THE DIFFICULTIES OF CHANGE ( II )

The duality entails fluctuations, and the movement implies change. Nothing remains static externally, subjected to oscillating rhythms, and the task is to apply a eternal precepts in the transitory.
The archetypical patterns of behavior are unalterable to have some permanent references, and we must apply them in a context of constant variables. If everything were always statics, there would be no evolution, in the change is where lies the progress to embrace new possibilities.
To physical and spiritual level, the norm is go through different stages, where each is preparatory to the next. Once peaks in one area, we must move to new phases which lead to another forms and expressions.
Profit the time is extract precisely a profit, and so ask a mental and physical activity. From the idea to the action we go forging the day to day, where the outcome will indicate if the efforts are helpful. Increase the potential must be the goal, and if is not so, then means that there are not changes, and for this reason stagnation.
Where is the vital incentive ? In doing better the things that execute, and do it different is change rudimentary manners or little developed by other more sophisticated, consistent and more rewarding.
What sense has do it everything equal without and never change anything ? What enjoyment can experience seeing everything the same way without giving options to different alternatives to widen the consciousness and allow the acces to new variants ?
We must find balance between the valuable to retain and what is appropriate to transform. There are elements that disappear and others remain, and we must distinguish between what is useful to preserve and the expendable to give entrance to new trends with their contributions.
There is always a basis to preserve, a few foundations where support us, and later to build the own life and  environment. Though and action have to be assembled, tune up to extract the optimal performance of the different purposes, and as we seek the ideal fit, the way itself was forming changes that serving to go to higher levels. The aim of change is precisely this.

THE DIFFICULTIES OF THE CHANGE ( I )

Multiples are the causes of why we can´t change. Either a lack of deep self-knowledge, without observing to fund what we say or what we do with the consequences derived. Be convinced to be correct in the various expressions and manifestations, and therefore you don´t need to modify anything. Not wanting to lose privileges or advantages, although this is often at the expense of other clutching to charges or positions for a certain benefits.
Also is the slope indulgent where we let ourselves go in vices or harmful activities, apologizing assiduously with the famous " can not be perfect " as if this was already acquit and give the approval to continue satisfying with a maleficent pleasures so finally report.
Avoid efforts, preferring the perennal mediocrity before the quality and the satisfaction of what has been achieved with tenacity.
Conform to survive rather than trying to live, with no aspirations to overcome, doing the day to day a boredom that only leads to the physical maintenance without direction or goals.
Humans with the exception of a minority, are accustomed to do what is indispensable, and once achieved, waste the time and resources in futilities. The absence of yearnings to go beyond of a constant routine limite them to a reduced plot.
The defects, impurities, the incorrect forms, repeat ad infinitum, but this seems to matter little taking into account the passivity and minimizig that is being done in the apparent deadlock. Do not consider as negative harmful acts, is the greatest impediment to transform us, maintaning inadequate patterns from childhood to old age. The perpetuation of doing everything always equal is what takes forever individual conflicts, projecting it in the collective issues that remain perennial for decades or centuries.
We are here to learn and amend everything we have to be polished. If we do not correct, is like suspending the exam continously. A lot of people doesn´t seem to bother, from here the low yield and the difficulties in establishing qualitative interactions.
The dissatisfaction prevailing in a reflection of not knowing how to change in us schemes and obstructive procedures by those who provide possibilities that generate internal and external harmony.

