COHERENCE

Nothing happens without a reason behind it hold. Everything has an origin that has just been behaving a result.
We are continuosly subject to the law of cause and effect, which tell us that there is a logical reason visible or not, consciously or not, in the events that occur.
The word random is used as justification for what we don´t know decrypt with security, certainty or conviction. In reality every thing is conceived and ordered with a perfect coherence.
We as humans, nurtured from natue, and what we have to do is what it show : know how to put seeds in the appropriate field, provide them with the contribution of the four elements and bear fruits. - What this mean in the day to day ? Having some basic resources, investing properly, and access to some purposes that we nurture.
Coherence derives from cohaerere, which means " be united " and in practical terms means that thought and action have to be united, or be an harmonic fit between the idea and the execution, between what is said and done.
What happens when there is a dissonance between what is said and what is done ? An internal misalignment manifesting on the outside, product of an imbalance.
There has to be synchronicity between thought and action, otherwise chaos ensues. You can also have an " apparent consistency " in criminal acts or breaking harmony, where the results will indicate the existence of a dark, causing losses, damage or negativy.
Why are there so many chaotic episodes ? By a disconnection that deprives us of see with clarity the difference between what is right and what is wrong.
The incoherence is lack of harmony, a disunity between the idea and the execution by an egoical interference or by a manifest inability.
Moved pushed by the emotionally, depending on what sort of wishes, by the immaturity, and don´t know how to face challenges, end assiduosly in erroneous approaches product of the incoherence.
The coherence requires see clearly, know what we want and what consequences can be triggered adjusting the initial abstraction and final appearance.
What is coherent will lead us to the harmonic, and that is incoherent will behave frictions and undocking in various senses.

HEAT - COOL

That relations will harm or cold depends on the willingness to adopt. There are so many types of relationship as of quantity, some close by links, other by affinity of ideas, friends, coworkers, mates, etc.
The assiduosness is not synonymous with anything specific, the treatment depends on several variants, and achieve fluidity, understanding and cordiality, it´s a question of couplings.
What generates warmth ? The way in which we see the other, the nexus of union, the received through different expressive forms. Add a plus to show us more nearby, thoughtful, caring, a feeling of wellbeing in the interaction.
What generates coldness ? Opposing ways of seeing things making it impossible to reach agreements, indifference, inability to feel affection for the other, mental focusing taking distance.
We can not be warm with all nor cold with all, it is a natural selection that occurs unintentionally. If treats to tune and awakening an attraction. If this is not manifested the warm can not emerge.
The coldness is just the opposite, the lack of essential affinity is not present, creating a distance that is evident in the behavior.
It is not necessary to do the same activities nor pursue similar goals to showing closers, is a question of observing the singularities of another, generate empathy and let flow the feeling to be able to connect more with the essence of what is each one.
Instead of thinking in ourselves, in our own interests, in what we can win, if we are more concerned to listen, to help and to serve, we will build stronger foundations where relations will be from deficits to qualitative.
After all when prevail the coldness we feel uncomfortable, because it is the warmth that vivifies, which stimulates. Establish connections, adjust various components is that allows to work the machines, and in the relationships is exactly the same. If we establish a closer treatment, if focused both parties, there will be functioning. If the opposite, like the machines, the links do not work by separativeness with the vacuum that this causes.

SEARCHERS

What pushes us to search ? The lack. In what we do not have lies the key to our function. To advance and make progress, we need some resources in the form of knowledge, money or some type of material possession.
We are going to the search for primary goods and also to intangible assets. The first have to nourish the body, the second the spiritual part. Our desire is to want the best, what happens is that we don´t know attract it due to ignorance and unconsciousness, that make us act so clumsy.
We desire many things : health, money, love, wisdom, satisfying relationships, overall quality, various pleasures. Come into contact with these aspects require appropriate guidelines, and in addition has to be taken into account the individual karma that can facilitate or impede certain areas.
Satisfaction in what we do, as experienced, this is the objective to pursue. The question is : what and how focused on the external, in transitional matters, depending on third parties, only is possible to obtain a temporary enjoyment, in a constant dynamic of insets and offsets of short duration.
Most of the things that we want to achieve are ephemeral. Fill briefly and we have to start from zero again and again with the sensation that the " yearning joy " goes and come always sporadically.
With a materialistic formation and strictly wordly goals, the possible satisfaction always be partial and oscillate, because the focus is outside in a context of dependency.
If on the contrary we have a spiritual training and the purpose is transform us from inside to improve our behavior every day, the satisfaction will increase when replace the obstructive manners for the new ones with more fluidity. An unattainable task,  infinite, and wihout knowing where are we going, but stating the welfare in ourselves through successive changes, this is the research with more sense and profit derived from the action.
Tune us with eternal values in the temporal, this should be the main purpose, otherwise we are wandering around in experiences of small fractions that pass to increase the memory, but that does not behave a benefit of growth as self.
Accumulate internal treasure continously for that everyday life is lived with intensity and the satisfaction will be permanent and not at times.

