WHERE ARE WE MOVING FORWARD, WHERE ARE WE STAGNATING, WHERE ARE WE GOING BACKWARDS

We can be in three different points. Stagnating, going backwrds or moving forward. Hoy many between us know how to observe and differentiate where it is located ? In some points who more who less is stagnating, essentially by the diary routine and the minimjum room for  maneuver focusing on the most immediate and basic. Advance requires effort, perseverance and to provide oneself with resources, depending of the medium of action and the possibilities that this can offer. Going backwards is worsen the conditions compared the previous one.                                                                                                            Both on a personal and social level we experience all three states at some point. The movement modify the established, and the actions with their result they will be placing us. In the collective sphere, tools for everyday and work use give us many benefits unknown years ago. Instead, there has been deterioration on several fronts. We have advanced and regressed also, and the imbalance is the realitzation of how we are. If the impulse is motivaded by selfish,self interested desires, the approaches will not be appropiate and there will be tensions. We must align what we think with what we feel and want so that action lead to the personal and social harmony. Only this progress will be possible in the parts and globally, otherwise we will either remain stagnant or go backwards.                                                                                                 Many of us we may be making progress in some areas and at the same time going backwards in others and also stagnate in some. The review of what we do and the consequences must be constant, because one time triggers manifest, is complicated stop the gale. Where are now is the reflect of the effected. If we want changes and improvements it will be necessary to implement different methods and patience to see results.

THE TWO TYPES OF PAST

There are two types of past : What has left and what remains. Gone are the experiences, relationships, situations, efforts of an era, the contribution derived from these remains in part, sometimes small and other times more noticieable.                                                                                                                                  Immersed between the transitory and the eternal, the days follow each other unalterably, in a constant tonic of activities that are repeated for an order and the distribution of resources. Each day is different, unique, for more similarities with the previous ones. Events  take place in a stable backgrounsd. but the execution is different. We rely on a specific scenario where the action leads to fluctuations, who are in charge of offering us new possibilities and expansions according to the done and the environment.              Of all experiences we keep minimal memories. The important is the essence extracted to broaden horizons and improve. There are pleasant moments that persist in the form of images. There are good moments that persist and others if in the inner are bad memories that can affect the present if the emotions are not digested.                                                                                                                                                           What do we want to preserve and what is indifferent to us ? The useful must be preserved, that which resist the passage of time. The memory is essential to learn, it tells us how to proceed and how to adapt to the circumstances. Without memory we must start from zero every day, making progress imposible where all efforts would be due, because there would no foundation left to take root and  project us. The past is the referent of memory to build day by day, and in this constant between the unstable and estable, between the change and the permanent, external factors they are responsible for leaving or mantaining depending on what, and so with the own decisions about it in this sense. We can not remain attached to nothing in particular, the more solid today can disappear tomorrow. Letting go of what can not be held back is healthy, focusing on the present that is where the life force keeps us located. The important is to know take advantage of whas has faded that last for a profit in the area where we set values and some kind of purpose.

OUR INTELLIGENCE A REFLECTION OF COSMIC INTELLIGENCE

The more it is purified and perfected, the more he/she captures and understand the light of this intelligence The intelligence it is  consequence of the state of the cells, making sure to keep them in physical and mental balance, the opposite will be closed to the greatest revelations. Only improving the way of life we can improve intelligence, and therefore all those with transcendent concerns have always worked in this sense.                                                                                                                                                                 What does it mean to purify ? To pass from a murky context where there is some kind of dirt derived from thoughts or feelings expressed in disonant actions between us and others causing discord and bad feelings. To perfect is to refine, to improve what we do to give it the most optimal expression for the most optimal result.                                                                                                                                                                The state of the cells is the indicator of the lifestyle, of what is stored internally and shown externally by the conception we have of things leading to a type of attitude. To improve the way of life is to broaden the vision in perspective by seeing the links of what is involved in the situations, both personal and social, facilitating the adoption of a more suitable posture flowing with the circumstances instead of being dragged by them and the possible consequences.                                                                                            Strictly basic knowledge or professional training is used to operate on a daily basis in order to be nourished in the essentials.                                                                                                                               If we want to find meaning and profit beyond the purely existential, we must deeply forge this restlessness in the deepest part of us, awakening the way and the means that facilitate the connection between the visible and the invisible, the tangible and the intangible, where it is necessary to go beyond the physical senses and the understanding of words that allow us to discover the breadth and riches of an accessible immensity gradually unattainable to the prevailing goals nd purposes of the majority.

