Man and woman they have been created back to back. Will they turn ?

We are all the product of the union of the two male and female principles, therefore although externally in the physical aspect we distinguish ourselves by a certain sex, the other principle is also in us.                       Man and woman have been created back to back. Everyone looks in opposite directions and they can´t see each other faces. The work of both consists of turning around and seeing each other head on, to identify and establish agreements based on implicit differences and that they work for unity in diversity.                  Be the same in essential but different in the rest. Fit the differences is a constant task taking into account the respective code of values, criteria, and quite opposite conceptions on several significant fronts. What is needed first is to acquire deep archetipal knowledge of the same gender, and then do the same with the other opposite to ours. Know why we are the way we are and the cause, giving us much greater and more satisfying possibilities..                                                                                                                                    Men are transmitters at a mental and physical level, and receivers in the emotional aspect. On the other hand, women are emotional transmitters and mental and physical receivers .Aware of these basic points, it is a matter of good disposition arising from a coherent broad discernment and the indispensable affection  it brings to establish links.                                                                                                                                The challenge is to internalize the qualities of the other polarity in us to not have external dependencies. And because this task is difficult and requires great effort and discipline, we hardly incorporate the attributes of the other sex in the optimal magnitude. Hence the majority look for the supplement that they believe will cover gaps or deficiencies.                                                                                                           Love binds, wisdom unties. What do we want ties for ? For love of someone or for own because of what the bond may imply. To bind oneself is to limit, and there must be a compelling reason and one purpose. The social evolutionary level in all cultures, is not enough developed to establish a couple relation that is the more demanding, and allow both individual and collective progress as a whole due to personal interests in oneslf and the interaction and one refined sensitivity to express altruistic love.                           Before conditioning ourselves with the responsibilities that will be incorporated we must ask ourselves primoridial questions . Why want this relation ? Can drive to show the best ? There is authentic enthusiasm in what I feel ? What I can supposedly earn can have more value tha what I enjoyed before the engagement ?                                                                                                                                                    There is too much fantasy, supposition and imagination over the idealization of what may lie ahead to fit in all areas. Choosing a partner in the west is usually for love, but this must be guided for wisdom, and fit both, because is the only manner to understanding both and have possibilities in the continuity that it will have to be constantly monitored.

WHAT DO WE WANT TIES FOR ( II )

The essential point for a nexus to report profit is the fit. We check it inside a clock, a circuit, or the key and the door.                                                                                                                                                      Everyone has a uniqueness, we will not find anyone exactly alike manifesting in everything like us, therefore, in the differences lies the effort if it is intended to combine the contributions of each part.           If we want fluid exchanges we have to find out our own character to know where the strengths and weaknesses are in order to proceed appropriately in each relationship and context that allows the best fit for the intended objectives.                                                                                                                            There must always be an interest that pushes us to leave us and have bridges of proximity with someone.   ¿ what are we looking for ? ¿ what exactly do we want ? ¿ what can the other provide us that we can not ? ¿ and what can we offer in exchange ? In order to make a suitable approach, the wider the self  knowledge, the better it can be the favorable result in the intended. If we don´t know how to define why we are like this nor distinguish whether we are on the right track or not, coupling with someone will have little chance of success. Unfortunately, this is what has been observed time and time again.                                             Unconsciously we acquire ties to some characteristic we like, retreating to a very narrow margin with respect to the whole, and once immersed in the adventure of commitment, the day to day awakens us from the illusion with " the lot " of each one, the complete package of who we are, surfacing disagreements, tensions and discomfort, and what seemed so beautiful suddenly lands us.                                                   We should not expect the feeling of well being from a single person with his impurities and shortcomings, why the most precious goods are intangible, and peace, silence, tranquility, and recollection come from within.                                                                                                                                                                What real progress have couples experienced after decades of coexistence individually or together ? Have we deciphered what we had to learn, polish, amend through the other to improve our expressions ? Of the previous imaginations of supposed satisfaction, what percentage has been evidenced ?  how many times have we thought of undoing the link due to boredom, stagnation and without a purpose that justifies the continuity ?                                                                                                                                                       It is the calculation of various factors that prevents the merger and the progress of the exchanges. The superficiality that permeates the relationship deprives of experiencing quality, and if we add the selfish part and considerable immaturity, it is not possible to achieve the purpose that must be provided by the fit of the two distinct identities working as a unit.                                                                                       

WHAT DO WE WANT TIES FOR ? ( I )

