There are relationships of the time where once they have fulfilled their role fade away. The school and work stage maintains bonds for years and when the time comes they end where each one preserves their independence. When we want to establish persistent bonds with a partner and/or children , the room for maneuver is conditioned by space, time and resources. What drives us to desire someone´s constant presence ? Charming words, certain actions, artistic skills, beauty ? Have we calculated the cost of these transfers for just a few hours a day ? Close and habitual ties aim to learn by fitting in the different singularities that come into play. This potential for growth is not reflected in facts because each person acts according to their own criteria. Why do we want to lose or sacrifice privacy and freedom by depriving ourselves of moments of recollection ? Because socially influenced, the idea of having a partner and/or children must involve rewarding emotional experiences, and this will depend on the temperament, the capabilities of the members, and observing the prevailing superficiality it is difficult to forge exciting situations. The longing for constant closeness is for love ? What kind of love ? Interested and selfish ? To give and share ? What can we give, what can we share ? For who are we are will show it, and if there are flaws and lack of quality, events will reflect it. No one can fill internal voids from the outside. Others are there for sporadic exchanges, only permanent contact with ourselves can make us better. Enjoying silence, peace and tranquility are the most precious intangible goods, and no one from the outside can give them to us. Most people imagine, assume or believe that someone will introduce elements of insomnia, knowing that the charm of an attraction lasts a short time and boredom is what remains. We should not rush into mortgaging our lives. It is very easy to get involved, and difficult to untie the knot.
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