WHAT LINKS WE WANT ?

Whatever our position, the links are inevitable and indispensable. At birth we have the greatest dependence in all senses, therefore we need someone to take care of us, and the first link is with the parents.
As we grow and we are more autonomous, widening contacts, from the strictly familiar at the beginning, we pass to establish social bonds. Is going to go from unconsciousness to consciousness, and from ignorance to knowledge.
In one way or another we have to make connections, the acquired is thanks to exchanges, where the needs and shortcomings push to relate to search for resources. From the essential to survival have to establish basic links that allow the continuity of the day to day. Then there is the secondary that is optional, and here is  where the free will of each one can choose to or who wants to be linked with the consequences it entails.
We are all inexorably conditioned on what is essential for the physical maintenance, but on the rest we can choose.
First, we should be clear if what we want bind us is necessary, if is useful, if limits or frees us, if facilitate a better version of us or restricts the potential.
The " illusions " the " fantasies " can be very nice in the imagination, but embodied or densified in the reality can be very heavy. Before venturing in certain commitments we must observe pros and cons, contrasting with our character to know if it fits or not, if it adjust with us.
Dive in a new context may be relatively easy. the difficult may be it will be out once immersed; therefore you have to be prudent and not be too hasty by supposed rewarding desires that can become unpleasant.
It is clear that if was convenient to experience it for a learning it had to happen. Then we must extract the grain from the straw, seek new horizons, and proceed wit more care and precision in futures similars situations.
Bind to the earth is required, bind to heaven is voluntary in our decisions and behavior. The earthly matters are transient, the heavenly are eternal. If we want perpetuate us we must do it with spiritual precepts in everything we do : love, kindness, joy, justice and truth. Only what links to heaven gives us peace, serenity and satisfaction. These are the links that we have to pursue every moment to live the true life.

THE DIFFICULTIES OF CHANGE ( II )

The duality entails fluctuations, and the movement implies change. Nothing remains static externally, subjected to oscillating rhythms, and the task is to apply a eternal precepts in the transitory.
The archetypical patterns of behavior are unalterable to have some permanent references, and we must apply them in a context of constant variables. If everything were always statics, there would be no evolution, in the change is where lies the progress to embrace new possibilities.
To physical and spiritual level, the norm is go through different stages, where each is preparatory to the next. Once peaks in one area, we must move to new phases which lead to another forms and expressions.
Profit the time is extract precisely a profit, and so ask a mental and physical activity. From the idea to the action we go forging the day to day, where the outcome will indicate if the efforts are helpful. Increase the potential must be the goal, and if is not so, then means that there are not changes, and for this reason stagnation.
Where is the vital incentive ? In doing better the things that execute, and do it different is change rudimentary manners or little developed by other more sophisticated, consistent and more rewarding.
What sense has do it everything equal without and never change anything ? What enjoyment can experience seeing everything the same way without giving options to different alternatives to widen the consciousness and allow the acces to new variants ?
We must find balance between the valuable to retain and what is appropriate to transform. There are elements that disappear and others remain, and we must distinguish between what is useful to preserve and the expendable to give entrance to new trends with their contributions.
There is always a basis to preserve, a few foundations where support us, and later to build the own life and  environment. Though and action have to be assembled, tune up to extract the optimal performance of the different purposes, and as we seek the ideal fit, the way itself was forming changes that serving to go to higher levels. The aim of change is precisely this.