LIVING THE THREE CONSCIENCES : REVENGE, EVERYTHING IS PERFECT, PAYING DEBTS

We don´t know what is the purpose of the tests to which we are all subjected. Why we have difficult relationships ? Why some have great facilities and others many difficulties ? Why are there subjects that are easy for us and some seem impossible ? Mysteries that we would all like to unravel, but just like life and its elevated meaning more than purely subsisting escapes us.                                                                   From the primary reaction that so abundantly abounds when someone hurts us, punishes us or we feel harmed, most get angry and want to respond with revenge. Evil does not fix evil. If we experienced certain experiences it is not accidental, is the individual supervision where through some people and situations they give us the opportunity to reflect, observe, and realize what the message is to be able to proceed with greater correction. If we are able to establish the common sense instead of anger, and we link interventors, the process and where it lead us, we will understand the meaning and the reason.                   Everything is perfect, it is revealed to those who already have a developed consciousness and see the event with a perspective beyond the apparent and superficial. Knows that nothing happens at random, and that is necessary go through a variety of sensations, pleasant and unpleasant, always with the purpose of broadening horizons to proceed with more efficiency and executive possibilities. What we experience has been designed especially for us.                                                                                                                      Paying debts. What we feel as discomfort in tense contexts, strandings, deteriorations, losses, if we are living it is for a reason. We don´t have consciousness about our remot past, and we can not give answers in accordance to the five senses. The invisible affects the visible, in the same way that the internal does it with the external.                                                                                                                                              Instead of living, thinking and acting from instinctive ways with sterile aggressive responses, if we look with perspective and discover why, we will establish the certainty that all events have one sense and purpose that we will see more clearly when the right time arrives watching the invisible plot in tangible facts. The tests, the people who irritate us, they are means, intermediaries to push us to become successive improved versions in our demonstrations.

THE QUALITY OR NOT THAT WE SHARE ( II )

A seed is required, a right place, and that this seed or basis contain assets to be developed bearing a fruit when the time is right. This show that the quality it depends on the substance with an internalized value and give the relevant treatment in order to achieve a benefit. We must make this extensive on all fronts. At the level of thought, give us breadth and equanimity. In the emotional aspect observe with detachment so that pretensions an attitude are not harmful. And the actions must drive to the utility, because the useless is not the goal.                                                                                                                                                      Depending on the ideas and the expressed will approach or move away from the quality. Criticism is good if improves the person or the context. If it does not do it in either of the two is sterile and negatives the environment.                                                                                                                                                     The conversations must be attractive. give them substance, because just chatting to get nowhere is boring. There is too much repetitiveness, a generalized stuckness product of the lifestyle and not expansion of the potential, and so will be difficult obtain quality. We must heed the beginning of " If your words are not better than my silence it is better to be silent "                                                                                                 We can be involved in affective relationships but not dependent. Show us close and also detached. We must not be at the disposal of what others say or do according to our wishes. We will get quality with a mature attitude of knowing how to be there for someone if they need us without getting catch.                   Find at all times the optimal measures between internal and external, the personal and the collective, attentive to what surround us, acting with care considering the proism, so we will be able to achieve the balance and quality derived from the process.

THE QUALITY OR NOT OF WHAT WE SHARE

Everyone wants quality, and this implies that there are some utensilis, some ingredients with some peculiarities and contributions that must know how to combine to extract a purpose from it, and it must bring profit and well being.                                                                                                                              The purest, resistant, durable, are synonyms of quality, presents in all areas, therefore we must differentiate between what is optimal and what is not. If we have qualitative elements we have to know how to deal with them, how to apply them to achieve the best performance in their use.                              Voluntarily or forcibly we share, and the temperament, sensitivity and the type of bond, will incline us to show ourselves in a specific way according to the case.                                                                                 Most associate quality with material factors, and they are undoubtedly valuable. Howewer, true quality emerges from the inside in the form of virtues evidenced in behavior. Show kindness, affection, equanimity, spirit of service, rectitude, and  search of individual and social harmony, are factors that generate quality.                                                                                                                                                              What do we share ? What we are willing to share ? We can do it through words, goods, and actions. The current present is a product of past interactions. What we have we received it through exchanges. What we have learned has been through transmissions that have provided bases for subsequent increases.                  What we share they are inheritances from others derived from knowledge or resources, with successive links for new continuities.                                                                                                                                Where does the quality of sharing lie ? In what it shows, in the sensations it leaves. Quality are optimal benefits, in what is said, is done and what is left. Why is it so hard to have quality relationships ? because selfish interests prevail and there is no true longing to know characteristics of the other for a satisfactory fit. There is not quality because we have not internalized it in ourselves due to the superficial lifestyle self centered on low profile desires compared to what we can get with spiritual development. If there is not enough quality inside it will be reflected outside. Quality depends on the raw and/or external material and the outcome with the result.