DANGERS

The concept of danger is a warning that if we don´t act with caution we can suffer physical consequences or other characteristics according to the case. Of course we don´t want to take bad, or undergo distressing situations, and change many of the approaches and actions, behaving just discomfort, risks and losses in more than one sense.
The danger is not only limited to body, to pass deprivation, to deal with various crises. Is also the danger of wasting life uselessly, where sure that most would not catalog so because the focus purely of subsistence we are immersed in a majority.
We do more or less the truth is that we make always little, because the attention is diverted in activities or entertainment that not widen horizons nor provide relating to improve potential conditions by he need for resources, the narrow margin of maneuver usually lose in futilities. The danger therefore is to have time, which are opportunities, and do not use it constructively.
Study, work, have money, they are only instruments intermediaries to learn how to establish connections with the environment in different levels to carry out an evolutionary purpose. If we only stayed in the middle, not going to fund, and by opportunities that present do not know how see or give the accurate treatment facilitating new developments.
The danger of being limited, to stay in the surface, are obstacles that impede progress individually and collectively. We are surrounded by various dangers, before in line with the prevailing style of the time, now by the planetary imbalances resulting from disastrous procedures where the alleged benefit only can lead to curse.
The biggest danger is the same humanity if prevail the ignorant and selfish ways, having to raise awareness of what we want and where can bring it. We live in comunity, and so we have to focus the projects if wish create a prosperous environment, just and harmonious, where all are responsible for small and big actions. Depends on us generate more security, reducing the danger with the increase of awareness and taking altruistic positions.

PRIMARY VERSUS CIVILIZED

Human behavior can be lean in two directions : primary or civilized. The primary as it´s name indicates are those manifestations rudimentary that requiring a treatment for polishing various forms of expression. The civilized is the opposite, are the ways refined resulting from education, the consciousness and the dignified treatment of the personal and collective looking for harmony.
The primary forms are instinctive, the civilized are rational. Who is primary thinks in a small, in the most immediately, in reduced capacity. Pushed by their selfish desires, it is unable to see the consequences of certain approaches lacking in logic and wisdom, triggering adverse events for the own executor and the receiver,
All the conflicts to small and large scale, are the result of not knowing fit subject and object, being made available to all kind of situations. The inability to see with clarity makes it impossible to see the consequences that can be triggered through words or actions, and so convinced of being in the right when in reality shows the opposite, in how it generates the chaos and the various shortcomings in many areas.
Who is mostly primary is easy to distinguish as shown by, it focuses on their interests, does not take into account the other, impose even for the force, threatening. Values relating to him, and what don´t like it despises. Accustomed to treat so unworthy and humiliating when don´t think or say nor does as he wants, because its opinion and manners are those that have to prevail.
Authoritarian people without appreciating those who are different nor for themselves, because all the venom that spewed a part of dirtying the environment, dirty himself.
The civilized in change, with a level of consciousness more wide and more reflective, using logic, thinking of the good of the whole, what facilitates collaboration between different auditors because what is important is the final harmonious result.
The primary sooner or later leads to failure, to deterioration, loss, because the ignorant ways lead inevitably to dire consequences. If we want the good operation will be the norm in any context, we must transmute the instinctive expressions by the discernment, what separates by what unites, the brutality by the delicacy.

LOST ATTRACTION

Activities, amusement or relations, are tracks that can awaken interest in us. The component of enjoyment is essential to feel attracted to one another. Without a motivating factor the attraction is not possible.
The novelty, the topic, the charm that it can cause can approach to experiences and people. And the good sensations of a moment don´t guarantee the continuity, neither in the same nor with the involved.
The principle is like the seed that contains the potential to develop. To measure the initial acquires form, according to the contribution, the sensations and tuning, the interest will be maintained or will fade by the movements produced during the journey and its impact.
The enthusiasm, the taste of the beginning, lies in the print and what we believe will come next. But these are just samples of a totality, and when that does not conform to our character is greater than the confluences, the attraction hardly will prevail.
The base of what attracts us can be consistent, and preserve it will depend on various factors. Introducing new manners for not stagnate, because the monotony diminishes the incentive. Widen the perspective experiencing alternative routes, similar things with differences.
The attractive of one time, by age, by taste, ceases to be when we rattled with other topics. And exactly the same in the relations, friends or couple, prominent and related, little by little or suddenly no longer tuned, because each one made his way, and if it differs, the distance is inevitable.
Extend the attraction indefinitely requires regenrative and life giving elements. The sun and the nature never get tired of looking at, because in spite of look alike, is the vitality and what they provide that preserves the appreciation.
And this exemple serves to imitate in our actions and relations. Give light and heat, and be suppliers of goods in large doses to participate in the abundance and nutrition.
When the activities lose warmth and enthusiasm diminishes, automatically the proximity turns in distance. When the relationships lose the charm we had sense and establish the coldness and indifference, the attraction is over.
Many attractions losing in the way replacing them with other. What is important is always having bonfires lit that make us  vibrate and express the best of each one.