Why do you want changes ? To  improve the existing one by replacing it with something else. What do we want ties for ? To establish more satisfactory conditions not achieved before the bond. This is a consistent approach, and in any significant modification it is necessary to observe the context and benefits offered by being free from conditioning obligations, and the restrictions of mobility, time, space and resources that entails to acquire an habitual bond or of daily coexistence.                                                                             The idyosincrasy of the person and longings can favor internalization or externalization. If is toward intenalization, without a doubt the constant presence of someone is an obstacle to having moments of silence, peace and collection for the practice of exercises, instruction and reflection. Living as a couple requires maximum coupling, a fit that begins at the mental level with similarity of ideas, complementary emotionality that generates proximity and purposes in a similar direction. All the factors driving to the union, because in short it is about this.                                                                                     What do we often observe ? People attracted by the physical, by a singularity, some talent, that captivates at the beginning, and as times passes and characteristics are discovered and above all shortcomings, the initial enthusiasm decays if there is no solidity that can sustain it.                                                                  It all lies in words and actions. What is said, what is done, the tone, the manner, they will incline towards what we like or dislike. The question is : What you like about certain words or actions that captivate and from here think about tying up with this person ? Given the prevailing social mediocrity the overvaluation makes it all the more special, and this for be lacking in remarkable people.                                                  The gaps we don´t know how to fill by ourselves disconnect from our center pending the periphery, with the belief that a specific peson  with its deficits, selfishness and immaturity will fill us, are unrealistic fantasies.                                                                                                                                                          Subconsciously we want to tie ourselves to someone because deep down we know we will be tested, and the link will involve precise experiences and situations for learning. This will be only possible with a developed consciousness, and with the desire of perfect our expressions and behavior, if there is no such motivation, then share chats, money and perhaps activities, but without a purpose of growth, the tie it will not make us better nor will the supposed satisfaction occur as we imagined.                                                  Ties to go where, to do what ? To perpetuate rutines and boredom, or to take on challenges that encourage effort to expand individual and commom potential ? Limit ourselves for development work, or have a part time company that mortgages life.

THE 10 FORMS OF NEGATIVE SPEECH

It may seem that there is only one form of negative expression that encompasses everything, but like many other things there are nuances and distinctions.                                                                                               1 - Malicious talk. This is one of the most haarmful practices, since it affects who are addressed the comments, to sender because of the negativity spread, and the atmosphere that permeates the vibrations.   2 - Mumble. What profit is extracted from them ? Does it improve the fund, the people involved, the subject itself ?                                                                                                                                                   3 - Lies. Lies it means saying what is it not, for fear, for interest, to hide facts and the possible consequences.Be that as it may, that which deviates from the truth, never succeeds because it wants to pass the non existent as if it had existence and consistency.                                                                                   4 - Flattery. What purpose does the flatterer pursue ?Falsehood with ulterior motives is often the trigger. There is no need to soap up in front the evidence, the facts are the clearest exponent.                                   5 - Nonsense. The nonsense comes from a low cultural level, of a defective discernment. Squandering energy with useless conversations brings not benefit.                                                                                     6 - Controversy. It is a mixture of evil and interest, and it points to both mental and emotional impurities product of a mental narrowness and pretensions that can not prosper.                                                            7 - Anger. Always present when desires are not satisfied in the desired form or measure, when the events don´t happen the way we want.                                                                                                                         8 - Proud remarks. Self hype for little things. Everyone´s talents are just loans for a purpose, desire for personal improvement and social sharing.                                                                                                       9 - Cheating.Sincerity is the basis of every relationship, and if it´s not there it disappears the confidence, and without confidence nothing solid or consistent can be built with perspective. Cheating can suppose some kind of momentary gain, but as the foundations are not consistent, sooner or later it will end in failure.                                                                                                                                                              10 - Humiliation. When we believe that are more than others for a question of money, social position or has some advantage or privilege over others, considering inferior to someone by belief or comparison. Everything is a consequence of ignorance, of egocentrism, of insensitivy towards the proism and what is different, towards what don´t like, and this only can change introducing the refinement of superior nature getting rid of harmful forms