ASSIDUOUS REPETITION AND BOREDOM

Assiduous repetition is inevitable to being caught in a continuous chain of beginnings and endings. Where and how can we forge licenses ? Facing the new day with care so that the repetitions show us new visions and opportunities. Automatisms are used to act effectively, being receptive to novelties and unforeseen events that expand the solving skill. Assiduous repetition and boredom is talk always the same, be predictable, monotonous, with a feeling of being stuck that is not going anywhere, limiting and impoverishing exchanges.                                                                                                                               Repetitive acts, topics discussed until exhaustion turned into useless chatter, Dragged by an inertia where the lack of ideas and renewal inevitably leads to boredom.                                                                             Regular relationships need space so they don´t become monotonous. It is better to space the contacts and that they are of a short duration, because catching up takes a few minutes, and if we don´t have interesting material to pass on next, then boredom makes an appearance.                                                                      What nourishes, what pleases, for repetitions carried out does not tire because there is a fund of value and benefits. We can repeat actions an infinite number of times and not get bored by their content.                    To be attractive we must offer solid or subtle goods that captivate the senses, that vibrate. Introduce in the usual or similar differential factors.                                                                                                                 We need quantity but is the quality that cheers up, and is hard to find because it´s a question of selecting the best ingredients treated with care to extract the more precious. In what we say and in what we do is where the difference lies to bring us closer or further away from boredom or enjoyment.

PAREJ ( TWO TYPES OF PAIN )

Cut down and fragment, one very hard, and the other Parej, the breaking point that fragmented, took out the soul, made little the spirit. A task where they started, interrupted, restarted and it never ended. We have exemples in politics, in relations, and in the good intentions of what we want to accomplish and we already know how it ends.                                                                                                                              When we don´t finish what we start there is no satisfaction, the task lose the sense, it has no meaning. The physical task is not the problem.The process of physical weakening becomes weakness of the soul, and is here where the vacuunm is generated.                                                                                                           With the observed in this aspect we can know what kind of opponent we have to leave : meaningless, actions that lead nowhere, relationships that don´t grow, jobs that alienate, useless thoughts. We have come to be creative and creators in all areas, we need the sense of life almost more than physical food, the challenge is to wake up in us and how enter in contact. We are not here to keep repeating routine daily exams focused basically on having and on material demands. The sense and the goal is not maintain for maintain, is discover what to do so that the repetitiveness of beginnings and endings has a meaningful purpose beyond the subsistence. Live to be unconsciously of why, or live so that efforts go beyond nourishing  the body not knowing where we are going nor why trapped in obligations, commitments and limitations, many of them created by the supposed feeling of satisfaction when in reality limit and condition. Breaking the vicious circle is the daily trial by fire to which all are subjected regardless of our potential no matter where we are.                                                                                                                           

CRIMES ARE ERRONEOUS DESIRE OF EGO

Committing a crime means transgressing laws aimed at restoring order and justice to avoid chaos. Everything that surrounds us is subject to laws so that haramony prevails, and if they violate the discord breaks this harmony.                                                                                                                                         We all have what need at every moment. To pretend more is to say that there is a mistake in the individual supervision assigned to each. Is a desire that arises from ignorance believing in certain rights to achieve gratifications. Nothing further from the truth, because achieving goals depends on merits. Want things of someone´s else using coercive methods, assaulting, harming or damaging values or physical integrity, is one of the most despicable acts which denote lowliness by breaking basic rules of coexistence. Starting with misappropiation and continuing with disrespect and disturbance of peace. In search of a mean to have which deteriorates the subject losing various virtues along the way more valuable than any booty achieved by force to satiate some instincts.                                                                                                                   A punishable characteristic is that the criminal seeks personal gain at the expense of another´s loss. ¿ Can there be an action more miserable than this ? The ultimate exponent of selfishness and inconsideration, instigator of negativity by what entails the desire, action and the result.                                                       What do you want to get ? Satisfy a primal desire. Can be sex, money, desire for dominance, revenge. What these individuals don´t understand or don´t know is that if you don´t have what you want, it is because it´s not theirs, because if were the opposite one way or another it would get to them.                      It is said that a spirit of madness is introduced into the person that drives him to commit crime. And really is so, because it doesn´t just break several laws, but the subsequent toll to pay is much greater that the supposed gain. It does not even endanger the loss of freedom, fines or other dispositions, it is the debt to repair with the people, means and the environment that has harmed, apart from the accumulated karma to be paid in the form and time we don´t know when it will be presented.