THE WHAT, BUT NOT THE WHY

The prevailing trend in us is to go talking about of what but not the why. We look at what surrounds us seeing the surface without going into the background, and with limited knowledge, only gaining access to fragments, we perform all kinds of comments and draw conclusons convinced of being successful when there is much more ignored than the known.
We are accustomed to give turns and turns to the same topics without extract the necessary clarity to replace the harmful by the benefic, unable to access to why of what has been discussed, what fills of fruitless discussions that lead nowhere.
It is very easy to talk about this or that, to this or the other, to criticize without remorse, make judgments without knowing the involved or know the triggers for what we judge. We opine about fractions separating the set, and in this way the error in the verdict is usual by the global unconsciousness.
Worried about what affects directly, the approaches for what we say and do, revolve around our own interests. From this small microcosm, with a egocentric approach, to stand in a place of other people with different cultures, needs, in moods to do, it is almost impossible for the most.
What I do, what I say, what I give, what I receive as objectives, without deepening in the impulse which leads us to these manifestations. The starting point and destination should be present and clear in our claims to know if the desired is appropriate os dispensable, if we insist in certain matters or avoid them.
Opining about facts, assumptions, from our perspective, we´ll never extract clarifying conclusions.
If we don´t know why the what don´t provide the solution, and the tendency is to focus on the what without find out the why, hence the obstruction and the difficulty to resolve several questions by the inability to arrive to the core.
Once discovered why, we continually seek the harmony, and the why of what of each situation report the best possible context.

BREAKING LIMITATIONS

We have autonomy of movements, but in a few parameters. We can access to resources, but only in measured quantities respect to the whole. We build relationships, but only with a small proportion in one way or another we have to concentrate on small plots that we can cover and within these limits we have to be nimble in achieving the optimal degree of freedom that allows us to act without hindrance.
We are influenced by multiple factors, where only a part depends on his or her own will, and it is here where we must focus the attention, so that the efforts and decisions will lead us to the most appropriate resolution.
Who else who least is in situations where the coupling with other becomes complicated. The differences of approach often make it difficult to be understood, and what could easily be resolved can be extended indefinitely.
When a crash occurs is obstructing the free flow, limiting movements that prevent establish a more satisfactory context.
Unfortunately, the essential and enough lack of understanding, is the origin of the conflict, which may be temporary or indefinite.
The lack of vision or incorrect view, develops approaches usually focused on the ego, and from here every thing imaginable or unimaginable can trigger.
Create problems of nothing is frequent when the degree of unconsciousness is notorious, and the disregard for others is rooted with force. Absurd crises occur without sense by the inability to discern with clarity, and in consequence actions entered the chaos.
The fears, immaturity, maintain unproductive links, not daring to emancipate. To break the chains of relations that perhaps reported a support or economic security, at the expense of limited power and experience other variants. A few small interests deprive them of access to situations and conditions in which we can express ourselves with more freedom and greater possibilities.
Selfishness, unconsciousness, lack of logic, a mental confusion, cowardice, are factors highly dulling for the issuer of such demonstrations and for those who are affected through contacts,hindering greatly the relations and the fund thematic.
Breaking these limitations requests go to the opposite terms : link by others, raise awareness, clarity of ideas and courage. If they ara part of us, the proportion of freedom will be directly proportional to the good use of these.

