OPEN TO, CLOSE TO

Open can indicate start, close can indicate finish. What do we want to open up to ?  What do we want to close ? Sometimes opening up has favorable connotations, and others not according to the context and what it can cause. And the same goes for closing. Sometimes is advisable, and sometimes not. We must open ourselves to what can represent an improvement, possible healthy earnings,and expand horizons. . And vice versa in terms of closing, in that which put us in danger, which lead to losses, that leads to ill, to deterioration.                                                                  Open is a synonymous to externalize, close to internalize. We must be open to constantly increasing our potential and with the discernment to know when it is not appropiate to open up to what experiences can be more harmful than advantageous. Internalization is essential to reveal what drives us to say, to dor or what we want and where go.                                                                                                                            In the morning when we wake up facing  a new day, externalization begins, social contact, execution of activities. In the evening, after fulfilling the obligations, is time for introspection, to analyze our diary behavior to know possibles hits and errors and how improve them.                                                                Open to determined relations and close to others. The various changes in the time of friends, occupations, means and opening and closing. Beginnings meant opening and endings meant closing.                               With the years changes tastes, criteria and values, and this implies open to a certain questions in one determined time, and then closng. Those relevant activities, friends that seem to fit so well with us, suddenly disappears and they are replaced by other tendencies and other contacts that marks new stages. Everything is part of everyone´s process, some stagnant, and other renewing themselves, depending on the temperament and concerns of these involved.                                                                                                 Which was good in a period to open in order the further development and goals, then is better closing. And what had been unconscious or unknown it starts to become part of what we value, open to experience to what suits the characteristics of the moment.                                                                                               Know open to or close to, is the challenge that acompanies us every day to choose the most convenient.