THE MINIMUM CONTRIBUTION OF EACH ONE THAT ALLOWS TO LIVE

Within the immense universe of which we only know  a tiny part, we are surrounded by various kingdoms with their evolution and contribution. Each one has a function that participates in the exchange for retroactive feeding. How the peculiarities and benefits of each species have been forged is a mistery like many others, but looking into an unknown immensity, we see that our shortcomings and dependencies which we can  not cover individually, we get them thanks to everyone´s contribution.                                 Personally we are only able to offer minuscule donations, because the rest depends of multiple connections that nurture us in obtaining resources. To mantain ourselves physically and act we can only do it for ourselves, but breathe, eat and drink we get it by the environment. We do the minimum effort, because the maximum in our continuity it comes from outside.                                                                                         We are like a drop of water in the middle of an ocean, showing that our pretensions of greatness are a sample of ignorance and unconsciousness to inflate the ego. We should realize what we do, what we want, and when drives, realizing how little we are able to achieve going after banalities while the substance of what will have to look for escapes us.                                                                                                              Our insignificance in the immensity is showing in our incapacity to evolve gradually. Investment time in task empty of content we don´t expand knowledge, preventing improvement in the needed areas. And so accumulate days that has the goal to replace the prosaic with the refined, it does not even enter the plans of the majority. We are contributing to maintaining the presence, but is only the external part.                         The purpose is the qualitive transformation using the resources and the executive capacity that reveals the content the efforts of our peculiarity and function among the rest of the various contributors, where everyone plays their role and service whether we see or not.

ATTRACTION OR REPULSION

The attraction or repulsion it´s a matter of wavelength. Where we tune in, where we vibrate, where we agree, will generate attraction, And on the opposite side it will show us repulsion.                                       The senses transmit information to us according to our idyosincrasies. It´s all about tastes and values. What we like has a value, and what we dislike does not. We want to get closer to what makes us feel good, and away from what does not freeze, what irritates.                                                                                        The similar attracts the similar and the different separate. We need to stay with people with whom we understand each other, be able to collaborate with each other, That´s why we come together for affinities. ¿ How can we relate to any perspective if the ideals are opposites, different objectives and a conflicting code of values ? The evolutionary level, the cultural scope, the family heritage they influence the concepts we have forged about what surround us. Diversity menas that there are criteria and tendencies of all kinds, and so that which is highly valued and pleasant by some, it is unpleasant and worthless to others. ¿Some are right and others not ? Connections lean us in one direction, and development and results must be seen with the possible benefits or losses to realize where each one is headed and what he may find sooner or later.                                                                                                                                                                 We must know how to observe to realize the pros and cons of what attracts. Temptations assiduously physical and / or materials can look captivating, but is necessary broaden horizons and seeing the full picture and possible outcomes.                                                                                                                       Both what attracts and what is rejected are indicated to us by the senses. What we see, feel, touch, smell and tastes, and our singularity they will lean in one side or another. We are destined to relate with the people according to our evolution in each section of the different processes. Who is very different we will no longer know him, because the important thing is the utility.                                                                      We must approach to what revitalizes and offers opportunities, and reject the opposite sense. Is very easy make the elections because we have very internalized what fit us and what diverges.

IMMOBILITY DUE TO FEAR, COMFORT OR PRIVILEGE

If we are immersed in a world set up to move forward, why certain people in which areas immobility is sought ? Links are inevitable. From a previous action to a later one, the chain is constant, and no one escapes to this framework. Every day is similar but none identical, then ¿ from which arises the desire to perpetuate situations for fear or supposed losses, to enjoy a comfort or maintain certain privileges ? We are permanently debating between two fronts. Facing the unknown with what we know to go looking for what you don´t have. A part of certainty  and a foundation. and one part of uncertainty and empty. The ignorance of what can happen it makes us cling to the experienced and usual because we know how to proceed.                                                                                                                                                            The spiritual precepts tell us that everything is for the best and we must have certainty. If we know how to observe, we will check on an individual level. Events that seemed harmful at the time have led us to a more optimal situation. In the collective aspect it cost much more due to the dynamic of crisis and chaos that always accompanies us.                                                                                                                            Why we want to hold on to relationships that are empty of content, boring, without enthusiasm or a purpose of growth ? why don´t we look to find a job that allows us to cover indispensable resources ? Why do we settle for a simple generalization in the different usual areas if the stranding prevails in more of a front ? Maintaning privileges often at the expenses of others for selfish material desires which are satisfying to have but prevent improvements as a being.                                                                                                      What do we gain and what do we lose with immobility ? We want to cover the file and make it light by wasting opportunities to expand us by imaginary fears of thought ? Or we want to establish generalized satisfaction through efforts, time and patience with the relevant benefits at the right time ?                         What is immutable are the foundations from which the basic intentions spring expressed in eternal virtues with the purpose of stablishing a state of continuous well being and harmony.

INDULGENCE AND DEMAND

Demand is squeeze, indulgence is loosen up. Demand is rigor, indulgence is clemency. Demand is ambition  to do more  and better. Indulgence is lower possibilities by indolence for lack of enthusiasm opting for inaction. Do we have to be demanding ? If we want quality provinding us with more optimal benefits with increment of resources, is indispensable. Demand is to maintain or raise the level. The action has a purpose aimed at a profit, and the result will tell us.                                                                              The idyosincrasy and aptitudes of each one raise or lower the bar with respect to the claims of what we pursue. Giving more or less importance to the objectives will determine the involvement and intensity. To preserve and continue to advance in the field that entails a demand of attention, specific actions and have the appropiate instruments. It´s all a matter of measurements. Demand is to add up, to overcome, and according to the context and the person it can end up being counterproductive. Indulgence tends to subtract by inaction or indulge in excesses, but it can be useful in specific situations to relax.                       If we want more we must do more, but more is not always synonimous of more satisfaction. Win in certain respects at the cost of losing in others, does not report well being. Is here where we have to know what the priorities are so they end up flowing.                                                                                               There are those who are demanding towards others and indulgent towards oneself. The good posture is show understanding and benevolence, and demand when it is precise.                                                           There are moments to be demand and others to be indulgent. Harmony lies in make the relevant choice in every situation, and this it depends on the perspective of equanimity and knowing how to value the presents factors that enter in scene in each case.

