SATISFACTION - DISSATISFACTION ( III )

We seek the satisfaction in temporary factors because they do not know how to find lasting satisfaction, returning to the dissatisfaction precisely because what we are looking for is in the transitory.
Accustomed to look at the most immediate, external, mundane, many people are convinced that if you have this or that, they will be satisfied. And without doubt provision of material goods is not bad, it allows some resources, a certain quality, but they are not an end in themselves, only a medium.
If we are going to the search to be satisfied with a stability, do not have to rely on things or people that are now and after not. The periphery is to exchange, where the work is done, but everything is like a loan that comes and goes, nothing is our exclusive property. Neither family, nor sons, nor couple, we identify as "mine" to distinguish them in relation to others, they are free, its function is not providing with satisfaction, but if they are closer in terms of link is to learn and so wide horizons for our behavior may be possible.
As humans we are always wanting for gestures of all, more attentive, generous, fair, helpful, etc, and precisely if we receive all of this first we have to grow and develop in ourselves transmitting it in our relations. However, by not showing these attributes due to the usual egocentrism widespread, we scarcely and also receive in similar proportions. The thing is clear, or increase first the quality of the expressed in us, or exchanges will persist in the same level of poverty.
Eat, drink, play, life of luxury, such as flares are released into the air, the effect last an instant, and if the action is only thinking in us, after the initial blasts come the vacuum.
We are not here to pursue false dreams, we are here to discover who we are, what we are here to do and commit ourselves to do it. And this implies engage the personal goals with those of the collective, and will only be viable with a gradual opening of awareness facilitating change, sharing and giving; because everything that we have now is the result of a multitude of exchanges.
The vacuum is not to have, not to be. The fullness is to have and to be, and on the road to achieve this have had to increase the self through mobilizing the powers in a relevant manner. If we have and are is because we are able to proceed with success in relationships made during the journey. Part of merit is ours, the other through external contributions. And the satisfaction will increase when the ability to balance will be the keynote.