THE RELATIVITY OF WHAT IS CLASSIFIED AS IMPORTANT

What is important ? Will depend on the circumstances and possibilities of each person and the particular individual code of values.                                                                                                                                What we live, we have, what we want, raise or lower the bar according to the variants and what is valued in each moment. There are elements that we want always present, and others of a secondary nature.             We give importance to what bring wll being, and most efforts go in this direction. In the essential we are agree, and then depends the social position, material resources and intellectuals to direct the intentions in some direction.                                                                                                                                                  Health is the most important because the rest depends on it. Money and possessions but inability to act fully does not solve the underlying problem. Is important to be in the right place to act without restriction. Have the essential tools and resources to avoid depending on third parties.                                                    Relations are important to the extent that they facilitate exchanges for mutual benefit. We should not give importance to certain relationships influenced by the prevailing one. Is not a question of who nor quantity, but of the quality emitted in the interaction.                                                                                                    Make the time profitable is important. The opportunities of today are differents from tomorrow´s .             Is important what is or will be useful. Yearn for constant development in the areas that can expand the consciousness and that facilitate to express ourselves more accurately, this is fundamental importance.

BORING AND DULL RELATIONSHIPS

Why are certain relationships boring ? Because there are no exciting elements. The majority of the population´s education is directed towards worldly interests, and adhering only to a limited number of themes once treated it´s more of the same.                                                                                                        We would like charming links, but it is not possible because we are not prepared to offer them, so we keep changing interlocutors but the boredom persists.                                                                                             Apart from a professional service, what can we provide ? What types of conversations predominate in the different contacts ? Limited basically  preparing ourselves to work, once we are up to date with new developments ¿ What can we introduce that is interesting to reflect on or learn from ?                                 It doesn´t matter if the encounters are occasional or frequent, if the dynamics are the same, it doesn´t change the background. A lot of chatter but little substance. It´s not about pronouncing many words, but about the echo and benefit that they can leave. And in line with our level we will not introduce enthusiasm for hours that pass.                                                                                                                                            The dull relationships they get tired of what is said and done over and over again, stuck in obstructive contexts with friction and discomfort, generated by one or both parties. Sometines is to be subject to forms of domination, control, imposition. The same pattern is repeated tirelessly, the abuser and the subjugated. The impotence to change the status quo emerges in immovable lethargy.                                                       With the present social level lack of true intelligence and sensibility for others, the relationships will be boring, unless elevate our consciousness, actions and goals.