HURTFUL ACTS ARE NOT ERASED

Nothing is casual, everything has a reason, and although we do not see the motive of the experienced, it obeys some purpose that we may or not discover. Every cause will have its effect, and the trigger can backfire on us to a recent or remote past about certain behaviors. Hurtful words, dishonest actions, swindlers, aggressions, mistreats, they are for reflection and show us the ideal forms to proceed instead of discomfort with well being.                                                                                                                              Even if we see that they are signs, warnings, messages of learning, the imprint generated in us will remain impregnated in the more deep as indelible stains. The words are not carried away by the wind, they are remembered, they are perpetuated. The intensity of the wound due to incorrect behaviors can be minimized, but the memory is mantained and the loss of quality, trust and closeness that we had is fading away. We must think very well what we want to say or what we want to do for the later consequences. Everything counts, and once it has been externalized there is no going back and it is recorded with the impact it has left.                                                                                                                                               The egoistic and insensitive forms are the origin of all indecisiveness coming from actions or words. When someone must ask for forgiveness it is the recognition of an error, and the best thing is to try not to have to get here. We say we forgive the offender, but the fact leaves a lasting memory and it remains as a stain on the file and a deterioration in the relationship according to the magnitude of the fact and the result. Disappointments accumulate over the years, when it is not one´s are others, When they are not close relations, others are, and in the end, the intensity and the enjoyment is losing in the way.

SEE OBJECTIVELY OR WHAT I WANT TO SEE

We all want to see according to our desires and what is considered important or valuable. Know how to observe, realize what is around, requires identification. What we see in the environment is what propel us in our behavior. Received messages can come in different ways. Subtle or obvious warnings indicating disadvantages if we do according to what. Driven by selfish desires and harmful actions, despite knowing it to a greater or lessen extent, will result in worse consequences than the possible gain or satisfaction that has pushed to execute what was done previously.                                                                                           We must awaken within us the strenght to perceive the difference between the good and the negative and make the right choice. Distinguish what pushes up or down, which bring forth the good manners or the tension of the bad manners of discordant pretensions.                                                                                    Civilization remains in chaos because narrow vision driven by personal interests prevail without realizing the impact on a large scale. The interaction between the individual and the collective is constant and interdependent, and if the approaches are individualistic it is because of our vital continuity depend exclusively on us.                                                                                                                                            Darkness is ignorance, light is knowledge. To more vision more chances to proceed correctly. To more darkness more possibilities to be wrong. Before acting we have to decide how to give vent to ideas or goals. Once underway affecting the environment or other people the outcome depends on various uncontrollable factors.                                                                                                                                     Do we see objectively with respect to ourselves or the vision toward others ? Do we know how to see with perspective and equanimity ? We only focus on what interests us ? Do we ignore what we dislike and pretend it doesn´t exist ? All the problems derive from the non coupling between the transmitting part and the receiving part, that in relationships we exercise both functions. This indicates that we must know what we want, why and what is the ideal form to achieve this by thinking about the final correction in the result. What we want to see or would like does it have a benign or malignant connotation ? Will it generate well being or discomfort ? For the benefit of one party and the detriment of another ?                                          The darkened vision comes from wrong goals driven by the desires of the ego who only see what he wants to see. See clearly it is a sign of greater civilization to locate the parts and the whole in search of justice, not motivated by personal interests.                                                                                                     Short term gains and long term losses, or prudence and rectitude to obtain the appropiate agreement to the merit made. Everything will depend on the vision and attitude adopted.

