DESCONNECTED CONNECTION

The apparent social image is that we have many contacts. Messages up and down, various networks, where everything is straw.
How many of these contacts provide a reciprocal communication ? How many friendships are really heart felt ?
The amount of interactions is undeniable, but this does not imply a quality. In order to have quality we must offer the best of us, and the prevailing superficiality does not allow revitalizing expressions in the exchanges.
Most relationships are driven by the interest, and thinking only about the own benefit can not be build solid links. What is transmitted is the reflection of the current potential, and if is rather low this is what we offer to the other.
As a general rule the people speaks about trivial subjects that lead to nowhere to fill the silence. Each day we note at work, with the family, partner, and in general there is no real opening to the other neither ideas nor feelings.
If both parties are not involved it is not possible a connection. It is not a matter of speaking, but decrypt the contents of the words with your component both mentally and emotionally, and exercising of listeners, sincerely concerned for the other, extract from the conversation useful material for the sender and the receiver. This should be the goal.
The inertia makes us unconscious, often reckless, acting according to some customs by dates and what they represent, and vibrate with what we do requires attention, knowledge and enthusiasm. The low intensity usually displayed in what was executed, is the main obstacle to captivating experiences. Don´t want to risk, nor treat some topics, fear grips us, leaving escape opportunities continuously.
How we contact indicates the type of person. Many people say of word that will do and then don´t. Preparing a meeting that never arrives. Phone calls, letters which do not respond. Indifference, coldness, this is the attitude adopted by a growing group. Friendships that in reality are not. Rapprochement only by interest. False affection.
How many among all known are really sincere in what they express ? With how many people we are able to show us what we are ? How to love authentically and how much love us ? Who know essentially ?  This type of disconnected connections is really what we want ?
We can establish many and varied connections, which in the deep indicates the great disconnection between all.