CONSTANT ENLARGEMENT OR BOREDOM

Why are there so many boring relatinoships ? Because we only can demand as much as they are able to each one, and the prevailing society it only focuses on the banal, on mundane issues, ant the instruction and it was done to get a job, that´s what we have to expect.                                                                           What do we find in close, regular relationships ? Constant repetitiveness circling the same topics in a kind of labyrinth with no exit. There is no renewal because interests and aspirations are what they are, mantaining this low level of communication that is repeated daily.                                                                 Same words, same themes, same arguments, in order not to contribute anything new or significant that allows us to get out of a deadlock where we can´t see it the end.                                                                    The majority prepares only to carry out a professional ocupation, being educated up to university at the most. ¿ and then until retirement or beyond where there are new nourishments ? Stagnation begins in youth, and the lack of expansion of knowledge it makes conversations repetitive, predictable, monotonous. In order not to get bored making it extendable to the rest we must be increasing the instruction continously, not strictly focused on the labor field if it requires it, if not in the personal self introspection that awakens our consciousness about our identity, pecualiarites and purpose.                                             If no internal desire emerges, the focus will be on the limiting material aspects, and this is what see in families, couples and friendships, where there can be a lot of contact but little substance, with unsatisfactory superficial exchanges.                                                                                                               Every day is different, every stage, every decade, and on the other hand, the majority remains stuck in minimal knowledge that diminishes by not expanding it. If we put together some sort views, strictly material aspirations, and selfish approach and aspirations, leads to boredom due to repetitiveness and inability to introduce more enriching variants.                                                                                                Whe usually find two sides with low preparation, primaries desires which irremediably lead to nefarious exchanges. To get out of tedious boredom is only possible by raising consciousness. With an incessant broadening of knowledge that facilitates getting out of the strait. With a potential for a continuous development, bring new expressions, risk the unknown, because in the end when we pass from ignorance to knowledge is  to enter the unknown to do so in the known

FEARS : ASUMPTION OR EVIDENCES

How is fear formed ? It is the feeling of not being able to master a situation where we see ourselves in a prsent threat or in a hypothetical future, Faced with events that endanger our physical integrity or exposed to material losses that makes us vulnerable.                                                                                                      There are real fears and imaginary fears. The real ones are tangible, where we need to take precautions. Imagination are based on observation of various possibilities where it is to see the development of the focus that originate the fear. Be diminished in some aspect and suffer, not being able to be or feel with the faculties intact due to illness or accidents that limits resources in one or more aspects.                                  The consciousness to know that we may lose or deteriorate valued values, it should make us cautious in general terms from according to what pretensions to the way of making movements.                                     It´s all a matter of words and actions that stem from thoughts, feelings and emotions, and if they are in balance we need not fears adverse results.                                                                                                        There are many tribulations everywhere of all kinds because of transgressions. Conflicts, losses, tensions, deficits, they are the effect of precedents where the necessary harmony has not been acted upon, and the sufferings that arise are the consequence of not foreseeing the outcome. The mistakes of the past threaten the future in a present fearful of devastating effects at a personal and or collective level.                             Everything that happens is just the right thing, and the challenge is to unravel the purpose of the tests, in order to move to a more favorable context as long as we are able to decipher why and apply integrative remedies.                                                                                                                                                          As the spiritual precepts indicate : " the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom ". This indicates that any deviation from a correct behavior is to continuosly fit the parts and the whole, may result in some damage, and not knowing what it can be, when and to what extent, it is what arouses fear. However, if we try to be fair and upright at every moment, there is no reason to be afraid, because any affliction is a previous maladjustment.