STERILE CRITICISM OR CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM

What is the purpose of criticism ? Improve the existing one. Before listing what we think is incorrect, we must be sure that whoever we address the criticism will be receptive and will want modify epressions if is appropiate. The foundations of criticism require the confluence of three points. It must be good in its purpose. It must be useful, i. e. applicative. And it must be necessary, for the benefit of the aforementioned and the impact on third parties.                                                                                                                       What drives us to criticize is the correct perception or not of the observer, that he is not acting as he should according to what is considered correct. The critic in question have the full picture at your disposal to judge with equanimity ? Are the ratings in line with your tastes and interests ? Is the criticism thinking of him or the criticized ? What is wrong ? Can it be proven that this is really the case ? What don´t like ? Does the criticism affirm with verifiable arguments or is it an opinion ? The statement must provide evidence to be credible and fulfill the function of amendment. If is an opinion according to particular ideas and values, is subjective, and if the fund can not be improved, does not exercise the objective.                    The critic show displeasure for what really want and it doen´t happen. The speech must be reformulated to achieve the true purpose that is resolve the damaged or certain behaviors. The critic want to correct, optimize, in order to search perfection. However, if not influence or modify the intended it is of no use and becomes sterile.                                                                                                                                                 The critic must lead by example.To be heard and believable he must set an example. The critic always it must be founded in the positivity after observe and reflect that facilitates a favorable change.                       To see the negative is very easy, especially in a society in search of comfort and little responsibility, and if we add selfishness to it, the percentage of error in behavior is very high.                                                     We aim the bad, we see the bad, we show the bad. Who expresses himself like this can prove that he is impeccable ? Insisting on darkness is due to the inability to introduce more light in us. The sun always shines and is present, if we don´t see it is because with our negativity we have been putting up curtains that prevent us from seeing it.

THE TRAPS OF AFFECTION ( II )

If the bond of a persistent couple does not facilitate bring out the best, is necessary to rethink the meaning of the relationship and where it leads. What motivates to want the presence of someone daily ? The desired or supposed experience with someone´s company, in what proportion is it fulfilled ? Give up time, space, resources, for what purpose we do it ? What do we want couples for and to do what ? Having children is a social act because they affect society in multiple aspects. Who thinks about this apart for the responsibility of potential parents in collective incidence ?                                                                                                   We wish and we want to believe that through someone we like due to some characteristics, we will experience feelings of well being, but these only are portions of a whole. We must be able to observe the pros and cons widely for an approach or distance, and the scale will decide whether or not if the relationship is viable. Sharing everyday life limits and conditions only for a few hours, taking into account the time devoted to work and sleep. If the person in question is not really enchanting for various virtues, Is it worth mortgaging yourself for someone´s company if there is no common task of sustained growth ? The theoretical learning and teaching that the exchange has to offer can it be produced taking into account the prevailing worldliness and superficiality ?                                                                                                 The trap of affects is give priority on the emotional side which make vulnerable in feelings, and these need the guidance of the intellect to discern between the ideal and the disadvantage.                                          To feel good, being with someone is not synonymous of better. Boredom is caused by repetitiveness, the predictability and stagnation. We sacrifice the silence, peace, and quietness which are priceless goods that can not be brought to us from outside, for an hourly company without a defined goal nor individual or common progress.                                                                                                                                             Partner, children, they bring out the best in us or are part of our interests with any background that has little altruism ? Expressing and receiving affection is the best feeling to experience, but we must know how. And if it costs so much to have rewarding relationships is due to unfocused approaches of the ego and its pretensions. Partner and children are the biggest challenge due to proximity and involvement. Be prepared and able for the differences to converge for the common good is the most difficult task, hence the constant problem of finding the appropiate terms and expressions.

THE TRAPS OF AFFECTION ( I )

We are the 100% of time with us, and the presence or company of others is only in a while. This indicates that relationships are occasional, for this reason we must know why we want it or need it.                           What can a certain person contribute that has more value than we can execute on our own ? Where we don´t reach we require the contribution of others to achieve a purpose. Interactions are essential to cover deficiencies, and this tend to be short, is an approach and distance according to fund interests. Family are fundamental in the early years, however, as we acquire independence of movements, we can decide and act with responsibility ¿ why we want to limit, condition and restrict that we can do with no strings attached only for the usual presence of someone ? Who wonders deeply about why we want to have a partner or children ? If not even in personal affairs and social behavior we don´t act with the due correction, how can we fit two distinct entities with the respective areas to improve in a link to the search for harmony ?          Imagination, illusion, it fades when it realizes an unreached level essential to be satisfied in the mutual transmission.                                                                                                                                                    Conversations, resources and activities is what we share. Is the bar of these high, medium or low ? If is not high, is it worth taking out a mortgage for a sporadic company ? If there is not a perspective view, an extensive knowledge of the other, what can we expect of the most demanding bond of all ? More inertia. We only can convey our uniqueness with virtues and defects, and if prevail the mediocrity, the dificulty it will be noticeable in the exchanges filled with disonances.                                                                            We depend on third parties for specific consideration, but they do not condition the organization, space and daily decisions. The usual presence of someone only will be what is be able offer, in the aspects that can like or disturb, we can not expect to receive what is not gifted to give. This must be clear.                     The goal of a couple is be elevated by what we learn and teach each other, but if there is not the essential maturity nor will decrypt the messages nor will be able to use them to polish ourselves and the relation fulfill its purpose.                                                                                                                                              Love alone is not enough, the consistency of the link is a set of factors aimed at a progressive refinement in the expressions. The trap of affects is getting carried away by emotions without tuning in to all the fronts that enter in the scene.

