WHY DO WE WANT WHAT WE WANT ( II )

What do we want and what should we want ? Does the impulse come from inferior or refined nature ? Will the beloved leads us to what we need ? With very limited knowledge, disconnected from the root of our idiosyncrasy and pending to decipher the why of situations, relationships and circumstances for its purpose ¿ how many of us truly know what to ask for and be more appropriate according to the individual peculiarities and goals to achieve ? We want what is external to us, for if we have it internalized we don´t ask for it. According to the longed for will be to internalize it temporarily or projected indefinitely. Preserving or achieving what we don´t have involves some kind of exchange, an effort where we have to offer or give something in return. If they are transient things or small quantity decisions can be made quickly. In large scale investments or in acquiring long term commitments, we will have to weigh pros and cons extensively for the consequences and the possible incidence in different sections. Everyone depends on the essentials, and the particular conditions of each one with room for maneuver, the individual function to be performed and the claims to be set through time, it will make us want some things or others. There will be things that will accompany us briefly, others a season, others perhaps decades, and only a few constantly. It will all depend on the service and the fulfillment of the purpose, whether it is a context, objects or relationships, pointing out that we don´t have to cling to anything because it may disappear whether we like it or not. Accumulate days is established in DNA. Most don´t ask why and to do what, and we must want to raise the bar of nonconformism in order to not susbsit and enough. Find out in depth the goal of weight and value of why we are the way we are and what we must carry out that gives meaning and benefit to experiences and efforts. Linking constant beginnings and endings, one routine after another it must be much more than covering files and keeping us going, amd what we should want is to illuminate what is behind it of what we do and see endowing the existence of meaning.