HURTFUL ACTS ARE NOT ERASED

Nothing is casual, everything has a reason, and although we do not see the motive of the experienced, it obeys some purpose that we may or not discover. Every cause will have its effect, and the trigger can backfire on us to a recent or remote past about certain behaviors. Hurtful words, dishonest actions, swindlers, aggressions, mistreats, they are for reflection and show us the ideal forms to proceed instead of discomfort with well being.                                                                                                                              Even if we see that they are signs, warnings, messages of learning, the imprint generated in us will remain impregnated in the more deep as indelible stains. The words are not carried away by the wind, they are remembered, they are perpetuated. The intensity of the wound due to incorrect behaviors can be minimized, but the memory is mantained and the loss of quality, trust and closeness that we had is fading away. We must think very well what we want to say or what we want to do for the later consequences. Everything counts, and once it has been externalized there is no going back and it is recorded with the impact it has left.                                                                                                                                               The egoistic and insensitive forms are the origin of all indecisiveness coming from actions or words. When someone must ask for forgiveness it is the recognition of an error, and the best thing is to try not to have to get here. We say we forgive the offender, but the fact leaves a lasting memory and it remains as a stain on the file and a deterioration in the relationship according to the magnitude of the fact and the result. Disappointments accumulate over the years, when it is not one´s are others, When they are not close relations, others are, and in the end, the intensity and the enjoyment is losing in the way.