TO SACRIFICE IS TO REPLACE THE EXPENDABLE WITH THE USEFUL

Sacrifice derives from SACROFACERE that means maked it sacred. Sacred in the high sense, pure, important. In the opposite side there is the profane, which are the usual everyday actions lacking in significance.                                                                                                                                                     Do we perform more sacred or profane acts ? Observing the code of values and behavior we find the answer without difficulty. We would like spectacular experiences and conditions, and if they go in the opposite direction that´s why we proceed in the opposite way to achieve it. If prevails the ignorance and the unconsciousness to replace the prosaic with the refined, it is clear that we will be in the material density limited.                                                                                                                                                 Sacrifice  unlike the majority understood, it does not consist of wanting something but holding back, or do someone a favor forced by circumstances. As expressed  by the etymology of the word is change a context that does not bring benefits internally or externally by the other means, tools and occupations that allow increase the possibilities of development and improvement.                                                                          How many activities we carry out of habit thoughtlessly, without stopping to reflect on its convenience and usefulness ? And so one day and another to go nowhere nor extract any profit from it, with the fantasy that is pleasant, when the background is empty of content.                                                                            Focused basically on what we have and what we lack, in the own selfish desires, we pursue worldy goods  that come and go, that depend on third parties, while the splendor that we all long for never arrives because is not in the surrounding area. We have confused the means with the goal, and this is only an intermediary. Bound by olbligations due to the need to cover deficits, we don´t have time nor has the indispensable foundation been forged to perform sacred actions.We have to be content with subsisting as best we can. And crowded trying to extend a transitory presence, let´s leave aside the implicit purpose that has placed us here for something deeper than maintaining physical conditions.

THE WAR ROOM, OUR CONSTANT BATTLE

Decipher why and what, know how to proceed to fit the personal and impersonal, the private and collective interests, continously measures the appropiate and the inconvenient. We must face the challenge of combining duality and unity. No one can live for us and neither other way round. The nourishment is outside, and the obtaining of resources lies in one´s own abilities offering services and the contribution of third parties in exchanges.                                                                                                                                The war room is where the struggle takes place between what we would like and what is, between the possible and the viable. Our part and the necessary external  support  to complete projects.                        Consciousness awakens the survival instinct, knowing that we have to look for the opportunity, and this is a question as personal as provided by the environment. From individual isolation to collective coupling. Deficiencies create dependence which is the key to overcoming efforts in the constant exchanges of giving and receiving.                                                                                                                                      The egocentric vision inclines us to watch for our interests, and these are in close relation to the actions committed. If the balance in the interaction are unbalanced, the gains may occur early on, but in the long run the deterioration will lead to losses.                                                                                                            We with our pretensions brings chaos to our lives, not the environment. If we don´t look inside, what has driven us to want and do what we do, we can not eraase the source from which it emerged. The origin of disonances and conflicts it is not harmonizing personal desires with those of others and the place where the action takes place.                                                                                                                                       If there is no peace inside, there is war outside.  What is observed outside springs from within. And we must ask how the discrepancy between what we think and want and what happen.                                        If selfishness weighs more than altruism the controversies will persist. We must give more, to share more, for the benefit of all involved.                                                                                                                          The negativity is the result of our elections. One´s with great advantages and others with great difficulties. Selfish approaches give absolute priority to the material goods and no importance to the spiritual goods, when in reality the valuable goods are the spiritual goods. And if they come to realize this, it may be too late, because in the end the transitory can not be maintained.

LIES ARE FOR INTEREST AND FEAR ( also interest )

 Truth is to expose the facts with  words or other means. Lying is misrepresenting the event or creating alternative stories about what really happened.                                                                                               What drives to you to lie ? Not to be harmed according to precedents or to obtain benefits through deception. Whatever the lie is driven by interest.. The background context may not be favorable enough and to reverse it, lying become a joker, passing off the unreal as truthful.                                                      When punishable acts have been committed, the fear of being discovered and the possible and subsequent consequences in the form of fines and punishment, is also the interest of not losing money or freedom, and in some cases physical suffering.                                                                                                                    Lie is essentially in relation to us, and sometimes we do it for someone close in order not to have to pay the price of inaccuracies.                                                                                                                                       Truth assumes responsibility case of having made mistakes. Lie is wanting to escape about the event beforehand. We can lie because of negligence, for personal reasons, for work or commercial matters, and also in relations. Momentarily perhaps the blow can be stopped, but if the inventions are discovered, the possibles advantages end.                                                                                                                                The foundation of links with the intention of projection and durability require sincerity. And when the mistrut appears the continuity is in danger. The true brings peace of mind, perhaps we can pay something according to the previous actions, but the opportunity to improve it must be taken advantage of. When you lie, the issue has not been settled,and the uncertainty does not know how it will affect later on.                  True or lie expose the personal idiosyncrasy. The responsible and the irresponsible. The honest ones and the fakes ones. Those who shows maturity by taking charge of actions, and those who want to evade them. The true it is associated with cleanliness, to the trasparency. The lie is dirt so that what is really there is not seen. Authenticity or falsity, an ever present dilemma that affects us all.

