THE TWO SIDES OF CRITICISM ( III )

Can we prove that the criticism iis better of what is said or done ? The desire of perfection must always be present, never we settle on the level where we are, because we don´t know the possibilities that we can reach and awareness.

The humans, with often clumsy behavior and ignorant, we dare to censure a lot of factors when ourselves make huge mistakes.

The criticism seems to say this is  good and this not, as if the critic have the absolut truth, where often the expressed don´t leave to be one of several egoical expressions.

Why we fall ? Why we mistake ? To be disconnected to the light. The darkness brings near chaos, the light brings near order. The most heavy however, is that many part of critics, often are near the darkness instead the light, and so their opinions are doubtful and not credible.

When everything is alright there is not criticism. And how can we know that everything is alright ? Observing its effect on the parties and in all.

What is the difference between an observation or a critic ? The observation would be like a warning, some times of prevention as they had reached the facts or not yet. The criticism is about facts which are considered to have commited an error.

What is the difference between censorship and criticism ? The criticism is usually by discrepancies at the bottom and form without claiming that the autor do what we want. Censorship, apart from not liking the content, want remove it, cutting or manipulating, and remains like a dress tailored to the tastes of censorship.

With the prevailing inconsistency around us, there are plenty of criticism factors, and is so because we only can offer that we have, and if the quality is tiny will be shown in the statement.

Innately the desire is to establish the appropriate at all times, for this reason there are laws, regulations and fines in search of the right.We need to fix the attention steadily to predict the consequences in us and others with words and actions, because here is the key to everything to lean the balance in one sense or another.

THE TWO SIDES OF CRITICISM ( II )

Who criticizes thinks that something is not right, is not correct or is disagree. The question is, considering our individual gaps, the prevalence ot the unknown over the known, can we be sure that the critical is not alright ? Based on what parameters ?

Ctiticism is to look at the imperfections, however the critic knows the perfection that which aims ?

See things badly done or they are not for us, is the oportunity to strenghten certain ideas and attitudes. We must be open to hearing who criticizes us contrasting with our criteria to know if are right and if the comments are true, learning and do it better in future attempts.

For every praise there are infinity of criticism, either the human nature, or because abound much more blunders and the mediocrity than genius.

People with many defects, where their conduct is not precisely exemplary, criticizes a lot, and this lack of equitable manifest folly of its position.

We do better what criticize  if we are not specialists ? Anyone dares to say their opinion, and the truth is that the quality in what we say or do, usually is quite low.

The error or alleged error is not casual. Each event  it seems logical or not, has a purpose, and we must see the outcome to extract conclusions.

Before to release verdicts we must ask ourselves - Is really important that we criticize ?  Influence negatively or is only a reject ?

If they are so much criticism facts is the ascertainment of level of individual and collective development. To more selfishness more ignorance, and to more ignorance more danger of making erroneous actions.

Move from chaos to order, from unconsciousness to conscience, to safeguard the personal interests exclusively to do it for the common good, we will overcome the darkness, entering the light that guides to behave at all times and in each area with the indispensable harmony and there won´t criticism, because the correction will be present all time.

THE TWO SIDES OF CRITICISM ( I )

Thera are two sides of criticism : with the goal to improve, or by one disagreement that brings to glisten shortcomings, inaccuracies, or by the contrast of desires and contrary ideals..

Criticism to an end uplifting should be done through expeience and careful discernment, with the purpose to correct actions replacing them by others more optimal. This happens mainly from parents to children or teachers to students, where the best preparation allow indicate more appropriate guidelines for a later profit.

Then there is the criticism according to their own points of view. If someone makes a gesture which does not fit with our singularity, is rejected with words that can be more or less hards.

The criticism involves judge of an attitude, facts, and in each case, must see the impact to check if the person who criticizes it does with foundation, or simply but not fit to personal code of values.

On what basis is criticized ? To an ideal of purity, harmony ? Who criticizes is perfect ? If the critizer is not enough correct, has no right that others do what he is unable to accomplish. We must be consistent, fair and equitable.