BETWEEN TWO WAYS

We are always between two ways, what we know and the unknown, what has been done and what needs to be done, the past and the future, the end and the beginning, and so each day, trying to find meaning, and in this search, the desire to get welfare.
The human potential for one reason or another, is usually expressed in a very small percentage, hence the numerous conflicts, dissatisfaction and the inability to generate truly harmonic conditions.
We are here to develop us, where the task is to replace the layers of darkness that inclines us to make mistakes of all kinds, for clarity that should guide us toward the expressive correction. The various factors that accompany us, are the extent of our ability of light, because the same situation is not addressed as well as see. One can see a situation heavy, complicated, the other an opportunity to externalise the latent potential. The work is precisely this, convert the heavy in light weight, the discomfort in blessings, the foes in friends. Of course it´s not easy, but if we don´t work hard, life goes on inglorious if we don´t have a defined goal that will lead to an uplifting purpose.
The job to execute is immense, losing a lot of the time on the way in insubstantial occupations, defending positions that do not manage anything, with a low performance in general due to the lack of preparation.
We would like to be in a kind of fullness in all areas, but it is not possible by the own inability to create it, and will continue to be until we raise the level of consciousness and act according to this.
Improve, have more, but the question is how and why, because win by a side at hte expense of mortgage by another, is in fact not really a benefit. Advance in part and as a whole, is the goal, where each one according to its singularity has to find ways and means of introducing factors more satisfactory if you really want to.
In this journey between two ways, the universe puts us to test, and we may also be challenged to ensure that each new step, every experience, allows us to go up escalating level, so if is not stagnation occurs, and after the receding. because the vital rhythm pushes hard to go always forward.

WHAT WE DON´T SEE NOR KNOW IT

Is more what we don´t se nor do we know that the seen and known, and in spite ot this our recklessness with a portion of folly in certain occasions, makes us judge and criticize people and situations as if we had access to all information.
What easy is to criticize ! To the more minimal already give our opinion of someone that we don´t know the reasons of what drives to say certain words or do certain actions.
We are so bold that we have criteria for any item although we haven´t never tried neither experienced nor studied. Tell us things of someone do not know and we also have arguments about whether he is right or wrong.
It´s curious how the superficiality which we are living with the poor communication transmitted usually, the boldness in doing verdicts lightly lacking in knowledge and ability to elucidate in many ways.
We believe we are prepared to speak about this or that, but the reality is that only know something about some things. There is much more the ignored than the known, and we show as if were the opposite, confirming the ignorance.
What is behind exalted expressions, samples of coldness, indifference, arrogance ? Discontent, impotence, maladjustment, disconnection with life and environment, many reasons can boost to position that we don´t know the cause that is originated.
If we don´t even introspection about ourselves, neither self criticism nor reflection on the commited ¿ how we intend to go away from judging contexts even more unknown ? We are daring, for this reason the problems from centuries are still valid because the attitude has not changed.
The experiences must serve to be more prudent, more cautious, act with the minimum knowledge dealing with the unknown immensity, because what we see or know is a part, and it should be continually attentive for these minimum notions help us to say the appropiate words and perform the correct actions.

NECESSITY - DESIRE

The necessity has to be imbued with desire, because if we want to achieve something, execute an action, must contain desire. The indifference will keep us static if there is no objective to pursue.
The strict necessity is a signal of lack, otherwise is no longer necessary. The desire don´t need precisely a lack, but can be a longing to improve or satisfy in some sense. The need is primary, the desire secondary, and at the same time can merge both. The need is more to basic level, desire is a choice depending on various parameters.
As desired will give us clues to the people, trends and peculiarities. Necessity is a question of resources according to the environment and the specific situation. What we need pushes us to move. What we dont´t have and we want is what unites us all without distinction to prepare, to carry out exchanges and give us ourselves with services for the personal and collective operating.
The need is the key to bind us with each other, and through services cover the deficits of each one if we had already there.If we already have everything, don´t need to strive or come into contact with the neighbor, but this would be an absurd taking into considering that surround us and how we are designed.
With what we have we have to go to the search that we don´t have to ensure that we continue to have.
There are physical and spiritual needs, internal and external needs, we must identify it and ensure to get the intended.
Perhaps the needs are minimal in certain contexts, but we have always hoped the own progress that provide of sense the knowledge, experiences and relationships in the constant pursuit of perfection of our expressions.
What do I need ? Is missing or is dispensable ? What I desire ? Is to satisfy the ego, the lower nature or expand horizons to enter more correction ?
We need to be clear what are pursuing, because as we do we will have, and maybe once achieved the desired setting is not the authentic needs.
Achieve that now there isn´t, enjoy certain benefits that they can offer. Introduced, to obtain, for the near or far provides the appropriate in each area, this has to be the motivation.