There are four factors that determine whether we feel happy or unhappy. What we do, what we have, what we get, and the type of relationship where the valuation as a whole decant the balance toward one side or the other.
What we do is the most important, because it is our latent potential in action, where it has to reverse in a fruit that has to give a reward. In the preparation, the effort from one phase to another, progressive development, we have to taste the process with what has been happening, and whatever activity the more intensity more capacity to achieve satisfaction.
What we have as resources in the form of skills and assets, gives us access to certain conditions and benefits. If we have a high academic level the options for paid work will be higher, and if finances are consistent, the capacity to make choices and more options will lead various facilities.
What we get has to do with what we do and what we have. The more dynamic more possibilities to move things, depending on the approach and the powers to extract a benefit.
The type of relationship is as important as the other sections. In what we do, what we have and we get, the others are always intervening, without their cooperation we could not obtain neither the degree of training achieved nor incomes for autonomy of movements.
Often, centered in our ambitions, we don´t think in the neighbor with enough attention and consideration, when it is thanks to the contribution of each one that we now enjoy a lot of benefits and services.
The satisfaction has to come from the expression of virtues in works of profit, in the desire to contribute with something useful to anyone who needs it and what you want, get out of the self centered usual tasks to focus on support of the collective.
The satisfaction lies not neither know much nor wanting all kinds of worldly pleasures. The satisfaction comes when we are able to fit with the greatest possible number of people establishing cordial ties, caring and helpful of mutual reciprocity, The rest are only preparations to achieve this.
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