Before this, considering several inaccuracies that we show together, nobody should criticize. Besides, the purpose of our existence is able to see the function exerted by successive people that intersect along the way to learn what behavior we adopt in every area. Offen see things as provocation, rudeness or similar, is where must decrypt the message to a higher level of understanding. We are all intermediaries, and behind that we see " reproachable " a potential information is hiding to understand what happens and advance evolutionarily.

Everyone wants the correct, but according to the degree of consciousness and cultural influence, everyone will interpret in their own way, thus can be criticized the considered incorrect when in reality can be correct.

The egocentric approach, makes see the things according to our own desires, criticizing by interest, by acts or words, and disliked, showing in several occasions a children postures.

Show disagreement continuosly by the most insignificant, is the ascertainment of the prevailing low level, where all we get is tension without solving anything.

The criticism must be to improve, to advance, expand horizons; otherwise is useless, and in this case is better the silence.

THE APPROPRIATE

Whatever happens is always the appropriate. What we experience now is just the precise according the conducted previously and the framework caused. Nothing is casual, everything is part of a successive link of events, among the originated by us, and the lived through contribution of other.

The evolution of each individual placing us in the optimal place to follow the task of development. Relationships play the main role to extract the potential. The different contacts established teach us guidelines, ones to follow, others to avoid, and those difficult people for us by their expression, contain a vast information with the purpose to learn certain things for our progress.

There is nothing that clash to the whole vital process happened until the moment. The opening of consciousness will show what we take advantage of to enter general improvements, and if we stuck at various levels, is the signal that not having understood  the role of events nor specific relations.

If we make changes the situations will present according to achieved new levels. To more positivism, thinking, feeling and acting, more harmonic possibilities.

Conflicts are the warning that we must correct things, and if they maintained show that we don´t see the background that causes to solve it. Are messages to decrypt, but if we don´t know unclog them,  we can not leave from the sterile inertia.

Complain, criticize, is to see only one part. The facts as occurring are as it should be according the previous, but we have the free to choose towards where decanting the present context. Whatever we decide will be the appropriate, because the cause brings the effect. If was necessary stumble many times to modify the behavior, the fact to err will have been appropriate by the back triggering.

Live is be in process, ones have more way done and they are more matures in terms of attitude and understanding, others go more slow and needs more time, being all in the appropriate context to lace actions and consequences.

If we want being surrounded by good conditions, we must express the appropriate in order to attract it.

RELATIONS IN THREE TIMES

Relationships are as varied as different at not be anyone alike. The thinking, assess individual interests, the character and a set of external influence, creates a microcosm in each one, and being self centered we are convinced that our arguments and manners are optimal.

If there is something really complicated is to know interact with others ensuring the best possible understanding. The approach of what we want, the consideration towards people involved directly or indirectly, should always be clear for the words and movements to generate the maximum concordia. If is not so is due to focus disproportionately in the own satisfaction, and from there start all kinds of conflict.

There are people who tune with us and others no, it´s a question of affinity, and within the affinity there are also differences in ideas, in the tastes or proceed. The relations don´t maintain a straight line, there are oscillations because the same members modify criteria, trends change and the evolutionary process is different for everyone.

The claim of any relationship is the harmony, either sporadic or assiduous, harmony for meaningful exchanges, profit and purpose in more or less measure. For this is a confluence is primary, one nexus that approach the both parties where everyone provides part of its resources, be money, knowledge or others.

In the different interactions established there will be links with who feel  comfortable,  where understanding will be effortless. Others, by difference of interests, character, training, will cause tension. And the third group that we will neither cold nor hot, where we don´t feel closed nor distant, simply by not having connection points to facilitate some kind of exchange.

In the same relation, depending on the season or time, we can experience with harmony in occasions, with tension in others and also with indifference.

The different changes in each one over time, discrepancies, the manner of feel it, determined the proximity or distance.