ASHIR ( wealthy ) eyes, teeth, hands, feet

Ashir means wealthy, not in its literal meaning, but in the physical resources we have to realize all kinds of purposes for our development. We have eyes to see, which are used to identify what surrounds us and know how to locate everything in the right place to fit optimally. We are eqquiped with teeth so that the food can be crushed properly before moving to the stomach and digestive system leaving us with the nutrients before the unusuable is eliminated. Hands are our tools of action. Five fingers on each hand that indicate that we must put the five senses before starting a movement and be precise. Get the intended result. The two hands with ten fingers, state that the purpose is achieve the completeness  in the purposes. And feet they allow us to move. We can´t stand still making connections involves the eyes to know where to look, the teeth to chew while staying with the essentials for good organic functioning. And the hands to forge the differents purposes every moment. It´s a matter of working together. Two eyes, jawbone upper and lower, two hands and two feets. The two principles sender i receiver, the two gender male and female. The left eye is associated with the moon, the right eye to the sun. Hand right and feet to the man, and hand and feet left to the woman.                                                                                                                               If we want to extract the best contribution, we must adjust the two polarities constantly. When we introduce harmony the fit has been produced. Distortions, physical or psychological problems are consequences of not having properly coupled the two principles.                                                                   Eyes, teeth, hands, feet, four types of resources, suppose a work of concreteness to practical level by the numerical connotations of the number four. When four becomes eight, which would be to raise the actions and their purpose to a more refined sphere. Depending on the benefits and the way of proceeding we will stay in the sphere of four or we can doble in the scope of eight.

PRESUMPTION OF INNOCENCE ? NO, LYNCHING !

This is the trend if we want to push the opponet away, spread rumors, spread alleged irregularities, create a story where the pointed out seems very bad, and throw the carcass publicly so that the populace can be added to it, and in a matter of time work done. Sometimes the center of the target will point to politicians, that if they have money in paradise countries, that if they have embezzed. Others that may cast doubt the deep state, not hesitating to mobilize the entire repressive apparatus that acts with impunity without the ability to replay or counterattack. Relevant people who annoy because of what they say, because of the echo, because it shows some crooked foundations and rotten forms derived from interests that few the lower.                                                                                                                                                               Clubs, institutions, presidents, everything that is not pleasant and is a nuisance, slanders, and the people that does not distinguish truth from lies, with the aim of unpacking what you don´t want, what you don´t like and put the status at risk.The accused are already guilty before presenting evidence, without trial, without demostrations, ready for that barbarity in the form of comments or actions and very severe requests of punishment, Only lacks imitate the ancient romans and turn the thumb down for these alleged wrongdoers to be charged.                                                                                                                                This uneducated society, insensitivity, exalting what is no value and despising what if they have. Surrounded by sophisticated tools but with an aggressive behavior, despot, violent, disrespectful, who happily signs up for free lynching to satiate the insctintive side.It doesn´t matter if the substance of the question is true or not, what it counts is cornering, dissolve, dilute, driven by desires that will not bring satisfaction finally, because they are encouraged in hatred, lies, revenge, and are doomed to failure.

THE DESIRE TO TRAIN OF THE HUMAN RACE

If we have all something in common without exception is the desire to train others to our liking. From our particular self centered view, considering the very low level of knowledge with respect to an unknown immensity, we are convinved that our arguments, ideas, code of values, way to proceed, targets, are the right ones, when realty persistently insists by denying a whole cluster of postulates observing the behavior and the many deficits evidenced in so many people. The politicians are the champions of desqualifications, treating opponents as if they never do anything good and instead they are always right and the whole surpasses the great excellences. This procedure is not exclusive, constantly we want that others be our puppets to say and do what we want. And this happen between men and women, in couples, parents and sons, friends, in the labor field. We want to mold others to our taste and convenience when we are not able to transform our vices, to show respect, and express good manners. And all of it points to social failure having a very reduced consciousness that thinks it knows, understand, see clear, when really the ignorance is who makes us adopt these position. There is a very great distortion between what we believe we are convinced and what really is due to the egocentric approach hypersensitive to what comes close and insensitive to proism, and so is impossible to arrive to an understanding, a decent treatment and peaceful coexisistence. The proof is that there are always conflicts, and always for petty interests  that are the origin and the battle of the oppressed towards the oppressors who pursue miserable goals, and this will be if there is no deep awakening of consciousness that make come us out of lethargy that keep us stuck.

