DETACHMENT AND SENSITIVITY

Detachment is observe and value from a mental point of view. Sensitivity is observe and value from an affective optics. They may seem distant positions, but it all depends on the background. so in detachment there is a component of sensitivity so as not to suffer emotionally, and the sensitivity needs  a detachment in order to see clearly.                                                                                                                                     Detachment serves to take distance between us and the environment according to relationships and circumstances when is not possible influence in the facts, and the more practical is to preserve the health and the welfare.                                                                                                                                                Sensitivity is a sign of empathy, feeling close, and requires the appropiate measure so as not to suffer needlessly. Detachment don´t have expectations that arise from the desires of the ego who wants customized results. He or she does not expect anything specific from others or from events, and the result or outcome leaves him or her indifferent.                                                                                                       Observing from a mental perspective allows to gain distance, and if we know to see in perspective it makes it easier to adopt the relevant posture by avoiding the triggers of emotional reactions.                      There will be situations where it is better to be detached and others sensitive. Balance is fundamental for us personally and in the external impact as we proceed. The danger is to be too distant or cold it can take away the warm in the contacts. Elucidating where, when and how to be detached or sentivive depends on the situation, If it affects directly or not the harmony between though and feeling, we will know what is the position to adopt.                                                                                                                                       Sensitiviy it supposes a connection with others, with the surrounding environment, and it indicates and assessment, of importance, because if it were the other way around it would not be revealed the sensitivity. Faced with so many dramatic episodes where it is not possible to intervene directly to modify the, detachment is practical sense. In a context of constant change pesonally and socially, with a narrow room for maneuver, we can´t get stuck on what we want and it isn´t, and this is valid both for detachment and sensitivity