THE DIFFICULTIES OF THE CHANGE ( I )

Multiples are the causes of why we can´t change. Either a lack of deep self-knowledge, without observing to fund what we say or what we do with the consequences derived. Be convinced to be correct in the various expressions and manifestations, and therefore you don´t need to modify anything. Not wanting to lose privileges or advantages, although this is often at the expense of other clutching to charges or positions for a certain benefits.
Also is the slope indulgent where we let ourselves go in vices or harmful activities, apologizing assiduously with the famous " can not be perfect " as if this was already acquit and give the approval to continue satisfying with a maleficent pleasures so finally report.
Avoid efforts, preferring the perennal mediocrity before the quality and the satisfaction of what has been achieved with tenacity.
Conform to survive rather than trying to live, with no aspirations to overcome, doing the day to day a boredom that only leads to the physical maintenance without direction or goals.
Humans with the exception of a minority, are accustomed to do what is indispensable, and once achieved, waste the time and resources in futilities. The absence of yearnings to go beyond of a constant routine limite them to a reduced plot.
The defects, impurities, the incorrect forms, repeat ad infinitum, but this seems to matter little taking into account the passivity and minimizig that is being done in the apparent deadlock. Do not consider as negative harmful acts, is the greatest impediment to transform us, maintaning inadequate patterns from childhood to old age. The perpetuation of doing everything always equal is what takes forever individual conflicts, projecting it in the collective issues that remain perennial for decades or centuries.
We are here to learn and amend everything we have to be polished. If we do not correct, is like suspending the exam continously. A lot of people doesn´t seem to bother, from here the low yield and the difficulties in establishing qualitative interactions.
The dissatisfaction prevailing in a reflection of not knowing how to change in us schemes and obstructive procedures by those who provide possibilities that generate internal and external harmony.

DANGERS

The concept of danger is a warning that if we don´t act with caution we can suffer physical consequences or other characteristics according to the case. Of course we don´t want to take bad, or undergo distressing situations, and change many of the approaches and actions, behaving just discomfort, risks and losses in more than one sense.
The danger is not only limited to body, to pass deprivation, to deal with various crises. Is also the danger of wasting life uselessly, where sure that most would not catalog so because the focus purely of subsistence we are immersed in a majority.
We do more or less the truth is that we make always little, because the attention is diverted in activities or entertainment that not widen horizons nor provide relating to improve potential conditions by he need for resources, the narrow margin of maneuver usually lose in futilities. The danger therefore is to have time, which are opportunities, and do not use it constructively.
Study, work, have money, they are only instruments intermediaries to learn how to establish connections with the environment in different levels to carry out an evolutionary purpose. If we only stayed in the middle, not going to fund, and by opportunities that present do not know how see or give the accurate treatment facilitating new developments.
The danger of being limited, to stay in the surface, are obstacles that impede progress individually and collectively. We are surrounded by various dangers, before in line with the prevailing style of the time, now by the planetary imbalances resulting from disastrous procedures where the alleged benefit only can lead to curse.
The biggest danger is the same humanity if prevail the ignorant and selfish ways, having to raise awareness of what we want and where can bring it. We live in comunity, and so we have to focus the projects if wish create a prosperous environment, just and harmonious, where all are responsible for small and big actions. Depends on us generate more security, reducing the danger with the increase of awareness and taking altruistic positions.

