? An internal misalignment manifesting on the outside, product of an imbalance.
There has to be synchronicity between thought and action, otherwise chaos ensues. You can also have an " apparent consistency " in criminal acts or breaking harmony, where the results will indicate the existence of a dark, causing losses, damage or negativy.
Why are there so many chaotic episodes ? By a disconnection that deprives us of see with clarity the difference between what is right and what is wrong.
The incoherence is lack of harmony, a disunity between the idea and the execution by an egoical interference or by a manifest inability.
Moved pushed by the emotionally, depending on what sort of wishes, by the immaturity, and don´t know how to face challenges, end assiduosly in erroneous approaches product of the incoherence.
The coherence requires see clearly, know what we want and what consequences can be triggered adjusting the initial abstraction and final appearance.
What is coherent will lead us to the harmonic, and that is incoherent will behave frictions and undocking in various senses.

HEAT - COOL

That relations will harm or cold depends on the willingness to adopt. There are so many types of relationship as of quantity, some close by links, other by affinity of ideas, friends, coworkers, mates, etc.
The assiduosness is not synonymous with anything specific, the treatment depends on several variants, and achieve fluidity, understanding and cordiality, it´s a question of couplings.
What generates warmth ? The way in which we see the other, the nexus of union, the received through different expressive forms. Add a plus to show us more nearby, thoughtful, caring, a feeling of wellbeing in the interaction.
What generates coldness ? Opposing ways of seeing things making it impossible to reach agreements, indifference, inability to feel affection for the other, mental focusing taking distance.
We can not be warm with all nor cold with all, it is a natural selection that occurs unintentionally. If treats to tune and awakening an attraction. If this is not manifested the warm can not emerge.
The coldness is just the opposite, the lack of essential affinity is not present, creating a distance that is evident in the behavior.
It is not necessary to do the same activities nor pursue similar goals to showing closers, is a question of observing the singularities of another, generate empathy and let flow the feeling to be able to connect more with the essence of what is each one.
Instead of thinking in ourselves, in our own interests, in what we can win, if we are more concerned to listen, to help and to serve, we will build stronger foundations where relations will be from deficits to qualitative.
After all when prevail the coldness we feel uncomfortable, because it is the warmth that vivifies, which stimulates. Establish connections, adjust various components is that allows to work the machines, and in the relationships is exactly the same. If we establish a closer treatment, if focused both parties, there will be functioning. If the opposite, like the machines, the links do not work by separativeness with the vacuum that this causes.