Satisfaction is to fill the measure of a wish. We need to know wether it is appropiate and that can bring.
We are going to search for what makes us feel good, but in this persecution is desirable to find some kind of obstacle in order to reinforce the skills based on perseverance.
In doing may have the satisfaction when it is effective, and also dissatisfaction when we forced the results or are poor. If carried out is healthy, it is a confirmation that the procedure is correct. If on the contrary the negative prevails, these contain the information of what we need to review to give a different orientation.
We need to clarify where we believe that we will find satisfaction, because according to it if is possible or is an illusion, and shall see how it fits into our character and if it should be really. We must not ask for what want the ego, but more suitable for the soul. And instead of focusing in irrelevant issues attract the conditions to cultivate virtues.
The objectives have to aim high, not to the usual platitudes that we are accustomed to serve as a little for his inconsistency. Crave an increase in wisdom, selfless actions, leading a life more peaceful, and more affective capacity creating harmonic conditions, this will make us feel satisfied, without external dependencies or short duration.
Dissatisfaction has to intervene as a factor in overcoming, not complaint. The balance between the two trends will keep us dynamic, being just one of many polarities.
The code of values, tastes, measures, are part of this tandem. If the expectations are too high can lead to dissatisfaction if not minimishing the effects with a sharp observation relativising it.
It the alleged satisfaction finish in dissatisfaction, notes an infounded expectations, bloated or inconvenient.
We want certain things with the belief that we like or love it, and sometimes it is appropiate experience disappointments to learn lessons, that if we note in the long run we can transform in future satisfactions.
Dissatisfaction may be specific or existential, in both cases we need to know the reasons, cherish it in perspective and outline a plan for that may straighten in a more favorable sense.
What we dislike about us or the environment is a way of inharmonic proceeding, and having so many things which can lead to excess weight, addictions or harmful diseases. This are mechanisms of compensation to alleviate frustration, and more that serve it harms. Insisting in addiction extends the basic problem if you do not remove the cause.
The solution is easy : go to the root of the conflict, make a determination and act accordingly to replace the useless by the useful.
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