TIES USUAL, OCCSASIONAL, CLOSE OR DISTANT

What do we really decide ? What real degree of freedom do we have to choose ? Why does everyone have specific relationships ? Fathers, sons, couple, they are all intermediaries. Each one performs a function with certain characteristics, where proximity and assiduity bring out our true essence. We are constantly tested to develop the potential to move from the unconscious to conscious, of the defense of one´s own interests to give and share. The failure of relationships and the low quality of these is why selfishness prevail and the straitjacket. So neither one nor the other play the role of messengers wasting the content of what we are showing.                                                                                                                                        The ties are inevitable, no one can live in isolation, and if it does so respect to people, it can not avoid the dependence of nature. The shortcomings force us to externalize ourselves, to establish connections, And if we are looking for good conditions, why do we adopt unpleasant postures, aggression, knowing that we need supports to covert deficits ?                                                                                                                     The needs to acquire resources it makes establish ties. First at school for mental nourishment. After in job training for material sustenance. And not necessarily some are looking for a partner and children to fill the  emotional side.                                                                                                                                          The ties can last more or less, and sooner or later they all end up being transitory, from here the need of detachment to avoid frustrations, because the companies enter and leaving in our vital stage, they are to play a role aimed at expanding our faculties.                                                                                                   Relationships are necessary for the coupling between the individual and the collective, and at the same time none is essential.                                                                                                                                       What we have extracted from the different context and stages ? What have learned from those people we like and those who dislike ? Have we been able in a one to one and hierachical relationship ? Do we know how to decipher what bothers us about someone and why do we have to experience it ? Have we taken advantage of the passage through the different areas and time to improve the expressions ?                          Ties are connections, and just like the machines works if there is a proper fit, exactly to human level. If there are disagreements, tensions and discomfort, there is a mismatch, and we have to find out where it is for the link to fulfill its purpose.