PRIMARY VERSUS CIVILIZED

Human behavior can be lean in two directions : primary or civilized. The primary as it´s name indicates are those manifestations rudimentary that requiring a treatment for polishing various forms of expression. The civilized is the opposite, are the ways refined resulting from education, the consciousness and the dignified treatment of the personal and collective looking for harmony.
The primary forms are instinctive, the civilized are rational. Who is primary thinks in a small, in the most immediately, in reduced capacity. Pushed by their selfish desires, it is unable to see the consequences of certain approaches lacking in logic and wisdom, triggering adverse events for the own executor and the receiver,
All the conflicts to small and large scale, are the result of not knowing fit subject and object, being made available to all kind of situations. The inability to see with clarity makes it impossible to see the consequences that can be triggered through words or actions, and so convinced of being in the right when in reality shows the opposite, in how it generates the chaos and the various shortcomings in many areas.
Who is mostly primary is easy to distinguish as shown by, it focuses on their interests, does not take into account the other, impose even for the force, threatening. Values relating to him, and what don´t like it despises. Accustomed to treat so unworthy and humiliating when don´t think or say nor does as he wants, because its opinion and manners are those that have to prevail.
Authoritarian people without appreciating those who are different nor for themselves, because all the venom that spewed a part of dirtying the environment, dirty himself.
The civilized in change, with a level of consciousness more wide and more reflective, using logic, thinking of the good of the whole, what facilitates collaboration between different auditors because what is important is the final harmonious result.
The primary sooner or later leads to failure, to deterioration, loss, because the ignorant ways lead inevitably to dire consequences. If we want the good operation will be the norm in any context, we must transmute the instinctive expressions by the discernment, what separates by what unites, the brutality by the delicacy.

LOST ATTRACTION

Activities, amusement or relations, are tracks that can awaken interest in us. The component of enjoyment is essential to feel attracted to one another. Without a motivating factor the attraction is not possible.
The novelty, the topic, the charm that it can cause can approach to experiences and people. And the good sensations of a moment don´t guarantee the continuity, neither in the same nor with the involved.
The principle is like the seed that contains the potential to develop. To measure the initial acquires form, according to the contribution, the sensations and tuning, the interest will be maintained or will fade by the movements produced during the journey and its impact.
The enthusiasm, the taste of the beginning, lies in the print and what we believe will come next. But these are just samples of a totality, and when that does not conform to our character is greater than the confluences, the attraction hardly will prevail.
The base of what attracts us can be consistent, and preserve it will depend on various factors. Introducing new manners for not stagnate, because the monotony diminishes the incentive. Widen the perspective experiencing alternative routes, similar things with differences.
The attractive of one time, by age, by taste, ceases to be when we rattled with other topics. And exactly the same in the relations, friends or couple, prominent and related, little by little or suddenly no longer tuned, because each one made his way, and if it differs, the distance is inevitable.
Extend the attraction indefinitely requires regenrative and life giving elements. The sun and the nature never get tired of looking at, because in spite of look alike, is the vitality and what they provide that preserves the appreciation.
And this exemple serves to imitate in our actions and relations. Give light and heat, and be suppliers of goods in large doses to participate in the abundance and nutrition.
When the activities lose warmth and enthusiasm diminishes, automatically the proximity turns in distance. When the relationships lose the charm we had sense and establish the coldness and indifference, the attraction is over.
Many attractions losing in the way replacing them with other. What is important is always having bonfires lit that make us  vibrate and express the best of each one.

THE WHAT, BUT NOT THE WHY

The prevailing trend in us is to go talking about of what but not the why. We look at what surrounds us seeing the surface without going into the background, and with limited knowledge, only gaining access to fragments, we perform all kinds of comments and draw conclusons convinced of being successful when there is much more ignored than the known.
We are accustomed to give turns and turns to the same topics without extract the necessary clarity to replace the harmful by the benefic, unable to access to why of what has been discussed, what fills of fruitless discussions that lead nowhere.
It is very easy to talk about this or that, to this or the other, to criticize without remorse, make judgments without knowing the involved or know the triggers for what we judge. We opine about fractions separating the set, and in this way the error in the verdict is usual by the global unconsciousness.
Worried about what affects directly, the approaches for what we say and do, revolve around our own interests. From this small microcosm, with a egocentric approach, to stand in a place of other people with different cultures, needs, in moods to do, it is almost impossible for the most.
What I do, what I say, what I give, what I receive as objectives, without deepening in the impulse which leads us to these manifestations. The starting point and destination should be present and clear in our claims to know if the desired is appropriate os dispensable, if we insist in certain matters or avoid them.
Opining about facts, assumptions, from our perspective, we´ll never extract clarifying conclusions.
If we don´t know why the what don´t provide the solution, and the tendency is to focus on the what without find out the why, hence the obstruction and the difficulty to resolve several questions by the inability to arrive to the core.
Once discovered why, we continually seek the harmony, and the why of what of each situation report the best possible context.