THE ETERNAL INEPTITUDE

From a young age the society prepare us so that each one acquires a training that allows a minimum of autonomy in a maximum of dependencies. From the family clan to individual singularity requires spending years of study to know to operate in the surrounding environment, and with this basis prepare for a trade as a means of exchange in order to obtain resources.                                                                                     Know what, how and why in the different areas where we are, it is essential for the purposes to lead to a favorable result. Discover our characteristics and circumstances, and know how fit into each context is the taask to face that requires extensive knowledge, patience, observe, archive the influence of experiences, and with multiple rehearsals try to model the appropriate tone according to the situation, person, goal or other peculiarities.                                                                                                                                            We all long for well being and harmony, and we must generate it in the continuous fit between us and the established links in the environment and with others. We must know how, and this assumes having previously acquired skills. The will moved by desire, must be guided by an equanimous thought, a vision in perspective where the affective emotional side also participates. If balance prevails on the three fronts mental, emotional and physical, then harmony is the result. If the create by our pretensions and way of proceeding leads to discomfort and discord, is the clear exponent of not seeing clearly, clouding of ideas, harmful emotions, and counterproductive actions.                                                                                          Perhaps we have professionals aptitudes, but is also it is essential to forge them with respect to health, dealing with others and correct discernment regarding what we do, what we want and the consequences that may be unleashed.                                                                                                                                     From immemorial time, misfortunes, atrocities, aberrant events happen every day, where the desired wealth and harmony it doesn´t even come close. And it we are not able to reverse it is because we are inept, and the causes they lie in selfish approaches and interests along with a lot of ignorance product of the unconsciousness deprived of seeing clearly.                                                                                             The current technological sophistication does not improve ancestral behavior. The machines facilitate the action outside, but what really matters can only be achieved by developing internal qualities, which means having a longing for spiritual life that is the provider of aptitudes, and until this desire emerges we will continue to be immersed in conflicts, disatisfaction and the inability to improve where we should focus.

ADMIRATION YES, IDOLIZATION NO

 To admire is to focus on the object that transmit a pleasant feeling through images sounds or words to which assign value. Idolization is focus on the subject who is skilled in some area and has the public approval that enjoys the shown.                                                                                                                       We are intermediaries, and the talents o abilities are acquired knowledge from others that have preceded us and each one individually imprints characteristics with a distinctive stamp in order to share with others contributing to the society.                                                                                                                               What do we admire in a work ? What touch us, make us vibrate according to our tastes and sensibilities. The admire for some it can be indifferent for others, even rejected. All quite subjective.                             We must not idolize anyone because individual peculiarities have been assigned to us with precise supervision so that through effort and externalization we establish useful connections for personal and collective benefit.                                                                                                                                             Despite the prevailing mediocrity we need quality, and when in the different areas someone stands out for what it offer, it´s that when admiration springs up. The artist is only a channel through with inspiration passes, a loan to execute a particular purpose in the constant chain of links.                                                 Valuable works endure in time and continue to be admired, while the authors have disappeared, indicating that the focus should  be on admiring the product, what it offers, what it conveys. The idol which is to elevate excessively because they know how to express certain skills beyond the prevailing term, he has only filtered what he has been able to capture, giving it shape in order to share it, thus fulfilling his task of social contribution.

TRAANSFERS OF GOODS AND KNOWLEDGE

Our resources consists in goods and knowledge which were first of other people and the passed to us through exchanges. At birth the only good we have is the phyisical body, and as times goes by we must equip ourselves with knowledge with the aim of obtaining goods.                                                                Shortcomings imply dependence, but this is the key to success. We are here for constant expressive improvement of everything manifested, and is precisely the own effort and the contribution of others in the maintenance and development.                                                                                                                   What used to be ignorance and now is knowledge has been a transfer. What we didn´t have and know we have is another transfer. It is not a question of accumulating for the sake of accumulating, but of increasing the quality of everything externalized in thinking, feelings and actions.                                       Talents and goods are for share. The best teacher without students can not perform their action, and the same in any other employment, offer services carrying out transactions with those interested in these services.                                                                                                                                                          When people say " have " or " mine " means that we have transitory loans and certain conditions for an end. Have or mine is to differentiate what is assigned to each one in the respective individual supervisions in the task to be performed.                                                                                                                                 Over the years we will access to the precise knowledge, and in each period the appropriate goods according to how the particular evolutionary process develops.                                                                     All that we can not held back is not our. The experiences and lived learning in first person no one can take it away from us. Of the constant exchanges of goods and knowledge, only remain the essential, the important to give meaning to the efforts, the relations and the processes, and we must be attentive to verify and savor it.