The tension is the result of divergences and the indifference an emotional absence. If we want preserve links, regaardless of personal transformation, we must observe the virtues of others, and so the harmony can be created by a constructive vision imbued with a sense

RESPONSIBILITY AND CONSIDERATION

We must act at all times with responsibility and consideration towards others, close or distant people and the surrounding environment if we want create optimal conditions of coexistence.

We must be responsible about what we say and do bearing the consequences, because this is the manner to reflect before to express words or actions that can trigger then.

Responsibility like a sign of maturity, be able in the conducted movements. Consideration ensuring not only by their own interests, consideration toward others by the influence of our decisions. This creates responsibility, the acts themselves in the personal incidence and outer.

Unfortunately too many people are considered thinking only in its individual plot of several interests, thoughtless the needs and the careful treatment to be dispensed to everyone.

Driven by a desire for quick satisfaction, without perspective about what can lead some actions, the persecution of certain sensations end up being more harmful that charities by lack of responsibility, and that they believed consideration is actually a disregard by don´t see the outcome later.

What complain often many people ? Lack of responsibilty and consideration through service of  low quality, and what happens at a professional level is a personal reflection.

When people don´t excuse of repetitive errors, late arrival rule for exemple, don´t finish works at time, pay bills later of their expiration, return things left after months, are clear signs of  not responsibility and desconsideration,  which can be acceptable in the chilhood by lack of training, but it can not be at adulthood.

The degree of civilization ascertains by the overall volume of responsibility and consideration of the citizens in the research of harmony in the expressed respect us and others. The different dissonances of the environment indicate a deficit of responsibility and consideration in some party or in the totally of the executed.

Until don´t appreciate the environment and others with the same measure that we do with us, the lack of responsibility and consideration will prevail with discomfort, jams and fatigue that entails.

SHORT GAINS, LONG LOSSES

What does mean short gains long losses ? Think of a quick profit without look the ways to proceed or foresee the consequences which can trigger.

The materialist focus is reductionist, limited, unable to see the impact of several interconnected factors.

The desire for immediate profits or in a short period, can not last, because all that is solid and endures in time requires a long process.

If commited actions, although reporting earnings initially, if not fit harmony of the universal laws, sooner or later there will be a price to pay certainly much higher than the initial benefits.

All mismatches that we see are the expression of clumsily, ignorance, thoughts, feelings or actions poorly focused, erroneous claims thinking in egotistical terms, and then disconnections occur with diversity of problems.

The short gains acquired with shenanigans and bad manners, in time ends with lengthy losses. Either in disease, conflicting relations or even in jail.

You can earn money and wealth, but if the methods are ignoble is a moral misery.

Wealthy but poor spiritually. an ignorant bet, because all that is from material order is a loan from the universe and never we can keep. The only really our is the spiritual development with the virtues that will increase by a dapper behavior in all areas.

Thinking only in oneself  it pays off. Live with a quality is not a question to have a lot of millions, the real wealth is that which is eternal, indestructible, that is always with us and no one can steal. Is what creates peace, concord, attention and consideration towards others offering the best version to share and establish warm ties.

The obtained with falsehoods, with abuse, excess or some kind of mistreatment to people, animals or nature, is a gain that end in loss.

It´s worth it a quick profit with an unstable base and with the latent danger of regrettable consequences for an unconscious self satisfaction ?

Is best seen in perspective and act to generate internal and external peace, and so training the patience pending of results.

CAUGHT BY ERRORS

Error means run an action in no correct manner. Not have made approppriate movements, not having pressed the code, the corresponding key; thus instead of accessing to desired produces a blockage.

What happens in the everyday life when explodes in conflicts of all kinds ? The words or actions have not been the best, and instead to solve or acquire the alleged, a stoppage occurs when we must insist again to undo the controversy.

When everything is right must not amend anything, but the slightest blunder forced to retreat and correct. Sometimes requires little time, and others quite. The question is : why commit errors ? By lack of knowledge, lack of attention, negligence, by excessive ambition; definitely a mismatch between subject and object.

