RELATIONSHIPS ( III )

There has to be a reason for relationship. We are going to the other by need, by love, commitment, or by self satisfaction. And here there is sometimes a part of interest and on occasions of disinterest. When it comes to interest is with the objective of receiving. When it is unselfishly is to give or share.
Relationships are the main source of learning, they teach us to make lace of any kind of striving, to make efforts and know how to apply guidelines of conduct, to mature the thought and see and understand with greater capacity to arouse feelings of affection, to deal with objective in a way that establish harmony.
The exchanges are possible because we want something, spellbound through grants, which have to be in us as exchange. These may be different, not necessarily materials, it will be necessary see participants and the role of each in the offer. The entablure of relations is the encounter between two units. When it is needed the intervention of someone for whatever reason, the 1 individual is passed to 1 + 1, and it is as well as the particular served in the social organization, and this aid in the provision of goods to different individualities.
All to one extent or another we have a covered portion in the form of physical resources, economic, of knowledge, etc (licensing of freedom) and a part that we lack that is just as important as we have. Gaps (dependency factor for) they are what make us wake up, by mobilizing, cultivating and enhancing dormant values to the search results. They are sometimes aimed to increase what we have or to keep it, other focus to experiment or find developments.
The attitude at the time of entering into relationships is very important, and the range of more or less that we are determined to accept or reject, or to give.
It has to take into account that whatever the order that impuls us to go toward someone, it is essential coupled together in the respective claims, because if it is not as well the relationship is not feasible.
The root of all the needs and expectations is unsatisfied desire. If the livelihood is at stake, the margin of maneuver will be narrow and the large dependence. When it is not primary the support of third persons, it is desirable to establish links more healthy, and shedding the need does not think about that we get the other, but that we are able to offer.