DETACHMENT AND SENSITIVITY

Detachment is observe and value from a mental point of view. Sensitivity is observe and value from an affective optics. They may seem distant positions, but it all depends on the background. so in detachment there is a component of sensitivity so as not to suffer emotionally, and the sensitivity needs  a detachment in order to see clearly.                                                                                                                                     Detachment serves to take distance between us and the environment according to relationships and circumstances when is not possible influence in the facts, and the more practical is to preserve the health and the welfare.                                                                                                                                                Sensitivity is a sign of empathy, feeling close, and requires the appropiate measure so as not to suffer needlessly. Detachment don´t have expectations that arise from the desires of the ego who wants customized results. He or she does not expect anything specific from others or from events, and the result or outcome leaves him or her indifferent.                                                                                                       Observing from a mental perspective allows to gain distance, and if we know to see in perspective it makes it easier to adopt the relevant posture by avoiding the triggers of emotional reactions.                      There will be situations where it is better to be detached and others sensitive. Balance is fundamental for us personally and in the external impact as we proceed. The danger is to be too distant or cold it can take away the warm in the contacts. Elucidating where, when and how to be detached or sentivive depends on the situation, If it affects directly or not the harmony between though and feeling, we will know what is the position to adopt.                                                                                                                                       Sensitiviy it supposes a connection with others, with the surrounding environment, and it indicates and assessment, of importance, because if it were the other way around it would not be revealed the sensitivity. Faced with so many dramatic episodes where it is not possible to intervene directly to modify the, detachment is practical sense. In a context of constant change pesonally and socially, with a narrow room for maneuver, we can´t get stuck on what we want and it isn´t, and this is valid both for detachment and sensitivity

LIFE LOST OR LIFE GAINED ( II )

 The survival instinct is innate and we know what we have to do to preserve it. The question is for what. We are all equal in the most essential and all are different, and from appearances we can not respond to the uniqueness of each one and how these differences has forged. We can not give an answer to why we were born in a specific country, a continent, in a specific family, in specific time. There are things that remain hidden, but they give way to the visible that accompanies us.                                                                       We only relate to a small number of people out of milions, the precise one to teach and learn reciprocally as long as we are able to take advantage of the messages sent and received to continue with the persistent process in all areas.                                                                                                                                          If we don´t go beyond the apparent watching only to keep ourselves, unaware of our idiosincrasy and the pesonal task to do, we can not widen horizons for years that pass, and stagnation will accompany us persistently. If we do not increase knowledge and instill a desire for refinement, we may subsist but not trascend.                                                                                                                                                            We do many things we should not do, and many things we should do. We want health, but habits and ignorance make it difficult to think in the appropiate way, where feelings and actions they end up leading to diseases.                                                                                                                                                        We want a life of quality, and the daily events goes in a diametrically opposite direction. We don´t take cause and effect into account, and the seeds planted will bear fruit accordingly.                                           We are capable of great potential as long as we raise ideals and consciousness. If we choose the instinctive patterns of overfeeding the ego as if it were the most precious disconnected from the spiritual precepts, we will be condemned to a permanent life of tribulation.                                                                                     Kidness, love, looking for the common good, the spirit of sacrifice thinking in others, to be fair, these are the goals we must seek  if we want to be surrounded by well being and harmony both internally and externally. The proof is that by deviating from these purposes we just generate the opposite which is observed on a daily basis with all kinds of problems and complications. Winning with life or losing with life depends on gthe attitude and everything behind it.

LIFE LOST OR LIFE GAINED ( I )

What are the concerns of the majority reduced to ? Ensure subsistence, have a home, family and feed yourself. These goals and objectives makes as follows and inertia where we do not question the value of the efforts and the fragility of focusing longings on the transitory, always changing and unstable where we do not know what guarantees of continuity there are. So the existence escapes to the will. We go from one phase to another : to be born, to grow, to reproduce, to weaken and to go away. where is the sense ? the goal ? True existence begins with the development of consciousness, and from here we learn to control actions and reactions by polishing expressions for a refinement that spreads on all fronts, from the way of thinking, in feeling and in action.                                                                                                                    Live to have or live to be, the key that will tilt towards loss or gain, The external that escapes us. or what we incorporate internally and persists.                                                                                                             From one stage to another, from one activity to another, without asking the objective of the efforts or according to which relationships, a forward movement trapped by a set of circumstances and the pursuit of proposals that we believe are appropiate or because there is no other remedy due to room for maneuver.    How many wonder why we are the way we are and not in another way ?  What role do specific relationships play ?Of everything that has been done, only the essence remains that serves as a basis to support the present and project the future. Live only to preserve the presence unconscious of our individual function, and the why of experiences and results, we don´t know decipher the reason or purpose of our life here and now. It is necessary to find out the reason for our particular characteristics and the context that has to do with us, because if it only counts nourishing the body and material affairs, never know if the execution brings a profit or not.                                                                                                    The battle between the primary and the secondary, is the dairy challenge that everyone from their position and possibilities must discover so that the sense, the meaning and the profit be behind the manifest.

