Relationships are as varied as different at not be anyone alike. The thinking, assess individual interests, the character and a set of external influence, creates a microcosm in each one, and being self centered we are convinced that our arguments and manners are optimal.
If there is something really complicated is to know interact with others ensuring the best possible understanding. The approach of what we want, the consideration towards people involved directly or indirectly, should always be clear for the words and movements to generate the maximum concordia. If is not so is due to focus disproportionately in the own satisfaction, and from there start all kinds of conflict.
There are people who tune with us and others no, it´s a question of affinity, and within the affinity there are also differences in ideas, in the tastes or proceed. The relations don´t maintain a straight line, there are oscillations because the same members modify criteria, trends change and the evolutionary process is different for everyone.
The claim of any relationship is the harmony, either sporadic or assiduous, harmony for meaningful exchanges, profit and purpose in more or less measure. For this is a confluence is primary, one nexus that approach the both parties where everyone provides part of its resources, be money, knowledge or others.
In the different interactions established there will be links with who feel comfortable, where understanding will be effortless. Others, by difference of interests, character, training, will cause tension. And the third group that we will neither cold nor hot, where we don´t feel closed nor distant, simply by not having connection points to facilitate some kind of exchange.
In the same relation, depending on the season or time, we can experience with harmony in occasions, with tension in others and also with indifference.
The different changes in each one over time, discrepancies, the manner of feel it, determined the proximity or distance.
The tension is the result of divergences and the indifference an emotional absence. If we want preserve links, regaardless of personal transformation, we must observe the virtues of others, and so the harmony can be created by a constructive vision imbued with a sense
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