EQUAL AND DIFFERENT, RECIPROCAL NEED

 Equal and different are present around us. In every creation it starts from a point incorporating new elements, the different aimed at a goal.                                                                                                           If there was only one aspect without other contributions, there´s no movement nor purpose, life as we know would have no meaning. To give meaning to our respective individual existences, we must intreract with others. Lacks make us dependent, forcing us to establish links, and in the constant offer and demand we can access to the pretender. The different it provides us to fill gaps and build new foundations.              Equals in the essential, differents in the rest. Conceived equal but different in the expression, because no one thinks, feels or does exactly the same way. The evloutionary level  it places in an area and conditions for specific tasks, and for this reason equality is not possible for the differences between each one.             Equal and different can adjust working together, providing what the other lacks.                                         If the differences are big, understanding can be difficult, and unviable for the discordances. Here is where it is found that similar attracts similar and the different separate.                                                                   The desire of some humans reflected in politics or religion, wants citizenship to be an extension of unique thinking. Totalitarian forms they cannot be forced when everyone forges their own ideas and have their peculiarities. Pretending that everyone be the same when everyone is different, it is one of the distortions of the ego that has caused so many conflicts and  it continues to cause chaos and destruction as a result.

LIMITED VISION, LIMITED ACTIONS

If we don´t change our consciousness or the way we live, our lives can not change for the better.                Go beyond the limits trespassing the comfort is the challenge, but only with a constant tests will have options to achieve conditions not imagined if we are satisfied with the present situation without a clear horizon and no definite purpose. The field of action  for a concretion requires a limit so if it wasn´t there would be a dispersion and you wouldn´t be able to express the density in works that must have value to the effort. From a base of minimums the combinations can be infinite, and for one reason or another we only express a tiny part.                                                                                                                                    The enthusiam for desire an style of life endowed with content it has come from within. Centered only in the basic we leave aside the existential purpose. Only few people stop to reflect, asking why about the circumstances and its reason. Let´s focus on banalities, and the surround, thinking generally in to produce,, consume and benefits, and so the time goes by without knowing who we are and our characteristics with the relations and opportunites that entails.                                                                      What proportion of what is done turns into a true profit ? We  set the bar very low, and the valued as enjoyment is only product of our prevailing consciousness.                                                                            We have come to make a qualitative differences, with more refined expressions. What vibrations emit the ideas, thoughts and words in the enviornment ? The actions are they edifying or do they deteriorate and losses ? The external comes and goes, now is there and then not, may be money, bonds or utensils. We can not control, from one situation to another always with a base. What is material we don´t know how long can it last. However, if we internalize in search of answers understanding through observations and perceptions, we will see what density does not see.                                                                                        How many people wants to endow experiences of trascendence ? The minority that already carries it incorporated in the deepest the longing for overcoming. Not only achieve physical resources, but those that bring us closer to a continuous neatness.                                                                                                   The limits in one or more area deprived of expanding and accessing to more opportunities and prosperous conditions. Every day shows in what must be settle and where we must never limit. Only the constant development of consciousness with a great discernment and equanimity they will tell us.

SAME LESSON, SAME COURSE

Do  we want to remain stagnant indefinetely repeating the same lesson from the same course over and over again ? Do we strive to introduce more optimal guidelines where is necessary ? We splice one activity with another, pushed by inertia and the purpose is to continue our presence, the question is why.    From the dependent family unit we must move to the maximum autonomy possible. From ignorance to knowledge. Physical growth stop when it reaches its development., Instead, learning can be permanent if we want.                                                                                                                                                            We are all immersed in the periphery, the plot takes place outside, and we have to face it for what has accumulated internally. The days follow each other in a similar form but never identical way, and our challenge consists of generating variants to enrich the experiences in order to increase greater expressive possibilities.                                                                                                                                                     Are we happy with what we do ? Is our behavior appropriate at all times ? How should we improve the relations ? Do we something about it to replace the obstructions to restore more fluidity ?                            The years pass but the same ideas persist, the same attitude. What is the benefit of adding days ? Are defects transformed into virtues ? Do we become more consciousness over time ? We increase the vision in perspective to be more understanding, dialoguers, sensible, equitable ?                                                    We don´t raise the level because we don´t raise ourselves. repetitive conversations, unchanging arguments, and this makes encounters boring instead of attractive. More of the same, without a horizon, without enthusiasm, with occupations and bland lives. There is no plan to cross limits and is not possible become what we should aim for which would be to put ourselves at the service of fulfilling the spiritual precepts. Existential meaning and profit can only be found in this way.