All personal and collective problems, is by not thinking, feel or act according to each situation requires to establish an harmony. And how we know the appropriate manner ? Before mobilize desires in facts, see in perspective the possible consequences, see pros and cons, the impact on us and the environment, and with previous experience and results, decide the strategy to implement the benefit or at least not harmful.

How many people thinks the harm can cause the words or actions ? How many people before saying or do take into account the fair treatment towards those who can influence ?  How many people show respect by the nature, animals, human beings, objects ?

There are constant conflicts because the creators of them don´t know how to behave, don´t know treat with respect, with education, with consideration, and when instead of civilty prevails barbarism, only can rise tension, problems and jams.

Repeat the same positions for an intellect that not discerning with clarity,  by counterproductive feelings and clumsy actions, is remain trapped in error by a global ineptitude. And so is reflected daily, personally and in the relationships, in the disability to extend the conscience to replace outdated patterns harmfuls for those who frees us from suffering.

Break the vicious circle requires raise the evolutionary level to pass from the constant jams to the fluiidity.

LOOSE TALK

How many conversations are really inspiring ? From all is talking what percentage is useful ? What drives people to talk compulsively ? From what it says we learn,  motivates us to improve ourselves, or rather indifferent or boring ? The reality that surround us is a constant chatter useless, that does not bring knowledge by general rule neither serve for any practical application later. We transmit according our own capacity, to the personal interests, to some fixed ideas, and above a limited instruction to muddle through, focused on survival but not in transcending.

The lack of continuous nourishment without expand the perspective, repeating the same behaviors without asking how can improve, what we need change and how to access to higher levels of awareness is a limitation.

Very few people know that we have a certain number of words to pronounce in the life of everyone, and once pronounced is the final. Days go, months and years, unconscious of this existence of remaining words to the counter,  wasted time and opportunities in banalities.

Say the rules : if your words are no better than silence, it is better to say nothing.

How many people ignore this postulate ? Seems only dedicted to monks, yoguis or people with spiritual concerns.

The reality is that there is too much noise,  too much unsubstancial speeches, repetitive, in one sensation of comunication incommunicated. where neither approaches nor satisfy nor edifying.

Through words we are reflecting our potential, and the functioning of society it highlights. There is an immense communicative poverty, a great limitation in many conversations in what it says and how it says. Worried basically by mundane questions, targeted on prosaic topics with a high degree of ignorance, where everyone thinks they know a lot and can talk of everything despite not having idea.

For more resources to our disposal, this does not mean a quality in our interactions, because the quality depends of training, the type of ideals, of aims, and especially of the integrity that dowry thoughts and feelings of cleanliness in the background and form.

TRANSFER

Inside out, outside inside. We interact with the outside with the stored inside, and through experiences and relationships happened externally, we can increase internal resources.

We receive the nourishment physical and mental through others, of nature, with the aim to contribute to the society from the respective individuality.

First we receive and then give. First enter and then leaves, constantly striving appropriate terms for the normal development in the several fronts, needs and the alleged purposes.

We are all very dependents to establish connections with constant contributions ones toward others.

The get outside is to maintain or increase according to each case, either eliminate or transform, and after a process we revert back to the outside.

The learned in school through memory,  we must match in one activity, acquiring resources outside for the accumulated inside.

In a conversation the words leave from the inside and hearing outside. Our global experience is expressed with facts and words.

All saved in our inner have value when it express outer. Study for study or eat for eat, acquire sense when we pass on others with words or actions.

We nurture in one way to share after in a different form that results productive and useful for the giver and receiver.

We are assisting continuosly to situations of filling and empting, enter and exit, in a movement who adapt to the circumstances, needs or desires.

The time squandered in futile acts is not recoverable, however, the everyday  transfer maintain an unstable balance between loss or gain that depends from the harmony between give and receive.

The continue vital movement involves transfers from all types, having found the ideal  proportions in each case for a favorable changes.