THE 3 SPEECH CLASSES

Through the mouth in what enters with liquid and solid we must nourish the body, and what comes out as a product of thought and feeling must express the learned and conscientious for exchanges and the long individual evolutionary path.                                                                                                                           The best or the worst, goodness or badness, sensitivity or insensitivity, whatever comes out of the mouth it tell us the level we are at, which depends on multiple variants that make up our idiosyncrasy.                       In the 3 classes of speech the primary one is the necessary speech. Practical topics for good functioning, and inspiring words to broaden horizons.                                                                                                        The unnecessary talk it´s everything that serves no purpose or benefit like banal conversations or unproductive chatter.                                                                                                                                      In the third place there is bad speech. Slander, defamation, insidiuous comments, an arrogant language generating enviromental discomfort. Also the truth to hurt is harmful.                                                         People pronounces words often arising from the internal boiling over the interests without being aware of the derivation to which they can lead. There are some dangers such as : those who tend to speak badly can get into debt.                                                                                                                                                     Abusing the power of the speech is a transgression. Who speak with malicious goals, with falsehoods, misrepreesntations, deteriorates mentally.                                                                                                       Moral impoversihment can extend to more areas. The antidote is found performing acts of kindness such as selfless donations.                                                                                                                                      We say a lot of words like as nothing, and before to say something that can be nocious we must think in the possible prejudice damage to senders and receivers.                                                                               There is also danger even if the person humiliates someone in public, where can lose money or other values. Lies will lead to losses. Create false stories made out up out of fear or out of interest, does not provide teh supposed adavantage.                                                                                                                  Where the speech will lean depend at each moment where we are in terms of consciousness, the background assessment and harmony or imbalance which will make a certain discourse. 

THE 4 ELEMENTS AND OUR WEAKNESSES

All negative character traits arise from the four IESODOT (foundations ).                                                    The 4 elements are the foundation of the creation in all their forms. Fire is dry and hot and their corresponding humor is red. Air is wet and hot and their humor is white. Water is wet and cold and green their humor. Earth is dry and cold and black their humor. All the forms of creation have their own compound and each shape is unique.                                                                                                              There are 4 categories for the 4 elements, and according to the evolutionary level there are some equivalences.                                                                                                                                                   Melancholy and derivates animal kingdom. Bad passions and derivates vegetable kingdom. Banal words and derivates animal kingdom. Pride and derivates human kingdom.                                                             All those who embark on a path of spiritual development must fracture all vices. Discover the origin and find the antidote with the right posture to adopt. What causes outcrops or vices to manifest is to deviate from the proper path due to personal desires along with ignorance of the consequence of the actions. Sometimes we are conscious and have the free will to restrict the impulse, and if it is not done it is because it is trapped by what is it dragging.                                                                                                    We should ask ourselves what benefit vices bring us. ¿ What do we lose with the slavery that represents the dominion of vice ?                                                                                                                                      Melancholy, mineral kingdom it comes from the earth. We can not stop the time, the experiences are fugitives and we can not retain the past. The bad passions comes from water. We must desire to be better, to endow ourselves with quality, but those desires that can harm health, the economy and relationships we must know how to redirect. Banal words are related to the animal way of life. Derivates such as falsehoods, slander, self praise. These expressions show someone who is weak, and instead of going with the truth and courage, chooses the opposite that betrays his inner poverty. Pride is human, includes anger, vanity and hate. Believing onself important is ignorance. We all perform a function and talents are only a loan to accomplish a purpose.                                                                                                                        Getting ride of vices is an ongoing process, it takes time, patience and effort. If the person don´t have high aspirations beyond subsistence will hardly vanish vices which will remain indefinitely. And in case of a longing for meaning and substance from day to day, transforming vices into virtues is a constant task of great will, knowledge and discipline that must be applied daily.