EFFROTS TO WIN OR LOSE

The effort is to obtain a profit. One off issues, or the other short or long terms issues. Physical and mental efforts are the prominent ones, and in between the emotional part it must balance both from the idea to realization. Desire is the pusher that must see clearly for correct discernment that allow us to see pros and cons and possibles outcomes.                                                                                                                           No doubt the efforts seek some kind of gain, of resolution, improvement compared to precedents. There are efforts to expand the existing one, to maintain or to fix what does not work correctly. Between the investment of time, resources and action, we have to determine if it is worth it .All the dynamized and the result. Investments focused on personnel and others extended outside to social aspects.                               Losses and gains are shared from everything we achieve.Tipping the scales will depend on preparation, skills, agility when fitting various components. Efforts they must be done thinking about introducing quality. From the most trivial to the most relevant, making a difference is what brings profit. No one wants miseries, everyone longs for well being, satisfactory conditions, but this requires effort and we must know how to do it to obtain that we want.                                                                                                                 To get out of a difficult context due to shortcomings, due to lack of preparation, surrounded by adversities often it is not possible to get rid of an environment and cifrcumstances even with effort unable to straighten out the various fronts that require deep transformation. Efforts to traansitory gains and efforts for perennial gains. The external, material, mundane, serves for a season, a few years, and sooner or later it gets diluted. If we set a constant long term plan of specific studies connecting with our subtle side, expanding consciousness to understand andf capture beyond the visible and superficial we will increase understanding, we will be able to understand each other more deeply. Intangible goods that can expand without limits if the consecration is constant and they will always accompany us. If only we live for work, to cover the elementary, if the efforts they do not result in any improvement that is preserved, in the end the efforts will have been due. The one dedicated to the transitory subject to change, we can´t hold it back. Only we will get persistent solid gains when actions and intentions revolve around fulfilling the spiritual precepts to their fullest extent.

WHAT WE EXPRESS NOW

What we express now is the reflection of previous experiences and how they affect in us. We go from ignorance to knowledge, from the unknown to the know, the question is if we know how to take advantage of the opportunities to expand potential giving us more possibilities to proceed more effectively in everything we face. What we show now is the same as decades ago ? The deficits, unconsciousness, immaturity, are they still part of our behavior ?                                                                                                The function of time is provide us cumulative experiences to contrast what we thought, felt and did in one time and its result, and observe if now if we follow exactly the same or we have taken advantage of the diversity of situations and relations to proceed with more harmony.                                                               We must ask several questions to find out if we are on the right track : am I doing what I´m supposed to do ? with what I have done today, am I improving in part or globally ? can I do much more than I do ? with the current objectives, capacity of understanding and personal characteristics, Am I heading towards an improvement with respect to more or less recent or distant past ?  Am I as critical of myself as of others ?  Unfortunately what is expressed now in a large percentage is the same as decades or centuries ago. There is not more knowledge no more breadth of views, no more understanding, no more empathy, no more sensitivity. And this happens on a personal basis and in the singularity of the countries. There is an DNA identifier that marks us and conditions us to keep repeating schemes and patterns of behavior, amd if these are inappropiate and harmful they end up affecting the sender and receiver.                                                  We have incoporated utensils, new styles, the present possibilities there is not to see with the past, and instead, neither the countries nor much people don´t follow this exemple because every new now is the same as always. If what is expressed now is the same as an eternity ago, we are not making progress, and when the stagnation it is prolonged ends in decadence.

INDIFFERENCE AND COLDNESS DO NOT GENERATE QUALITY

Indifference and coldness is the opposite to enthusiasm and warmth. When something doesn´t attract, doesn´t like or doesn´t arouse any interest, A distance stance is adopted because it does not impregnate neither sensitivity nor personal tastes nor is it part of the particular values.                                                   The indifference and coldness can occur from us toward external factors, or from other people towards us. The lack of connection generates distance, and hence indifference.                                                               Not giving importance to words, actions, opinions, events, being on the sidelines because the manifested  does not vibrate with our characteristics. Not getting involved, adopting a neutral stance, a middle ground  that can sometines be useful and convenient and on other occasions perhaps not depending on what is involved and the subsequent trascendence.                                                                                                      Activities, relevant topics in a past, meaningful relationships, are often modified over time due to a change in the interests that attracted before but not now, and the perspective is gradually adopted according to the expansion of knowledge and consciousness.                                                                                                   From attraction to indifference, from assiduity to no contact, tell us that the external is subject to variations, and for mantain ties, occupations that last over time, a solid base is needed to lean on continously project itself with new nutrients that are responsible for preserving the foundation.                   Distance in relationships where previously there was a confluence that has been fading away it is due to paths that lead us astray due to different concerns and singular characteristics that make it difficult keep the same difficulty.                                                                                                                                           What or who are we indifferent and why ? The answer it would indicate a good part of our idyosincrasy and where we direct what is considered important. Indifference and coldness does not generate quality because a distant position is adopted and of little value at the bottom of what is being discussed. The excellence in the current and past executed works are the product of developed talent with discipline and love for what is done, with an eagerness to overcome that implicity brings enthusiasm. If there is no enthusiasm, indifference arises, and this achieves neither improvement nor satisfaction, and consequently there is no quality.                                                                                                                                            In our lifes to generate quality enthusiasm is required  in addition to preparation and resources, and what is certain is that with indifference and coldness is unworkable.